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There used to be a tort called 'criminal conversation', but you're a century or so late in most places.
Be patient. You just need the right time and place.
just date the guy, you’re already pretty much dating anyway
It doesn’t matter how good to get at the machine, you can’t remake fabric that’s already been cut.
That’s why you measure twice and cut once.
About the only thing you can do is alter the length or take them in (make smaller).
He wasted his money on the pants.
Enjoy your new machine though. I have three, serger, overlocker, and a regular. I love each one and they all have a specific job that can’t be done by the others.
It’s good you know this now. It might be hard to move on and there might be a small chance she will change her mind, but you can’t wait to see if that happens. You two are not currently compatible and have different expectations for your respective lives. I know a couple that got married where he wanted kids and she didn’t. I think he expected her to come around to the idea and she never did so they divorced. The other was a friend who never wanted kids ( his wife didn’t either)and they had surprise during their marriage. They have now had another child and it was the best decision they could have made. It’s difficult to provide advice when your both in your early 20s. You both are still growing and maturing at this point in your lives. This might be one of many stances that will change as you get older.
Oof, sorry you’re going through all this. All I can say is that I can see his perspective. It sounds like he has a high sex drive and I know would feel like I was taking advantage of someone who wanted to blow me everyday with no reciprocation. Especially if that person didn’t initiate. And given the recovered memory issue. And car accident. I guess it’s nice of you but is it really what you want?
I do find it kind of crazy that he keeps getting caught whacking off. He is going to continue to masturbate because that’s just what guys do but he could certainly be more discreet. I think y’all should probably get some couples therapy but I do think his behavior is somewhat understandable
he wanted to see me on the first day of classes. we had a fight in september bc i wanted to talk… see so back and fourth
Is there stuff you can still do together that would satisfy him without bothering you? Why not get have an honest conversarion and get creative?
Mutual masturbation, porn, you touching him, etc.
There’s likely stuff you can do to still scratch the sexual itch that also respects your personal boundaries, but that requires communication first.
Except I don’t really live with him…all my stuff is still at my house, I can go back to being there full time anytime I want, I have no lease or mortgage obligations tied to him ? Weird he can’t just relax
Of course you should move on. He left you years ago and he's with someone else.
Sports fans?
you’re right. i have thought about this for a while and it’s only because he’s a boy. but this has only made me not even want her girl friends to see it at this point, so what then? do i just tell her that i don’t want anyone seeing it?
Have you ever read those confessions or reddit posts by women who say “husband/bf wanted to try so and so in porn, and it's really uncomfortable/painful”? Make sure he doesn't become one of those guys in the future. Be clear that it's just for show, and it's not realistic at all.
Secondhand story, so you can doubt it as much as you want: I've heard of someone who watched porn once with their teenage child, to educate them about how unrealistic it is. They always had open discussions with each other, apparently. Of course, it's up to you if you want to take the discussion that far.
I have bpd and dated an untreated narc. I am so sorry you had to experience all that. Untreated bpd is a fucking nightmare, from all sides. I wasn't diagnosed until later in life -28 or 9 I think – and I had always told myself I was just a piece of shit and abusive. I didn't accept it, but I didn't know myself well enough to see it before I was dissociated. I hadn't actually acknowledged the abuse in my own life, and when I finally saw it for what it was, fuck I was able to be what I felt in my soul, not what came out when I was in an episode.
Being who I am, I'd take bpd. The narc fed on me until I was almost dead, up until only a week ago. And he has no idea he almost succeeded in his slow, articulate directions on how he wanted me to kill myself, while I was in an episode of self harm, that he induced. And we aren't even together anymore.
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And then got into the car with one of his buddies
No this is what I was thinking and I had scroll down to find it. All I could think was she's doing it on purpose. I mean honestly who takes pills like that? Also, does she take all pills like that or is it just the benadryl?
Tell him that since you AREN’T “wife material” you don’t need to put how it’s his bullshit like a wife would, and find someone who isn’t a manipulative man child. ?♂️
As some one who recently lost her little sister to a drug OD, I suggest listening to your bf. By him telling you his experiences, and giving advice does not make him controlling. It makes him a great person.
Drugs are harmful to your body, and mind. They can screw you up, and kill you. A great bf, and friend would not encourage you to try drugs, even in a controlled environment.
If she being in love with u fucked twice a guy I don't know what would she doing now after 10 years of seeing the same person
She sounds bipolar.
Don’t like how when you spoke to him about it he said you were overreacting, doesn’t seem to change, when you gave him a taste of his own medicine he hated it but didn’t seem to put two and two together.. and when you told him you weren’t attracted to him he literally said that you are lying?? I don’t think he really respects you to be honest. Unless the way you are communicating with him is always in a joking way that he really believes you’re playing around.
Do you want to get married, or do you want to have a wedding?
Once every 2 days is still a lot of sex, but yeah he needs to tone this down and be a bit less obvious about it
Sure, if she admits she does it, figures out why she does it, and is willing to work on healthier options to avoid it moving forward. For example, people that cheat or monkey branch, they often do it to avoid conflict, so when things get rough rather than work it out with their partner, they just start looking for a new one. But honestly it’s a hard habit to break sometimes it needs therapy and years of it to fix, and by that time she might be onto the next bf.
No, the picture you painted, that the OP didn't.
All OP said was that Evan used to think Anna was pretty, and was curious enough about her to try to get her number. And that Evan already didn't feel anything for Anna even at the very beginning of talking to OP.
That is the entire story.
There is no 'settled.'
'Settled' would be “well I would prefer Anna, but I'll take OP instead.”
There was no overlap of feeling, and there was barely any feeling. He hadn't even met Anna or spent time with her, it sounds like, if he couldn't even get her number. It was literally “she's pretty” and that's it. That's not even a feeling.
I feel you're the one reading far more into this than was included in the OP.
Evan saw Anna, thought she was pretty, couldn't get her number, and had already moved on, when he began talking to OP. That he would have ever thought girls he couldn't get the number of were pretty is pretty much a given. That one of them happened to be OP's sister, is a coincidence. And maybe not even that, if they're in a small social crowd.
4 years of lessons of what not to have from a relationship, you didn't marry her so no alimony or kids. Honestly all things considered you got out of there clean and much wiser. Your only 29 you have a ton of time to find a suitable partner, and lets be honest the bar isnt very high. I hope you find a fantastic woman op.
I only went back to him once. He was a narcissist and I have borderline personality disorder (match made in hell). There’s no excuse for what I did, but we are here now, not in the past. I’m trying to figure out what to do now (not focused on the past).
You don't say anything. Do you straighten or dry your hair? Now you have a new straightener and hair dryer. Ask him if you can donate it to make more room for your stuff, if it really bothers you.
Edit – ahhh. BPD. he really needs to go to group sessions, or private sessions, with you, if your relationship is going to work.
Is he single?
It kind of sounds like you are jealous that she wants your uncle over you more than anything else.
We only have a snapshot of their life so we can't say that for sure just by going off this post. She may not even really see the problems without them being put in front of her. Some people tend to get oblivious when they fall into a pattern, and need problems pointed out to them. There is no harm in trying first. Although I agree it is probably a lost cause, but still not wrong to try. It might also make a divorce less confrontational which is better for all parties, especially the child.
He is, of course. But if his wife finds it unattractive and creepy and is actively less interested in him as a result, that's not within her control.
I'm biased by personal experience, though. My husband's beard isn't maintained well and hasn't been for several years, and I started getting beard-hairs up my nose when kissing. (They reminded me strongly of hairy spider legs and once my brain made that association, I couldn't un-think it.) I researched barbers, suggested fancy beard oil, bought him new clippers by his request, but I couldn't force him to change. The sensory experience became so uncomfortable that I let him know that his facial hair was his choice, but I didn't enjoy kissing anymore. He chose the beard.
It's not the only reason we're ending an almost 20-year marriage, but it was a minor contributing factor. I didn't tell him what to do or threaten anything, just couldn't force myself to kiss anyone whose facial hair feels uncomfortable and off-putting to me. I don't blame OP at all.
I went back to check if I mentioned this, and don’t believe I did. Full disclosure, I’m a guy and I’m happily married. I have a toddler and a dog. I tell you this so that you know I’m not here being negative for the sake of being negative. I love love and I wish you nothing but the absolute best.
But I give advice on here because I’ve been through it all and learned from it. What stood out in your last response was “I just want her to be happy.” In and of itself, that’s great. You’re a good partner. I also want my wife to be happy and I say and do things accordingly to make that happen.
Having said that, there are two people in both of our relationships. You make your wife happy. I make my wife happy. Is that where it ends? No way. My wife makes me happy. If she didn’t, why on earth would I be with her? I matter. So again in saying that, you matter. You want your wife to be happy. Awesome. But what about you? Can you not both be happy? Would be pretty awful if that was true.
So as for the kid conversation, stop asking and start being firm. You just told me not having kids isn’t an option. That’s fine. Now tell her that and don’t allow her to deflect. If she does, then at that point you need to start seriously considering a bigger decision.
You’re not in the wrong and your friend sounds like trouble… new friends?
You should. Because it is an issue.
I am 31 and I would only date a 19 year old for her body. Basically you just finished high-school and I finished college 8 years ago.
This is disgusting behavior. My sibling in laws are just that… They are my siblings. Who views their siblings in a sexual way? Not only that but he told his wife he wanted you. He's gross.
The fact that she keeps trying to justify what she did by attributing that as a direct correlation to my flaws really bothers me.
As it should. Nobody made her cheat. That's her responsibility. If she was unhappy, she had the option to tell you that she was and why, she had the choice to set clear boundaries, or even to end the relationship. She did none of these things – she set out to cheat, instead.
In the end, while she precipitated the end of the relationship, you contributed as well, unintentionally. This is a lesson to both of you – and a bullet dodged for you both as well. All relationships end, after all – some after the death of a partner, and others via breakups/divorces. You just got the end faster than most.
Communications, boundaries, and clear expectations are the key to a healthy relationship – along with mutual respect, support, trust, and compassion. You know, now, what parts you need to work on, and you can focus on that as you recover from this ordeal. Please talk to someone about this – and don't let it become a foundational experience for you going forward. It was a lesson, not a sentence, after all.
Good luck, OP.
The fact that she keeps trying to justify what she did by attributing that as a direct correlation to my flaws really bothers me.
As it should. Nobody made her cheat. That's her responsibility. If she was unhappy, she had the option to tell you that she was and why, she had the choice to set clear boundaries, or even to end the relationship. She did none of these things – she set out to cheat, instead.
In the end, while she precipitated the end of the relationship, you contributed as well, unintentionally. This is a lesson to both of you – and a bullet dodged for you both as well. All relationships end, after all – some after the death of a partner, and others via breakups/divorces. You just got the end faster than most.
Communications, boundaries, and clear expectations are the key to a healthy relationship – along with mutual respect, support, trust, and compassion. You know, now, what parts you need to work on, and you can focus on that as you recover from this ordeal. Please talk to someone about this – and don't let it become a foundational experience for you going forward. It was a lesson, not a sentence, after all.
Good luck, OP.
I have and she doesn’t seem scared? If this is a post reaching out for help in that way, I am not seeing it. She needs to block his number and go completely no contact. She needs to give no response and avoid him in person. Start arming herself for protection with a knife or pepper spray. Getting copies of all interactions from the cell phone provider and at least campus security reports on the harassment.
Cheating is cheating. She’s just trying to sugarcoat it.
She lashed out at you in anger. I would take whatever she said with a grain of salt. She probably lied to hurt you knowing that you couldn’t disprove what she said.
If you are going to break up then do it as soon as possible. You do not want to be navigating all the things you have to do after graduation while also dealing with a break up.
It’s okay to be pushy when you give friends money and they don’t do what they said they would do.
If your friend reacts poorly to you asking politely, that tells you all you need to know.