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Hard agree on this. We have a friend who just had a baby son and he was shocked when the little boy came out the actual spitting image, carbon copy of his wife. It took him a while to wrap his head around the fact that “boy” doesn’t mean “looks like dad” and “girl” doesn’t mean “looks like mom”. He’s a bit more relaxed about it now but it’s still clear he feels a little salty about it.
does it legitimately feel like she’s angry about space? there could be something else nagging her that she’s not able to properly communicate, but you should use your best judgement to take a clear look at the situation and try to take the relationship glasses off.
But like I feel like this personality has changed and just acts completely different and is no longer wanting to do things that they used to do and is there is no longer attraction since the other person is on hormones but I know this person is still loves me because they have always came back after we have been fight and argue we always make up and I know it’s sincere.
Brother, you can't please everyone. She clearly means a lot to you from the way you talk about her, but you can't hide this from her. If she walks away because of it then that's okay as well, just understand it wasn't meant to be.
Notice this comment is 100% factual without talking about sex. Frame it in this way when you talk to her or we will see another post “my bf says I need to have sex with him or he'll break up with me”
So what are you looking for advice on? How to save your relationship? What did she say in any of this? How have you been a bad partner in the past?
Im for prenups as well and I’m not projecting, I bring it up because it’s talked about in the comments but also in society’s standpoint, generally it’s the man that asks for the prenup and the woman will feel some type of way.
The projection was you making a scenario that what she wrote read like “as he looks deadly types you must get a prenup if we get married!!!” Then looks over at his massive gun collection on the wall over his bed. You’re literally making him seem like something he isn’t based on no evidence other than you “got a vibe”
He only brought up being married because she asked and he only mentioned prenups because she talked marriage. Cause and effect is all that happened here but apparently it’s all being viewed as he is the big red flag for having his past that was revealed only when asked and having preferences on a topic she brought up
Ugh, there goes my reading comprehension! That's good.
Have you felt this way before with other partners? Does she talk about exes and crushes a lot? Have you ever been cheated on, or lied to by a partner?
Unless it negatively affects those you care about.
I’m glad your ex had someone in her life who had some respect and loyalty for her. Your brother is a good man.
She’s telling you by getting another IUD at the age of 35 she 100% does not want children. So you need to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with your wife doing things together or if you need to move on and find someone who does want kids. This kind of seems like something you should’ve figured out before you got married.
Do you see a therapist? If not you should really try and get in somewhere. It can be hugely beneficial in helping you navigating difficult situations like this. I can’t encourage you enough to reach out to some local offices to try and get in to see someone as soon as you can.
I will also say that truly good friends would never make you feel this way. Good friends will always try and make you feel seen and loved.
You seem like you’re really a good friend, and I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way about people you’ve spent such a big portion of your life with.
I’m sorry I can’t offer much more, but what I do know is that I’ve felt similarly to the way you describe, and since then I no longer hang out with those people. I’ve been able to make a new group of friends who are all incredibly supportive of me and love me for who I am. Of course I had to work on myself along the way, but having a therapist really helped with that. I don’t see a therapist anymore, and I don’t feel that I need to because of the support and love that I’m shown by friends on a daily basis.
Good friends love you for who you are, see you where you’re at, support you in your best and worst times, and call you out when you’re being a dummy.
I hope this helps even a little ?
Of course he made you keep it secret. Even without the fiancée this is grossly unprofessional and possibly even illegal on his part.
I think you don’t realise that his career is under greater threat than yours in this situation. Rest assured he’s more worried about that than he is about his fiancée finding out.
You definitely do have choices. The 3 I mentioned in my 1st comment are all better options than what you’re trying to organise. You simply go to the appropriate authority at the institution.
Stop ordering take out. If someone comes to my house and wants food and I’ve not planned for it, they get toast or crisps.
Also ask gf about the money. Maybe she’s panicking about how to pay it back, you can agree a payment plan. Like £20 a week or something equally manageable.
Finally if she suggests something you just say “we can do that but I’ve not budgeted for us all, so maybe we should do something cheaper”. Either she offers then to pay for herself, or you do something else. There’s lots of free things, like nice walks, or watching a film together,
If this was a one off instance of them prioritising your brother over you, I'd probably have said go to the wedding as dates/vendors etc likely were booked well ahead of time and couldn't be changed. In that scenario I'd at least expect my family to throw a graduation party or similar to celebrate me. However since you're always having to fold for them and you don't ever seem to be the priority, choose yourself for once. Go to your graduation, invite some of your closest friends, have a blast. Celebrate your achievement, it's a bloody big one! Just talk to your brother and make sure he knows how much you'd love to be there, but that this is an incredibly important achievement in your life. It's likely that he won't understand and that your relationship won't be the same, but it doesn't sound terribly functional to begin with.
You’re making a lot of guarantees for someone who can’t read.
You're young and stupid. I get it.
Sounds like he's working up the nerve to try romance.
Since you already go out together, he needs to find a way to initiate, besides asking you out.
Delicate situation, because if you initiate physical contact, it might scare him off. Think you need to be patient, but try to find close quiet situations where it would be easy to give you a kiss, and then smile.
Also, you can initiate a little more physical contact by touching him incidentally on the upper arm. This lets him know you are okay with touching.
Hope that helps.
Are you sure you’re too old? They have vaccines that go up to 45 now
They’re right though.
And it doesn’t even have to be “your fault” or “his fault” for it to not work out, if that makes you feel better about it. You aren’t obligated to stay with someone you don’t like just because they’re not actively mean/evil/abusive. You can just…not fit.
That’s enough reason to break up.
If it's not because of the assault, why is your title “I'm (25M) thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend (24F) because she was sexually assaulted”? Her drinking habits definitely provide grounds to break up with her, but it sounds like it subconsciously is about the sexual assault, or else you're using her SA as clickbait.
I have ADHD. It absolutely does not make you suck in bed. He's literally just a selfish asshole who doesn't care if you're having fun.
Oh, it's not the happiest day of his life? Look, I understand your side most, but if you come between that man and his mama coming to his mofo wedding, girl you're already divorced, you just don't know it. I understand you're probably a lil jelly, even if you lie that you're family went be there. But they're going to be you're mom and dad till you die or hopefully not, God forbid, divorce. That's you're family, embrace them. Plus, if you ain't got parents but you end up having kids but your still young and want to live life with the hubs, thems the ones, sis, think of your future. This is important and crucial to your future sanity!!! Good luck, don't be a jerk, it's both of y'all's happiest day, try to remember he is marrying you, I mean, for serious you're the best damn thing that's happened to him and he just wants his most loved people to cherish it with him. You can trade all that in for a wedding that he'll regret and later, you will too, it won't have the same celebration atmosphere, he'll not see you as breathtakingly wonderfully the best girl. He'll say gosh she looks pretty wish my mom was here. Do you really want that? Or a gorgeous celebration, he's up there he's got the goofiest smile thinking, where's my breath, she's beautiful, she's gorgeous, I'm so proud, I bet my mama is proud and she is, because she can rest knowing her baby's heart is in the hands of an angelic devilish heart of gold. She can trust you more. Then y'all party like the wild ones you are, then you and hubby get to experience something glorious together privately in Hawaii where you'll probably just screw all the time and see Hawaii when you're not. Better than mine, damn I'm making myself so jealous. Good luck, sis, don't be a dick, I'm willing to bet your Hawaii trip that if you force this man to have your dream wedding, your dream wedding will be your nightmare. I'm just letting you know what I know. It's totally up to you to believe me or not. I still wish you the best wedding, even if it's in Hawaii. Congratulations, y'all, aaahhh! So exciting!
What exactly does “taking care of her” entail. Is it just paying the bills, or does she expect him to do the cooking/cleaning etc too?
Have you shown him examples of other women her age who are perfectly capable of living alone?
That explains why you aren’t having sex. She’s cheated, and probably needs the condoms for you! She probably can’t have sex with them because it’s a STD. Ask to see her STD results. I’d be more concerned with the warts!!!!