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An apology without change is manipulation. I am so sorry you are going through this. Unless she seriously goes to therapy with anger management classes she won't be able to change. This is learned behavior and she believes it's normal.
If not for yourself, the for your children please seek safety away from her. There is no shame in wanting your children to grow up knowing self worth and how to set boundaries. This is not how normal people treat each other and definitely not the way you treat someone you love.
I know it's easier said than done… because I've been there. Blessings and strength my friend.
I know someone who was with another someone who was HIV+, and that other someone died of AIDS, but the first someone was, and still is, okay. Because they BOTH knew what they were dealing with. This 23 year old young man is being used.
I mean he was right not to believe it, what do you want people to say? How dare he? No, I am glad as you lied to him.
HE is going to therapy because of YOUR sugaring days?. Why is he forcing himself to be with you, I wonder.
Do you like your bf to be this in pain just to be with you?.
I’d like him to – I think his depression inhibits some executive functioning to go to any doctor. I’m trying to be supportive without pushy and it’s hard to find the balance.
It seems like your husband is being very realistic.
Because, it WILL absolutely and completely change your relationship. And not for the better. Having a newborn in the household PLUS a new adult will bring loud, stinky chaos. And, FYI, having 1 spare bedroom is not enough. Baby will need their own room very quickly and space for strollers, baby furniture, baby kitchenware, baby changing table, baby STUFF. A lot of STUFF. You will need a lot of extra room in every space of your home. Also, how many bathrooms does your house have? Do you have a large washer and dryer and a dishwasher? Are you both willing to adjust your life schedules? Because babies cry. A lot. At night. During the day. They require quiet time to nap. Are you going to provide a car and car seat for your sister, for baby Dr. Appointments? What about health insurance? Because FL doesn't have nearly the same benefits that exist in CA.
I realize you functioned as a mom for much of her life, but SHE is a Mom now. Not you. SHE needs to deal with HER child and HER life.
Don't ruin your marriage, just to try and give your sister a comfy landing zone. It won't work and you will have ruined your own telatiinship in the attempt.
This comment isn't helpful whatsoever
No. Very normal.
That’s sexual assault. If a woman had written this, we’d be telling her to press charges. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
Trust your gut.
See what happens if you want to employ an open phone policy.
Good luck
The odds of that are astronomically low.
I'm so very sorry this is what's happening in your life right now. You're getting shoved into adulthood — always a bit of a trial — in a very harsh way. But this is where you're at.
And I think you may have to go through some even harder changes before things get better. Take a look at your subject line and then your first sentence.
Your mom found out that your dad was cheating and that's not even the worst part. No. It certainly isn't the worst part. The worst part is that your dad was/is cheating — not that your mom found out about it.
You seem to wish that your mom would stay and keep putting up with your dad's behavior rather than have her leave because that's less scary for you. It's what you're used to.
Your parents were a bit older than what is typical when you were born. That might play into the choices they are making now. Your father is being 'the rat' as far as marital behavior goes. (There's always some fault on both sides, but there's not much hope when one gets into that scammy Facebook stuff.) But most of your post is focused on your mom and her behavior and the changes she is making. You begged her to stay in a horrible, horrible situation. I would have thought you'd offer her love and support and stand up to your father and tell him that what he's doing is despicable — or say it more kindly, like it's not the right thing to do and it's harmful to the family and he should stop it immediately.
Your mom might feel like this is her last chance to have any happiness and peace in her life. And she's had enough. You are 20 years old. She may look at you and see a young adult who should start figuring out her own life rather than a child who she should put first and sacrifice her own life for. Maybe she was even waiting for you to reach 'technical adulthood' before she threw in the towel.
It sound's like you have felt safer and more nurtured by your mom than your dad and when you begged her not to go, it was more to stay for you than for your dad. Think all this over. If you come to the conclusion that your begging your mom to stay in that unhappy situation has only added to her wanting to get the heck out of there and tell her that you love and support her in her decisions, maybe she'll want to take you in with her or at least include you into her life more.
Do you want this child? Right now. That is the only question that needs answering. Sounds like you don’t know and you are expecting your ex to make that decision for you. He can’t do that.
What happens if you keep it and in 2 years time he decides he’s actually too young to be tied to you for and doesn’t want to have the kid on the weekends to give you a break, or any time because he’s too young to be a father and it’s stopping him going out to party?
That leaves you as sole carer with no life. Is that what you want?
Info: does he seem annoyed or amused when he mentions the flirting?
If he keeps going everytime she calls he hasn't cut contact. If he responds to her crying tantrums, he hasn't cut contact. You haven't cut contact either This is all u have to do and then boom, problem solved. You sound like drama too at this point with a boyfriend who keeps the door open on another woman who pays him attention.
We would have only got few thousand each so it is not even worth it to take to court. And I kind of just want to tell my other family members so they know the kind of person she is because this is beyond frustrating.
I think your bf is just trying to keep the peace. Hes offering to let you read the texts. I think youre over reacting a bit. It sucks she said what she did, but at the end of the day shes entitled to her opinion and you and your bf are on good terms. Let it go
They’re describing the Seinfeld character, not OP’s partner?? Apparently it’s too early for thinking. I wondered if the OP had been edited to take bits out or something
You run!!! What he is trying to do is not ok. He doesn’t get to dictate who you hang out with and any issues of trust are his to deal with not yours(unless you have given him cause). If I was you I would be getting out the relationship ASAP
Personally, I say never even consider marrying anybody until you’ve lived with them at least a year. That’s the only way to truly know if somebody can handle you long term. I know a couple, been together 10 years and were always great and happy but due to his culture they never lived together beforehand. Believed only a husband and wife should live together. So 10 years in they get married last year. Now they live together for the first time and they fight non stop, she calls him a lazy slob and he calls her a nag all day every day and they’re quickly headed for a divorce.
Ill be honest imo the way she described her self “hard to handle” is a red flag for me then “never tone down for soneone” and “free spirited” are person flag for just not wanting a relationship.
I just wouldn't be in a relationship with this person. No one other than the three of them would know if it was R or not but my guess is it wasn't based on her saying that she remembered not enjoying it. Not enjoying and not consenting are two very different things.
Break up OP. She cheated and your both different people from the beginning too.
I feel that open relationships work best when they are established from the beginning. They should not be used as some sort of band-aid solution in an established monogamous relationship. That rarely works out in the long term. You girlfriend did not commit to a non-monogamous relationship she committed to you and you alone.
Also remember that open relationships are a two-way street. Just because she has a low libido doesn’t mean that she won’t exercise that option if your relationship does get opened up.
It’s understandable to be frustrated that your needs are not being met. You deserve to feel like your needs are being met in any relationship. You need to have an honest and open conversation with your girlfriend about how your needs are not being met. There might be other solutions to your problem that you could work out with her but communication is key.
If you can’t find a solution I would recommend leaving the relationship rather than opening it up. That has way too much potential to cause much more hurt and regret than a break up would.
This idea, 100% approved. The world needs to know that she's a skank. Also maybe next time she'll think twice before trying to ruin a relationship
More investigation work needed.
Sounds like it could be an estranged marriage, technically still husband and wife but?
Multiple things don't add up
You not being kind, you’re being cowardly.
There is nothing noble or caring about pretending you want to be with someone you actually want to get tf away from.
When she manipulates you into staying with her, you are choosing what’s easiest for you, not what’s best for her.
Your guilt in this situation is not operating as a moral compass, it’s not persuading you to ‘do the right thing.’ Your guilt is allowing you to justify choosing the path of least resistance.