Your husband is displaying very poor behavior. Like kind of creepy grøsse to ask their SIL about sex. Yuck. I suggest you examine your life with your husband.
Okay so the framing on this is where it gets messy.
In your post you write 'not wanting her to go out' and given the context that is entirely reasonable. She clearly crossed a bunch of boundaries and honestly, at this point you really ought to be questioning the relationship at all.
But in your post title you said 'not letting her go out' and that is not the same thing. You can't control her, or try to control what she does. That is indeed a toxic thing to do, to demand she not go or whatever. You can express your concerns and if she doesn't acknowledge them in her actions you can end it, but you shouldn't try and police her actions.
Just be real about that distinction. If she is prone to this sort of thing it isn't about moulding her into who you want her to be through 'not letting' her do things. It is about expressing your boundaries and walking away if and when she doesn't respect them.
Checking in from the toilet! I’m disgusted! ?
Your husband is displaying very poor behavior. Like kind of creepy grøsse to ask their SIL about sex. Yuck. I suggest you examine your life with your husband.
If she isn’t into you then you respect that, move on, and leave her alone.
They need to change the legal age for marriage to 25 I swear to god.
they're 100% on the money. have some self respect ffs.
You know what you believe, your heart is just blinding you. From the beginning you knew what he was up to. Don’t let him gaslight you
Okay so the framing on this is where it gets messy.
In your post you write 'not wanting her to go out' and given the context that is entirely reasonable. She clearly crossed a bunch of boundaries and honestly, at this point you really ought to be questioning the relationship at all.
But in your post title you said 'not letting her go out' and that is not the same thing. You can't control her, or try to control what she does. That is indeed a toxic thing to do, to demand she not go or whatever. You can express your concerns and if she doesn't acknowledge them in her actions you can end it, but you shouldn't try and police her actions.
Just be real about that distinction. If she is prone to this sort of thing it isn't about moulding her into who you want her to be through 'not letting' her do things. It is about expressing your boundaries and walking away if and when she doesn't respect them.