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Striptease [Multi Goal]
Date: November 24, 2022
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You're right to be confused and hurt. Let yourself go through it, just make sure you come out the other side. I promise you there's a good life for you without him in it, you just can't see it yet.
As an honest opinion: If he didn't even include you in his decision making process, he wasn't much of a partner to you and probably wouldn't have been a good long-term partner anyway. He was only there for the good times, not the hard times.
Being partners means you share, discuss and weigh options. If he wasn't willing to do that for you, it sounds like he had made his mind up some time ago.
I'd try to be glad he showed his true colours within a year, that's a blessing in disguise.
A final thing, for when you're not hurting as much as now: You can still cherish that you got to have something fun and nice, even if for only a while. Learn something about how you want to live life from this. You said he showed you places you haven't been, maybe think about places you'd like to visit? Even if it's just a restaurant in town. Reclaim your life that way. He might not be in it but maybe he showed you something you need to do for yourself.
You got this ❤️
You're already Separating so why stir the pot more? Get out and don't look back, what happens next with her isn't your concern
You’re not evil but this was so cruel of you. Please tell her, she deserves to know.
That would be something I’d totally be down for but hell would freeze over before she’d be on board lol but I’ll keep it in the back pocket
There are plenty of people who only date one person at a time. It doesn’t mean he decided “you’re the one” and he’s ready to marry you. It means he’s going to give this a sincere try and focus on this and not other people.
As a parent (and a divorced parent at that) I just want to say most parents don’t actually sleep much on Christmas night. We usually are building toys and cursing Santa until 4 or 5am. It’s very possible that he will be helping her set things up most of the night and that’s why he wants to be there over night.
Your parents don’t value your happiness. They’ve said as much. They value appearances and they don’t think much of your opinion.
Whether your relationship works out or not shouldn’t really be an issue for them because YOU should be important to them. You’re not.
It’s sadder because you clearly care more for your parents than they do for you. I think you should consider this.
I think the getting angry at the topic is probably the biggest reason. But follow up question, does your bf look down on others for using thc?
100% he is the one cheating
Upkeeping of a brand new car IS a part of financial decision between married couples, regardless of whether they can afford it or not. it’s common sense.
Is a nurse cheating when she put a catheter into a penis? Am I cheating when I implant an embryo. No she is dumb. Unless you are getting sexual wit them its just a part of the job.
That’s when you pack your bags, you look him dead in the face, fart, and say tootdeloo
You could get a backbone and choose to respect yourself more than she does, which, despite being a complete doormat and spineless, shouldn’t be that hard given that she has zero respect for you whatsoever
Are you honestly prepared to live out the rest of your days on Earth with this brain-dead moron? Think about that.
Are you kids older now?
Well that's usually what happens as time goes on.
Not your choice though ?♀️ why harass people online just because you don’t agree. I know many people that are actually happy in their relationships that have these boundaries. All the people I know that make fun of boundaries are normally serial daters and cheaters.
You should have high expectations. It is him. He’s shown you that clearly by his words and actions. Believe him.
The problem is that I painted him in a good light for too long. Once his cruelty got to be too overt I just felt like a fool for sticking around so long.
You didn’t know your ID has your birthdate?
Why are you with this guy? It sounds like you can’t stand him. It’s only been 4 months and he’s being a controlling douche. This will not get better, just cut and run now.
None of what you’ve said comes off as wrong, and I’m sorry you are going through this.
I think your girlfriend has some serious issues that she needs to sort out if she has a significant problem with you vaping. You’re not smoking cigarettes, and I don’t see how this is an issue. I’ve been vaping for almost a decade and I’m married, so maybe I’m just biased, but I like vaping a heck of a lot more than cigarettes, that’s for sure.
If she has a problem with this habit, she should have come out an said something. It’s up to you if you want to quit, but even if you don’t, that’s your choice and shouldn’t be a significant problem.
I do think she’s playing mind games with you, and I don’t think he has feelings for you from the way she’s treating you. She treats you as if you’re a nuisance, and she makes it apparent that she doesn’t want to be around you. This isn’t fair to you and she’s wasting so much of your time to keep leading you on this way. It sounds like she doesn’t want to be with you but doesn’t want you to be with anyone else and that’s ridiculous.
I think you’d be better off ending this relationship. You deserve better, and I think you both need to call this relationship quits and to go your own way.
Instead of being honest with yourself, you are scrambling to somehow “fix” what you don’t like about where your life is now despite the fact you willingly chose each step you took away from your family, and are trying to turn back the clock to a happier time you can never return to.
Let go of your ex. You need to stop fantasizing about redeeming yourself and finding a way back into her life. That’s 100% selfish and in no way takes into consideration the complete 180* you have caused your family and how that has changed the trajectory of their lives and yours.
You cracked the old foundation you created with your family and they’ve had to relocate and build a whole new foundation from scratch in order to start a stable life they can trust and thrive in.
You need to worry about finding your own place to start your life, and quit grasping at others as though they’ll be your lifeline.
You are your own lifeline. Save yourself from more misery and figure out who you want to be, and start working towards a better, healthier and happier you. You won’t be able to truly know if you are happy in a relationship until you are happy with yourself.
Nope, she is in the wrong!!
I'm wondering if she has a fungal infection on her scalp. It can have an unpleasant sharp smell in my experience.
Thanks for the comment, to answer your questions…
I noticed her smell the first time we had sex (third date). When her clothes came off I got a whiff and it was quite strong. She also has a thick patch of hair going from her belly button to her genitals, which was kind of crusty/dusty looking.
No hair extensions, but she does sleep naked and her body is very very warm, so she often has a fan on her (even though we are in winter).
I'm not sure what her wiping is, but she is insanely fast in the morning toilet, not even two minutes all in.
Her diet is a pretty standard one, she has toast or cereal in the morning, some kind of pasta or sandwich at lunch and dinner is varied.
I shall take on your advice, as we are meeting later today at my place.
I would leave dude, you tried your best
In a way, it really is a type of brainwashing that is disguised as harmless entertainment.
If it's working then you don't need to worry. You can check up on her every once in a while to see if she wants to try anything new but if she doesn't have any complaints and you yourself feel satisfied as well, you don't need to keep talking about it.
It admittedly is a little weird, but so what? As long as you and your boyfriend both enjoy it your mom can pound sand.
you don’t tell them that that is the reason. it will make you look extremely bad and you might permanently damage them mentally. you break up with them with other excuse.
Why would she hit the dating pool? She doesn’t want love or intimacy.
Shes gaslighting you man. Dont be anywhere around her anymore. Why are you doubting yourself?
It's the same as us geriatric millennials. We thought and did the stupidest relationship things at that age but we didn't have the ability to broadcast it to the world like they do now. Not gonna lie though it's entertaining reading. Much better than Dear Abby ?
Is this what happens when people with the minds of children get married?
go without him
Some part of you can still have a certain love for people in your past and the memories you share. That doesn’t mean you have to express that and exchange that information with them.
A mature man ?
This is the one, OP.
Like….
I didn't upset myself, I was just asking for other people's perspective on if they would or wouldn't I'm not looking for a Dr Phil sitdown. Just a yes I would or no I wouldnt.
Honestly? Seems clear to me he isn’t interested in being with you, but you don’t take no for an answer so he deflects and tries to drop hints to make you get it without outwardly saying it.
If he wants to break up, you break up. You can’t force him to stay just because you want it.
It’s ok if our partners aren’t interested in all of our passions. I find baseball boring, but my husband loves it. I go to a game here and there, but mainly he goes solo (and trades his two tickets for one upgraded seat). I love making art and doing craft shows, but he would be bored to tears hanging out in a booth with me for several hours at a time. Then there are things we both enjoy, like hockey, or shows we like to binge together. It all works out in the end.
My best advice is to A) enjoy your own company, B) not try to force interest he simply doesn’t share, and C) work together with him to find things you can do that you both love.
I have a partner who ran for years, and loved competing in races. I probably sounded a lot like your spouse – early mornings, standing around waiting to see him finish, experiencing my lack of enthusiasm in the face of his runner’s high – and it was boring as hell to me. I can tell you that, for me, I did get frustrated when he put soooo many hours into running but was too tired to save any of that time or energy for me and the kids. Making family plans had to revolve around running and races often, and sometimes it felt a lot like running was more important than us. NOT his intention, by the way, but it was sometimes my perception.
Communicate with your husband. Find out the root reasons he doesn’t share your joy. Maybe he (like me) has physical limitations that prevent his from participating, and that makes him feel sad, frustrated, or even a little resentful because his body holds him back. Maybe he feels you get really excited about running, but don’t have that level of energy about him. Maybe you have races or running schedules that tend to interfere with weekend plans with him. Maybe he feels he’s pulling more weight around the house because your energy is spent more on running. Or maybe he simply doesn’t get the attraction for your passion for running. You won’t know until you invest time and energy into communicating with him.
It’s ok if our partners aren’t interested in all of our passions. I find baseball boring, but my husband loves it. I go to a game here and there, but mainly he goes solo (and trades his two tickets for one upgraded seat). I love making art and doing craft shows, but he would be bored to tears hanging out in a booth with me for several hours at a time. Then there are things we both enjoy, like hockey, or shows we like to binge together. It all works out in the end.
My best advice is to A) enjoy your own company, B) not try to force interest he simply doesn’t share, and C) work together with him to find things you can do that you both love.
I have a partner who ran for years, and loved competing in races. I probably sounded a lot like your spouse – early mornings, standing around waiting to see him finish, experiencing my lack of enthusiasm in the face of his runner’s high – and it was boring as hell to me. I can tell you that, for me, I did get frustrated when he put soooo many hours into running but was too tired to save any of that time or energy for me and the kids. Making family plans had to revolve around running and races often, and sometimes it felt a lot like running was more important than us. NOT his intention, by the way, but it was sometimes my perception.
Communicate with your husband. Find out the root reasons he doesn’t share your joy. Maybe he (like me) has physical limitations that prevent his from participating, and that makes him feel sad, frustrated, or even a little resentful because his body holds him back. Maybe he feels you get really excited about running, but don’t have that level of energy about him. Maybe you have races or running schedules that tend to interfere with weekend plans with him. Maybe he feels he’s pulling more weight around the house because your energy is spent more on running. Or maybe he simply doesn’t get the attraction for your passion for running. You won’t know until you invest time and energy into communicating with him.
Wait, if he was supposed to leave for his parents in April, he wouldn’t have been at your graduation in May anyway.
He hasn’t seen his parents in three years.
Get over it or move on. You’re being silly.
idc how much progress somebody is making dog, if they ruin my vacation they're out. You don't have to live this way.
As long as you understand that this would just be easing into an inevitable breakup you just tell him you can't keep up with him sexually so you're giving him a hall pass to sleep with other people. You could perhaps keep up an “open relationship” for a few years while he works through the hormones of youthful indiscretion. But eventually he'll have sex with someone he's able to bond with, and that's when he'll leave you. It's fine to be asexual or just disinterested in sex. But you can't really be like that and expect to maintain a relationship with someone who has a libido. You and he may just be a mismatch.
You've done nothing wrong. Quit trying to convince her. Let her know how crappy it is that she doesn't have any faith in you.
Are you going to post every time this guy sends you a text? Because if so, please stop.
Please, please talk to someone you trust about this. And don't be ashamed of marrying him. He obviously isn't the man you feel in love with.
Hire a doula and tell him that you do not want him in the delivery room. If he can't be supportive now, while you pregnant, then he definitely won't be while your in labor and during the delivery.
And in all honesty I'd probably be looking for a divorce lawyer.
Good luck and remember 1 thing
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOUR BODY IS AMAZING!!! ffs you grew 2 whole human beings
I’m saying they should relax. They may feel the same way 10 years from now… but it’s not likely.
1) why put him on your house title? 2) why put you on his house title?
Yeah, creating another account on social media might provide answers
Whatever the issues are, is she taking any actions to manage or remediate them?
I was actually referring to the job opportunity she found for her husband. No new job will transform his crappy personality.
Don't interact with Bob. Let him drown on his own.
That's just not what emotional infidelity is. I honestly don't know what defining it as such is so important to you. She hasn't crossed boundaries either. And to be clear, I'm not here defending her at all. I'm just pointing out the facts.
The only fact you need to focus on is she's questioning your relationship over a crush. It's not cheating and it's not crossing boundaries. It's simply someone who has checked out of your relationship, and that should make you not want to be in it. It seems like you need to point out that it's cheating in order to justify whatever your next move is. You don't. “I'm not going to stay in a relationship with someone who questions our relationship while having a crush.” The end.
I'm sorry you're in this situation. I know you're hurting and it's awful. But you're focusing on the wrong thing here.
The parking incident is a huge red flag. Don't marry him.
Yes, I feel for you because I've been there but I worked a hard fulltime job and contributed to bills. I would get knee deep into my hobbies and didn't contribute much. It was aweful. He cooked and cleaned, when I cleaned I didn't feel appreciated so I said fuck it and didn't do much at all. When he tried, I didn't care when I tried, he didn't care. It's never endeding. There has to be some shock factor for change to hapoen. People don't change unless the have seen enough done enough or had enough. Who will break first?