I think you two have very different life styles going on now.
Eventually he resent you for asking him to 'clean his act up' and 'nagging' and be the person you want him to be that he ISNT right now
Or you will resent him because you feel like he isnt taking life, his future, or your future seriously.
It may be time to let go. Neither of you is wrong for the way you want to live your lives. However you don't get to tell him how he should be living his life in the process. That could be considered controlling.
Either you let go and let him live his life and accept who he is, or you break up.
You are an idiot if you stay stand your ground and leave like you told yourself you would
I think you two have very different life styles going on now.
Eventually he resent you for asking him to 'clean his act up' and 'nagging' and be the person you want him to be that he ISNT right now
Or you will resent him because you feel like he isnt taking life, his future, or your future seriously.
It may be time to let go. Neither of you is wrong for the way you want to live your lives. However you don't get to tell him how he should be living his life in the process. That could be considered controlling.
Either you let go and let him live his life and accept who he is, or you break up.
Theres many more key details Im probably leaving out, but TBH Ive typed wayyyy too much as is and I have a splitting headache.
I don’t want to get married tomorrow ? But it means more to me but he is on the same page as you