My dude if you don't wanna get pegged then tell her no. If she argues remind her that no means no, even if it is a man telling a woman no. It's still a no.
She isn’t asking you to play daddy. She is asking you in a date. You are taking a big jump from date to daddy in your head. You can always tell her you don’t date women with kids or that you don’t want to meet the kid ever. If she is a good parent, you won’t be meeting the kid anyways until things are actually serious between you two after at least 6 months.
Stop wasting her time. Let her be with someone who wants to have a baby. Let her start finding that partner soon, before it’s too late.
You love her and want what’s best for her. Unfortunately, breaking up with her is what’s best for both of you. It will hurt, but it’s preferable to the alternatives, which is to father a child that you want nothing to do with, or to make her give up her dream of motherhood. These other paths will lead to resentment.
Luckily I see both a psychiatrist and a therapist. I have had depression/anxiety for years, and I think what this is now is a mixture of postpartum depression. And no worries, he was with his grandma when I was drinking. I couldn’t put my son through all that like my mother would do to me.
You can tell him how you feel, and you should. However, he may also not stop. This seems important to him. Hopefully, he will listen to you and be willing to compromise.
She's simply asking for a relationship. You don't have time for a relationship. Go be alone with your school deadlines and your bands. If you can't make time for a partner you don't deserve one.
To be honest I'm not sure where I want it to go just yet. I know that having had lots of sex doesn't make me good at sex, I just know that from my experience and from those that I know, generally you learn more as you go and you do get more confident and better over time as you understand yourself and your own preferences more, and understand how everyone is different and can like different things.
Been married over 20 years, and those ball and chain jokes always have a tiny bit of truth to them. Especially once the alcohol kicks in. My guess, the thought has crossed her mind at least once.
He likes the song, the rhythm, whatever?
I put up Feindflug – AK47 or Nachtmahr – Mädchen in Uniform for sex. Doesn't mean much. Just that we like that music.
My dude if you don't wanna get pegged then tell her no. If she argues remind her that no means no, even if it is a man telling a woman no. It's still a no.
That’s exactly what I was thinking. “Feeding them shots” that sounds predatory.
She isn’t asking you to play daddy. She is asking you in a date. You are taking a big jump from date to daddy in your head. You can always tell her you don’t date women with kids or that you don’t want to meet the kid ever. If she is a good parent, you won’t be meeting the kid anyways until things are actually serious between you two after at least 6 months.
Stop texting him.about how you're feeling unless he can help minimize some way.
Remove “do what you want” from your cache of expressions permanently.
Stop wasting her time. Let her be with someone who wants to have a baby. Let her start finding that partner soon, before it’s too late.
You love her and want what’s best for her. Unfortunately, breaking up with her is what’s best for both of you. It will hurt, but it’s preferable to the alternatives, which is to father a child that you want nothing to do with, or to make her give up her dream of motherhood. These other paths will lead to resentment.
Luckily I see both a psychiatrist and a therapist. I have had depression/anxiety for years, and I think what this is now is a mixture of postpartum depression. And no worries, he was with his grandma when I was drinking. I couldn’t put my son through all that like my mother would do to me.
But thank you, it has indeed been rough ?
You can tell him how you feel, and you should. However, he may also not stop. This seems important to him. Hopefully, he will listen to you and be willing to compromise.
She's simply asking for a relationship. You don't have time for a relationship. Go be alone with your school deadlines and your bands. If you can't make time for a partner you don't deserve one.
Hey!! I remember your AITA post! The comments there gave some good advice.
No advice from me, sadly. But whatever decision you make, I wish you the best of luck.
Yes. His parents’ house.
To be honest I'm not sure where I want it to go just yet. I know that having had lots of sex doesn't make me good at sex, I just know that from my experience and from those that I know, generally you learn more as you go and you do get more confident and better over time as you understand yourself and your own preferences more, and understand how everyone is different and can like different things.
We don’t tip for drinks in Ireland or the UK
Been married over 20 years, and those ball and chain jokes always have a tiny bit of truth to them. Especially once the alcohol kicks in. My guess, the thought has crossed her mind at least once.