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Date: October 19, 2022
Thank you for your response! And I have no reason to be doubting our relationship, he is truly wonderful in every way and I do love him very much. However, I feel like those doubts are coming from the fact that I have been burned a lot in previous flings/relationships, where the guy would be completely obsessed with me only to end things with me after a couple months. In addition, those previous guys have done things to me that are lowkey traumatizing. My boyfriend knows about those guys and what they did to me, he’s been super understanding and supportive of me
Spreading your seed or some bullshit like that probably
First of all, I don't understand what your examples have to do with OP's situation. Denying your partner access to confidential documents has nothing to do with hiding a relationship with another man that can only be described as at least emotional affair, even if this affair has started to fizzle out recently.
Your right to any form of personal freedom depends solely on what you use that freedom for. Your rights have been given to you conditionally. And in marriage your right to privacy ends the moment you use your privacy to cheat on your partner.
OP has every right to investigate what is going on in his marriage, especially when his wife starts to distance herself from him and they have been in dead bedroom for two years.
Lol very funny, but he kept offering to buy me stuff, did a few times, but I declined for the most part
So, from what I'm reading, what I think you really want is a real relationship, not a casual FWB situation. Also, you feel betrayed because he is a hypocrite who wants to have his cake and eat it too. In other words, he wants the benefits of a relationship without any of the commitment. And he was willing to break his own rules at least short term to be with this other girl. Then when he got tired of her, he wanted to come back to you.
I think you should stick up for yourself in this and future relationships. If FWB is not what you want, you should say so and not just defer to what he wants. You can say for example, I'm not interested anymore if you just want to end it. Or you could say (if you want a real relationship with him) I'm not interested in FWB anymore. I'm looking for someone to be in an exclusive LTR with, but you said that you don't want to be tied down (don't want to “seriously date anyone” until he graduates).
You certainly don't owe him anything. Stick up for yourself. Figure out what you want in a relationship, and don't settle for less. Are you satisfied with one-time hookups and non-exclusive FWB situations, or do you want a real partner?
You. Are. An. Alcoholic.
if your motive to drink is stress, that's a bad road to head down.
but if you occasionally drink when you want, i don't see an issue with it.
it's all about the motive, OP
That’s not a personal boundary, that’s demanding others fulfill her wants, and manipulating them into doing so.
On the contrary, the ultimatum is so he has to make the choice she won’t. She wants to blame others and paint herself as the victim if her son doesn’t do what she wants. This is not taking responsibility for your own actions, and it’s a horrible way to treat your children. Your perspective is that manipulative behavior counts as establishing healthy boundaries, when it doesn’t. No therapist would recommend this. Not one. If you need to go, go, but don’t pretend it was someone else’s choice/fault.
It’s cruel. Cruelty is not under the self car umbrella. Your devils advocate is you get to treat others however you like, and call it a boundary, while skirting accountability. This is the problem with online snippets of self help, you always skip the accountability part, because that’s a harder pill to swallow.
If she wants to make the choice to distance, fine, but don’t put your choices in others laps to make for you so you don’t have to own them.
OF course it's not possible to “just stop dreaming,” that's a silly idea? What's possible is for you to assert to your bf that your dreams are not up for his review, and that you want him to sop policing them and questioning you as if you're doing something wrong. He's being invasive here. It's dumb to get upset over a dreams. They are just dreams.
I’m seeing someone who doesn’t know how to read because that’s literally what I said lmao??? I’d be annoyed as fuck by roomie, I would’ve moved out on my own the first month. At least I pay my own rent and make my own rules, if wanting my space and my stuff to myself makes me spoiled alright call me Paris Hilton ?
Quit that job. If your household can't survive on a $200K paycheck, start couponing or something.
Raising two young special-needs children is a job and a half, easily. You deserve a medal just for trying. It is also harder to find suitable care for kids like yours.
Instead of you and husband fighting over bowling versus golfing, you should both elect either one or the other activity or some third activity that you can do TOGETHER. That will be your weekly “date.”
Honestly, you are doing way too much. Please ask less of yourself.