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Date: October 4, 2022
The words he texted came across as controlling because I could not read his emotions. I have PTSD and have never been in a healthy relationship. Please hold your judgement, I am divorced for a reason. We're not acting like we're engaged and blending households, our children are the same age and have been enjoying playing together.
I call someone I have been dating for 5 months my partner because I don't know what else to call him right now- isn't it shorter than “guy I've been dating for 5 months”
My husband has had his new girlfriend living with him for the past 5 months- so I don't think that sleepovers are a problem.
I pity people who end up in a relationship with you
I guess we know the reason he is still single at 40…
Time for a fun little fling
A lot of (male) anime fans really get it into thier head that a critique of anime is somehow lessened if it's pointing out how anime is sexist. It ends up feeling like low hanging fruit cause well, anime is kinda infamous for it's bad treatment of female characters. I know that was me when I was around 16-19.
If you can get a conversation on what he does find interesting you can also point out there's a lot of wasted potential that comes from a lot of anime writers being sexist. Like how fanservice scenes don't add anything interesting and just waste time/throw off pacing. It's being critical of sexism but from a place of love and appreciation for the show, which is a mindset that certainly helped me to start noticing and seeing that crap as actually being bad.
Other people in this thread have noted out anime that are actually good with thier female characters such as FMA (a lot of the Ghibli movies are good for this as well) and they can be good for illustrating the contrast and being able to have fun while analyzing anime through a feminist lens.
Your friend was right, just block her and move on.
First she was giving you false hope and leading you on only to run back to the ex. She might have even used you to get him back with jealousy tactics. You have her on a pedestal as some sweet girl, but she isn't all that you picture her as. Try not to get involved with someone who is in a messy break up, too many available girls out there.
Second, she obviously doesn't know what she wants and lacks a bit of empathy by leading you on. You know what you want, she can't offer that. Go find someone who wants the same things you do, she isn't the only girl left on this big planet.
Third, learn to control your emotions. You were calling her a ho and everything else when she didn't do as you asked. This makes you look immature and controlling. It also turns women off when a guy flips out like that.
If you do apologize, just say something like “Sorry I overreacted and said mean things. Good luck on your relationship and I'll move along and go find my own relationship.” This will show you are sorry plus you are moving on and she can no longer drag you along.
C'mon. Covid is not going anywhere, we are all now vaccinated, in most cases it is now like a cold. Would you go to a hotel every time you get cold or the flu? Would you have done that if Covid didn't happen?
What happened to “in sickness and in health”? You can't shield the baby from everything and it is actually good that your baby is exposed to certain amount of bacteria so he actually builds an immune system. This is his home and he should be home. He just wouldn't hug and kiss the baby…
You are very clear on what you want: platonic friendship with B with no sexual or romantic elements.
B is kind of clear on what he wants: to have a sexual relationship with you, not to be your friend without a sexual element, unclear on if he sees a romantic element or not.
These two things are fundamentally incompatible.
It is so interesting to me that you consider his motorcycle accident and the surrounding trauma to be “bonding” (in a way you know is not healthy?) but that the “huge falling out” that it sounds like you considered friendship ending …. just got ignored?
YOU DO NOT WANT TO DATE B. YOU WANT TO DATE C. You are very clear on this. B does not care what you want, and is ready to punish you (with comments about C, you fear you will lose the “friendship” with B if you date C).
I say, date C. B does not have to like it or share his opinion about that, and he can get over it and be your friend (maybe) or he can go.
Your screen name is FartFace319… I don't think you have much room to judge in that department. ?
Your husband is a bully under the guise of joking, I doubt he will change if you can't even get him to admit he's doing it…
He cheated. That's what he did.
discussions about what could happen next
She can discuss paying for the surgery with the boyfriend.
I'm not trying to judge you or belittle you in any way, but you deserve better so don't settle for less just because he's your first real boyfriend. Men are like eggs you can literally find a dime in a dozen.
Exactly how I feel. We talked and decided to go to the exhibit because it starts an hour before kickoff. Then we will leave early to catch most of the game.
Forcing him to shower before sex is absurd enough. Clearly you have no interest in any solution and want to make excuses. You don’t want therapy. You don’t want to clean the toilet. You don’t want to use a condom. You can ask him to clean himself after every time if you think he’d agree. You keep claiming you don’t need the treatment and it doesn’t affect you yet here you are. Do whatever you want to or don’t. None of us care and it doesn’t matter to us in the long run. But you literally make an excuse for every solution and refuse to take accountability for your own issues here.
Sounds like an Indian name. I have an Indian friend with nearly the same name.
My concern is you, did you have any mental healthcare or support after you were raped?
That's at least a +5 to archery – major stat buff for stealth archers.
I think you need to have a serious conversation with him and tell him exactly how you are feeling. Personally, I had a ton of boyfriends in college that would rarely text me back and I begged them to communicate better. It was like talking to a brick wall… No matter how much I begged they never stepped up and refused to even check in with me.
You need to look at the relationship and what you want and if your boyfriend is able to be that person. A need in a relationship for you may be communication and just random checkins throughout the day. I am very similar to you in that way. I don't need to talk 24/7, but just at least once a day for a little while. Your boyfriend may not be capable of giving you that and if that is the case it may be time for you two to go your seperate ways because you aren't a good match.
It took me a long time to learn this, I begged my boyfriends in college to step up and communicate better but they wouldn't do it. On the other hand, when I first was talking to my fiance on Bumble (before we met) I told him I always wanted to Snap with a guy before going on a date with him, that way I would know he for sure wasn't a catfish. He didn't have a Snapchat but as soon as I asked he made one, zero questions or gripes about it. Those other guys I know wouldn't have done that for me.
I say, have a serious relationship with your BF and let him know that he isn't being the partner you need right now. If he is unwilling to improve, it may be time to move on. Relationships are hard, especially when you transition from being a college relationship to a real world relationship. It is possible you two out grew each other and there is nothing wrong that. But, be sure to do whatever it is that you feel you need to do, put yourself first, and maybe put off moving in together until after this is resolved. Moving in together, being on a lease together, etc. can make this entire situation infinitely harder.
Best of luck! I hope everything works out for you guys!
Out of the blue, she asked me if I was a virgin.
she knew I had been in two relationships prior to meeting her and I admitted that those relationships had been sexual.
So she didn't know before? Seems kinda weird.
The next day, she ignored my texts still, so I decided to pull into her house in that evening. Seeing how I was already there, she agreed to see me
Don't do this. If someone isn't replying, why go over? She was upset and needed space, but your issue was obviously larger than her figuring things out.
What should I do to win her back?
You don't. She's upset over something that happened before her and that's her problem. She said it'd be easier to lose you, you said “cool, take all the time you want” and are wondering what you can do? Leave and find someone you're compatible with
So you've been hurting your girlfriend and now we need to help you fix it?
What, so you can start over again?
It sounds like you need some more professional help here.
It's not your house it's your parents. I highly doubt they want strangers staying in their house. Tell her no, that it isn't your house. They can stay elsewhere.
They should have planned for this when they booked the tickets. They chose a flight with an overnight layover. When you do that, you book a hotel nearby immediately.
She purposely waited until there was only 5 days left thinking you wouldn't say no. That's an entitled attitude. Not surprising given her past actions.
Hoes do as hoes do. If she's not like that then she should stop behaving like one for once.
So, I was laid off last year. I’d been with my boyfriend for 5 years at the time and still didn’t ask him for money. This is so many red flags to me. Why doesn’t he have savings? Where is the severance? Has he thought about picking up a gig in the interim?
I literally applied to fast food jobs just to make sure I had some income. Luckily I found employment quickly, but still. It isn’t like his job he got laid off from was the only job on the planet.
Two major red flags here 1 loaned twice as much with talking to you about 2 seriously downplayed it when you confronted him. Did not hear an apology
“BF, I am really concerned that you do not seem to be taking this issue seriously. Are actions and lack of concern have seriously eroded my trust. Our relationship has taken several large steps backwards. That is not acceptable to me. You need to be taking steps to earn my trust again “
Now the conversation begins
Look for deflection or not taking responsibility. He needs to own his screw ups. Cannot blame you in any way
Not hopeful for him.
I'm not talented enough to create a sitcom, but you've got the whole first episode written here for someone! lol