Well it would be a text for convenience. Just saying “I’m talking to blank about you.” That’s all. However I feel this may start fights between us as well. It is still strange, that agree with. I do not like her new rule. After speaking with some wonderful people on here I’ll be standing firm tomorrow. Saying it is controlling, that I will leave the relationship if this rule is not dropped. Thank you for saying what you did. The more comments read like yours give me strength. It confirms my gut feeling. I can see I’m not over thinking things, that this isn’t normal.
So when I was a kid, my dad must have said something to my mom about the way she washed his work clothes. I’m not sure what he said, but it was clear to my mom that he didn’t appreciate the fact that she took the time to make sure his work clothes were clean (they both worked).
After that, my mom never washed my dads work clothes again.
If someone doesn’t appreciate what you do for them, just stop doing it. It doesn’t have to be any more complicated than that. I agree with all of the other commenters saying that you should go on strike. You’re not being respected and the things you do for your husband are not being appreciated. So, stop doing them. Tell him that you want to be appreciated and respected as a partner, and that if he wanted a mother he should have never moved out of his mamas house.
Stand up for yourself – you’re the only one who can do that. Have your own back just like you’d want your best friend to have your back (or how you wouldn’t let anyone disrespect your best friend).
They don't know I'm queer, also, I doubt that they'd physically harm me themselves but I sometimes wonder if they would trick me into going to conversion therapy “for my own good”.
I do live with them, but I can't get out right now because I'm in a complicated legal situation.
Tf lol
Over 50 men??? Damn, did she write the “steal hoodies from men” rule?
I think I threw up a little in my mouth reading he’s pulled chunks of his teeth out of his mouth. That is beyond disgusting.
Honestly, I don’t understand why you’ve stuck around so long. It’s likely his scent is on you, too, but you’ve become nose blind to it.
It takes two tango. Drunk and pull out ? Yeah rarely happens , let’s be honest.
Well it would be a text for convenience. Just saying “I’m talking to blank about you.” That’s all. However I feel this may start fights between us as well. It is still strange, that agree with. I do not like her new rule. After speaking with some wonderful people on here I’ll be standing firm tomorrow. Saying it is controlling, that I will leave the relationship if this rule is not dropped. Thank you for saying what you did. The more comments read like yours give me strength. It confirms my gut feeling. I can see I’m not over thinking things, that this isn’t normal.
I’m super well aware of caloric intake/ clean eating.
And women that don't maintain their own hygiene. Both can be true.
So when I was a kid, my dad must have said something to my mom about the way she washed his work clothes. I’m not sure what he said, but it was clear to my mom that he didn’t appreciate the fact that she took the time to make sure his work clothes were clean (they both worked).
After that, my mom never washed my dads work clothes again.
If someone doesn’t appreciate what you do for them, just stop doing it. It doesn’t have to be any more complicated than that. I agree with all of the other commenters saying that you should go on strike. You’re not being respected and the things you do for your husband are not being appreciated. So, stop doing them. Tell him that you want to be appreciated and respected as a partner, and that if he wanted a mother he should have never moved out of his mamas house.
Stand up for yourself – you’re the only one who can do that. Have your own back just like you’d want your best friend to have your back (or how you wouldn’t let anyone disrespect your best friend).
They don't know I'm queer, also, I doubt that they'd physically harm me themselves but I sometimes wonder if they would trick me into going to conversion therapy “for my own good”.
I do live with them, but I can't get out right now because I'm in a complicated legal situation.
How you hanging in?