Testosterone is a hormone that helps to regulate sex drive, body fat, muscle mass, bone density, and sperm count.
Your body works on a “use it or lose it” principle. It’s very efficient, so it doesn’t make anything you don’t need. If you’re not using muscle, your muscle decreases in size and strength. If you don’t need to produce testosterone to maintain your sperm count and muscle mass, then your body won’t produce as much testosterone.
For this reason, having sex (and orgasming) actually increases your testosterone levels. If you’re regularly expelling sperm, then you need higher testosterone levels to manage increased sperm production.
The reason you’re horny all the time is the same reason you get hungry if you don’t eat. Your brain considers sex to be a basic need, like sleep or water. If you don’t have it, your brain will start urging you to do so. This has very little to do with the testosterone levels of a healthy adult man.
You don't need to date anyone right now. You need to put yourself back together and never do things you don't want to do to please a man. You need your friends and family more than a disrespectful, misogynist, homophobic, racist. Do not travel to see him.
Honestly all the people trying to guilt you into staying seem to be disabled women. Take that how you will.
If you choose to stay, then you need to carve out more time away from her for your own mental health. Realistically, it's not like your financial situation or household obligations would be that much different if you were single, so I would just accept those. But you can't keep dealing with the mental toll from her unloading on you all the time – I would spend as much time possible out of the house, whether it's at a park, cafe, the gym, wherever. Find somewhere where you can decompress and recharge so you can continue with your day-to-day responsibilities. Otherwise, you'll crash and you won't be doing her or yourself any favors.
LDR's are a real challenge and usually don't work very well. This one sounds fishy to me. What's the point of limiting yourself to a nonexistent social life if the LDR is making you unhappy? It seems time to move on.
LDR's are a real challenge and usually don't work very well. This one sounds fishy to me. What's the point of limiting yourself to a nonexistent social life if the LDR is making you unhappy? It seems time to move on.
To answer your questions: 1) It comes up every now and then, and we both bring it up in different ways. Sometimes he makes cheating-related jokes acting like he never cheated and this is when I usually bring it up saying that he has. It bothers me that he acts completely innocent on this. It also sometimes comes up during relationship discussions. We are in a committed relationship but I have told him there are certain things I will never fully trust him on. He believes I should trust him. 2) We both agreed that one of us will finally “win” on this question based on the outcome of this post. If you all agree he didn't cheat, I will drop it. If you agree he did, he's okay with me never trusting him in this specific aspect.
Testosterone is a hormone that helps to regulate sex drive, body fat, muscle mass, bone density, and sperm count.
Your body works on a “use it or lose it” principle. It’s very efficient, so it doesn’t make anything you don’t need. If you’re not using muscle, your muscle decreases in size and strength. If you don’t need to produce testosterone to maintain your sperm count and muscle mass, then your body won’t produce as much testosterone.
For this reason, having sex (and orgasming) actually increases your testosterone levels. If you’re regularly expelling sperm, then you need higher testosterone levels to manage increased sperm production.
The reason you’re horny all the time is the same reason you get hungry if you don’t eat. Your brain considers sex to be a basic need, like sleep or water. If you don’t have it, your brain will start urging you to do so. This has very little to do with the testosterone levels of a healthy adult man.
Yeah…Cinderella prior to marrying the prince.
You don't need to date anyone right now. You need to put yourself back together and never do things you don't want to do to please a man. You need your friends and family more than a disrespectful, misogynist, homophobic, racist. Do not travel to see him.
Honestly all the people trying to guilt you into staying seem to be disabled women. Take that how you will.
If you choose to stay, then you need to carve out more time away from her for your own mental health. Realistically, it's not like your financial situation or household obligations would be that much different if you were single, so I would just accept those. But you can't keep dealing with the mental toll from her unloading on you all the time – I would spend as much time possible out of the house, whether it's at a park, cafe, the gym, wherever. Find somewhere where you can decompress and recharge so you can continue with your day-to-day responsibilities. Otherwise, you'll crash and you won't be doing her or yourself any favors.
“I afforded him the same opportunity.”
You sound incredibly controlling. I’m not sure how you’ve made it this far in your relationship.
LDR's are a real challenge and usually don't work very well. This one sounds fishy to me. What's the point of limiting yourself to a nonexistent social life if the LDR is making you unhappy? It seems time to move on.
LDR's are a real challenge and usually don't work very well. This one sounds fishy to me. What's the point of limiting yourself to a nonexistent social life if the LDR is making you unhappy? It seems time to move on.
wow the best friend has a crush on you. your gf is awful but the bf is a snake ( and not for sending you the videos )
What is your BF saying?
Is he supportive of having the child?
You need to be settled in the decision and soon.
Your absent father could be a present grandfather. He might be disappointed by the timing but happy for the new grandchild.
To answer your questions: 1) It comes up every now and then, and we both bring it up in different ways. Sometimes he makes cheating-related jokes acting like he never cheated and this is when I usually bring it up saying that he has. It bothers me that he acts completely innocent on this. It also sometimes comes up during relationship discussions. We are in a committed relationship but I have told him there are certain things I will never fully trust him on. He believes I should trust him. 2) We both agreed that one of us will finally “win” on this question based on the outcome of this post. If you all agree he didn't cheat, I will drop it. If you agree he did, he's okay with me never trusting him in this specific aspect.