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He is emotionally immature to have gotten together with you while still being emotionally connected to his ex. You get to decide your personal boundaries now. ?♂️
It sounds like you both need better communication. And I will always think that it’s never a bad idea to look at what you can do to make it better before shifting blame and criticism to your partner. (This doesn’t apply to situations where there is clear abuse)
It sounds like you are quick to be defensive. This is probably because she is frequently getting annoyed at you when you feel like you’ve handled the situation appropriately. And as it escalates you both feel justified in your upset because it’s escalated.
Next time try to not escalate. You can be firm without being defensive. I would try making the partner aware that there is another option. “You’re getting mad at me because you think I’ve not taken this reasonable step, when I feel I have done the right thing. Would you like to ask about it before getting mad?”
The other thing is if she gets overly annoyed at something you have done, but you don’t feel the result is justified. “I don’t think it’s fair that you speak to me that way when I’ve done x thing. You make mistakes too and I don’t speak to you that way, and so it’s not okay that you this to me”.
It’s about highlighting the communication being used, instead of trying to defend the issue being raised. By being defensive you’re basically just arguing back, no one is taking the step to be the bigger person. If you do get better at it, you may find she does to, as you’re both learning to better communicate and have better results.
He is emotionally immature to have gotten together with you while still being emotionally connected to his ex. You get to decide your personal boundaries now. ?♂️
I am going to impregnate her soon so she will still have 9 months to finish school
So a booty call then?
It sounds like you both need better communication. And I will always think that it’s never a bad idea to look at what you can do to make it better before shifting blame and criticism to your partner. (This doesn’t apply to situations where there is clear abuse)
It sounds like you are quick to be defensive. This is probably because she is frequently getting annoyed at you when you feel like you’ve handled the situation appropriately. And as it escalates you both feel justified in your upset because it’s escalated.
Next time try to not escalate. You can be firm without being defensive. I would try making the partner aware that there is another option. “You’re getting mad at me because you think I’ve not taken this reasonable step, when I feel I have done the right thing. Would you like to ask about it before getting mad?”
The other thing is if she gets overly annoyed at something you have done, but you don’t feel the result is justified. “I don’t think it’s fair that you speak to me that way when I’ve done x thing. You make mistakes too and I don’t speak to you that way, and so it’s not okay that you this to me”.
It’s about highlighting the communication being used, instead of trying to defend the issue being raised. By being defensive you’re basically just arguing back, no one is taking the step to be the bigger person. If you do get better at it, you may find she does to, as you’re both learning to better communicate and have better results.