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Date: October 8, 2022
How do I take charge of the pacing, and to be firm with my boundary?
Does weight play into it? My bf is a bigger guy and didn’t like being on top too much because he was afraid of accidentally hurting me (I’m a ver small person) could that be a factor?
No. Just no. Absolutely not. This is the most obvious manipulative bullshit I’ve ever heard in my life. This man is straight up cheating on you and convincing you it’s your fault??? My boyfriend and I were long distance for 2.5 years. Over 1,000 miles. We didn’t see each other for months at a time. And that was fine with both of us because we love each other. If this man loved you, he wouldn’t be guilt tripping you into a situation you are clearly not comfortable with.
Oh fuck off. Reddit is crazy. Can’t condone what your sister does but you’re gonna stoop to her level? Psychotic Reddit behaviour
Girl you’re 30. Find a man.
I’ve only just found out today and his mother passed away yesterday. His mother wasn’t sick or anything when he was away. Just feel a bit all over the place.
You’re right.
When we were arguing about everything, he mentioned he was going through my phone to “make sure he was safe to give me his whole heart again” and do “be 100% in” (I’ve NEVER given him a reason to not trust me other than the situation above), but told me that my actions made him realize he can’t.
Maybe he was just looking for validation to leave me because he wasn’t in to me anymore.
Cutting him off didnt work out? Cut off both of them. There are more women in the world than just her. Some dont push boundaries like that.
Have some self-respect and stop having sex/interacting with this flaming trash pile. Surely you're not getting anything out of it? The sex is actively hurting and endangering you and he treats you like shit. Why stay?
You prepared a whole CEO presentation to get a loan from them in the first place. What were the conditions of his loan?
Look, in a lot of ways I agree with you. I’m a person who finds my partner attractive through all the phases of their life and physical appearance. It has very little to do with my overall feelings for them. I’m a more active “fit” person and my boyfriend is a big guy. I find him very attractive now and did when he was skinnier as well.
However, I can understand that some people wouldn’t. And I can understand why.
Your examples are false equivalences. OPs girlfriend has had a priority shift, not a massive life change. It’s also not something she’s interested at all in changing.
To put it in perspective: if my partner had pneumonia and developed a chronic cough and long term health effects I’d be incredibly sympathetic. If my partner picked up smoking and drove their health into the ground I’d consider leaving.
If my partner developed liver cancer I would support them in any way possible. If they went into self inflicted liver failure while hiding alcohol abuse disorder from me, I’d most likely leave.
If my partner found out they had diabetes and refused to monitor their sugars or make healthy lifestyle changes, I’d consider leaving.
OP is an active person himself. He values activity and overall health. And yes, he does not find obesity attractive. He started a relationship with someone that had those same values, now they clearly don’t.
He’s stayed for 4 years, his love is clearly not so shallow or he would have ran at the first 10-20 pounds. But he can’t ignore this anymore, and I think that’s understandable. Obesity is such a nuanced topic within relationships because it involved health, interest and ability to live a fulfilling life, and physical attraction. People get really hung up on the physical attraction aspect.
Hire security. Like even just one person to watch him.
(Writing this as a separate reply since my initial reply would become too long and this is more towards your first point)
I think the context of what your expectations are as a result matter.
That’s just the thing, I don’t HAVE expectations that I feel are reasonable to ask of him. Like, I’m not going to ask him to be glued to his phone just for my sake, ya know? I could mention that I’d appreciate a “I’ll be checking my phone later” text beforehand but I don’t see a need to be militant with it because I think that would be super unreasonable of me, and probably wouldn’t make me feel better at all.
We as in my family at my family’s house. Not her dog nor does she live with us.
So he was basically the reason why you have to find a new apartment and now he is mad bc you found a new one? You had no choice. What did he expect?
Also, your boyfriend caused you to be kicked out of your apartment. Think long and hard about that before continuing with him.