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Unless you are married these sound like her problems, not your problems. She sounds like somebody who made a lot of stupid decisions in life and now wants another man to bail her out.
we agreed not to meet on weekdays as the drive in the dark on poorly maintained roads is dangerous… the angrier she seems to get…
I do plan to go over more often
girlfriend is adamant this is not enough
She can't have it both ways. You both agreed to what is reasonable during winter, but it appears she didn't actually believe you would stick to this. And it's been 5 months. She gets angry and stops talking to you. Already showing you that this is not a healthy dynamic.
He's an ass. Probably attention seeking. Morally bankrupt to a degree. May I even guess narcissistic as well?
Tough call. If you refuse him entry / cut him out of photos, it may cause a rift with your fiance's family and you. If you allow him in, it's almost like you're giving him a pass to this behavior and he will forever push your boundaries, not to mention the blatant disrespect of you and your fiance's wedding plans.
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If he disrespects you and your fiance's wishes, that is him telling you that he cares of nothing but himself. And shows everyone what an utter piece of human trash he is.
I agree this guy is not very bright, but you are making up motivations out of thin air.
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Yeah I know and she has said that once she graduates from college in a year and a half she will tell them but I don’t know if I want to wait that long
You're right
So many men are delusional about their attractiveness. So many posts here about open relationship. Women always find more guys than the other way.
You’re the complete opposite of A-hole! You’re a kind person and a good sister
Unless you are married these sound like her problems, not your problems. She sounds like somebody who made a lot of stupid decisions in life and now wants another man to bail her out.
Maybe she's ashamed of her home – too small, too messy, too damp, etc
we agreed not to meet on weekdays as the drive in the dark on poorly maintained roads is dangerous… the angrier she seems to get…
I do plan to go over more often
girlfriend is adamant this is not enough
She can't have it both ways. You both agreed to what is reasonable during winter, but it appears she didn't actually believe you would stick to this. And it's been 5 months. She gets angry and stops talking to you. Already showing you that this is not a healthy dynamic.
He's an ass. Probably attention seeking. Morally bankrupt to a degree. May I even guess narcissistic as well?
Tough call. If you refuse him entry / cut him out of photos, it may cause a rift with your fiance's family and you. If you allow him in, it's almost like you're giving him a pass to this behavior and he will forever push your boundaries, not to mention the blatant disrespect of you and your fiance's wedding plans.
What I would do:. Make it known — in every possible outlet you can (IE: in the wedding invitation, emails, social media, etc.) that dress code is STRICTLY enforced and there are no exceptions. Maybe explain why, for example, it's YOU and YOUR FIANCE'S special day and you would greatly appreciate if everyone respected that. Your fiance would have to express this as well, or have the same VOICED opinion. Ball is now in his court.
If he disrespects you and your fiance's wishes, that is him telling you that he cares of nothing but himself. And shows everyone what an utter piece of human trash he is.
That helps so much! You said things i didnt think to say! And it sounds well enough to know its not bashful ❤️❤️thank you!!
Ya this would be a deal breaker for me. Do your parents live close enough that you (just you) can stay with them?
If she’s worried you will cheat. Don’t marry her. Grooming shouldn’t equal out to cheat.
There is no real trust.
You don't.
You find a new boyfriend.