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Date: December 26, 2022
Thank you for being the only understanding and kind person on this thread. I was recommended DBT but my therapist doesn’t believe I am borderline (I do) so they haven’t implemented it.
That's really fast to move in with someone. I would work on getting your own place and moving on.
You matured someone you KNEW was only 20% likely to choose to have kids, when you knew you were the exact opposite stat of that…
What were you thinking would happen?
I’m not excellent at the maths, but if you each have a one in five chances (at best) of ever agreeing on something SO major that doesn’t sound like s recipe for success.
And here’s the thing, kids aren’t like… a house or a car which you can sell if she regrets the decision. Once she has them she’s committed – forever. She can’t take it back. She can’t walk away. You can’t try it out and change your mind if you don’t like it.
That means that if you are deciding to commit despite this one in five chances what you are agreeing to is YOU not getting what you want.
If you can’t be ok with that then you’re going to have to face that and make decisions.
Check out her comments about how she thinks it’s discrimination due to their skin colour ??♀️
Why do you need a man, or a woman?
You don't. You are looking for acceptance. What you've got to do is look for yourself. Drop the partner hunt, focus on becoming a nurse like you want to. All energy and focus on you. Once you are on solid ground as you, your family will be out of your life (they drain you, it's not a healthy relationship to be in).
Stop ranting to your friends, use free phone numbers like samaritans and the like.
Very few people can take on other people's drama and trauma without being negatively affected by it themselves.. You've got to close the door on the people causing drama and trauma. Once you do, life will improve immediately because there will be no new drama and trauma occurring. Then, like I said, use the free help lines to offload about how past trauma has affected you. Sure tell your friends and next boyfriend you've been through it, but live for you know. Friends and boyfriends are people to find happiness with,.
It'll take a bit of time, but you'll get a perspective on what's happened, and it'll stop making you constantly miserable and needy. Then comes the work to break negative, self destructive habits, which noticed one at a time are manageable, remember they are bad habits and habits can be broken.
What decision? You keep breaking up with your gf. Sounds like you do t even like your gf much. Just leave her & move in.