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Hey OP! I (28 F) was once in your shoes when I was 13. The burden of carrying it alone is far greater than it being known to everyone. This is a burden you should not carry alone, and it’s hard to not feel isolated in this situation.
As someone whose been in your shoes here are a few things I wish I knew/
1) First and foremost protect yourself, you do not need to know what happens behind close doors between your parents once your dad tells your mom. It is not your battle to fight, or your decision to make it’s theirs.
2) Please, please seek help. If nothing else having a school guidance counselor or therapist to talk to about this will help you process and I hope will help you in the future. No one ever got me help, I really struggled and had many issues in my early 20’s that I’ve since overcome as a result of this.
3) How you feel now, use this as a learning experience. In 10-15 years down the road, when you’re starting to settle down with a long term partner you know commitment is commitment and what being unfaithful can do. This experience helped me chooses my lifelong partner wisely and also made dating in my 20’s, albeit annoying for others, really successful in getting to know people and rebuild trust in creating friendships and relationships.
If nothing else, please know it’s not your burden o carry you’re still a kid and have so much life a head of you. Take the space and time to heal.
It is NEVER a good idea to become a stay at home mom because the dude wants you to. NEVER. Why any woman would make herself dependent on a man in this day and age I will never understand, ever.
There's possibly more going on here, that you're not telling us?
If that’s the case I agree but it seems like people are jumping to conclusions about this guy and his character with almost no information besides one side to this story. For all we know him buying the pants was a completely separate event and had nothing to do with him gifting her the machine. There’s no way of knowing if this guy is a jerk or not without until she talks to him about it
If he loves you he will 🙂 just tell him you see things from his side. Just be careful so going forward, it's fine that he is mad.. But, that dosent mean he is allowed to abuse you or make your life a living hell.. Ok? Slacken your bounderies a little but don't lett him do whatever he wants
Oh fuck off. Reddit is crazy. Can’t condone what your sister does but you’re gonna stoop to her level? Psychotic Reddit behaviour
Seek therapy.
26 and pretty much just one. It was emotionally abusive and I stayed for a while because I was young and lonely and really just didn't know it was supposed to be different.
This is an interesting response. I definitely feel like I'm doing something bad so maybe just being alone is the answer. Thanks
If she has that child for you, she may grow to resent you.
Much more importantly, she might resent the kid.
You sure do.
I would write her an email notifying her why you are going nc with her.
Then refuse to ever visit her for go out with her.
If this breaks family time, tough shit.
You're not broken. You're simply learning. Now you have time for YOU, the most important person in YOUR life. And there's room for someone to come along and add to your life. NOT become your life, ADD to it with love and companionship. You will be OK. Everything will be OK.
Well it’s for marriages from our pact. And I still have a real marriage to have sooo…
Just be mindful of what you're saying when you're giving feedback.
Can two people who grow in a different direction still be together.
Isn’t playfighting for little kids?
Yep.
Anymore? So there was problem solving at one point? Usually defensiveness is baked into the relationship from the get go. Even in manipulative circumstances where people fake being nice, defensiveness is still there just softer forms like deflection. Is the abusive language new too?
The thing is he is fine when he is working. I have no shame surrounding my children. I know im a damn good mom and they have an amazing life. I think this all stems from him having shame because he isn’t supporting us financially right now.
You need to sit down and have a talk with them about this. As a fellow stoner I know that while it’s nice to have a smokey evening, there are times where people can rely on that too heavily. That being said your journey is your journey, but your partner might be concerned about you heading down that path. Sitting down and reassuring them or even just laying everything out in the open would probably help towards getting to the core of this issue.
See your school counselor, take out student loans, get a job and move out yourself. Do they want to live with you when you get married also? They sound very controlling and your mom talking about burning herself alive? Ridiculous. I’m sorry. They are old-school, controlling and close-minded.
She’s in all your classes, in your bands, and works at your work?
The world is unkind to people who chose their spouses over their children but sure make it a mother issue
Omg I’m the opposite. I would NEVER date a man who demanded my child not live in MY own home because he doesn’t want to live with children who aren’t his . My daughter and I are package deal.
I think about as an “acknowledgement”. Showing that you see and understand why the other person feels how they do. It is not just hearing what someone says, but emotionally engaging in it with your own empathy.
She sure lacks empathy as she refuses to acknowledge your feelings. She simply has no interest in them. She may hear them, even say something about them, she does not put effort to understand them.
You deserve better than this.
So basically it's a he said/she said between bf and the girl? Ask the girl for screenshots of their texts. I don't think bf should be getting another girl (who happens to be posting explicit photos online) phone number. It's def cheating adjacent.
He went out with his ex and their old friends before he knew you. It's pretty obvious he wants to hold onto his past and not include you. I think it's pretty telling that he doesn't even care enough about you to give you a legit excuse. Instead it's “I don't know.” Do some thinking about how you want to live your life. I, for one, would want to be with someone who includes me in his life instead of ditching you to hang with an ex
Reported.
Yeah I lived in NYC but also was born and raised and moved back to one of its major suburbs and let me just say: not everyone in the city is into cocaine and drinking until they puke. Also, not ever lawyer is a mindless drone who doesn’t do anything fun. I work as a nurse coordinator in oncology with some of the most underserved patients in all of the city alongside some of the smartest minds I’ve ever met and we all have hobbies and interests that can teeter on mindless at times. But that’s because we battle disease and death every day and sometimes we just want to sit down with a glass of wine in our hand and watch funny tv shows or read and comment on bullshit (and also likely clickbait fake posts) on Reddit. I spend all day reason medical literature. I spend my days off reading medical literature. Sometimes we just need to shut ourselves down and prevent massive burnout however we can. Your boyfriend sounds dramatically boring and stuck up. But if that’s what you’re into don’t let me spoil it. Enjoy your slice of boring, bland, unbuttered toast.
She is more important to me. I never go behind her back with any of this. We always talk about it before hand. That’s why I’m asking for advice to navigate this situation.
Why you are you more worried about your husband and his buddy’s opinion? His actions are abusive.