Hmm it could be the speed at which you drunk those drinks. Secondly, if it wasn't due to that, then is it possible that someone could have tried to drug you?
Maybe you should (if partner comfortable with it) repeat the same number of drinks in the same timeframe but at home and see how you feel and behave.
Tell your partner if you become aggressive at all to maybe stay elsewhere for the night just in case.
I would investigate why you are prone to a UTI and in-fact actually is. Make sure you take a urine sample before the antibiotics and afterwards to make sure it’s cleared. Get your fiance to attend the appointments and have the Dr explain to him the importance of clearing the infection and the issues having sex can have.
Then with the medical professional have them explain the pain it causes and the negative impact that sex has when you have a UTI. Not to mention kidney infections that can cause hospitalisation.
If after this the attitude on your fiance doesn’t stop…. Leave. You are in pain and he is carrying on like an entitled brat… it a actually sounds predatory.
Relief that you separated before getting married. She belongs on the streets and hopefully that is where she is now. Focus on yourself, you are still way young ….
It's unfortunate you don't want the same thing. If you want to flush a good relationship down the toilet because you want kids, then you can just do this. You're not responsible for his mental health. Only for your own health and should you have kids you're responsible for their mental and physical health for the rest of your life too. But not his.
I have a really beautiful, slightly used bridge for sale………………….
I don’t know. I think so but ?♀️ lol
Hmm it could be the speed at which you drunk those drinks. Secondly, if it wasn't due to that, then is it possible that someone could have tried to drug you?
Maybe you should (if partner comfortable with it) repeat the same number of drinks in the same timeframe but at home and see how you feel and behave.
Tell your partner if you become aggressive at all to maybe stay elsewhere for the night just in case.
I would investigate why you are prone to a UTI and in-fact actually is. Make sure you take a urine sample before the antibiotics and afterwards to make sure it’s cleared. Get your fiance to attend the appointments and have the Dr explain to him the importance of clearing the infection and the issues having sex can have.
Then with the medical professional have them explain the pain it causes and the negative impact that sex has when you have a UTI. Not to mention kidney infections that can cause hospitalisation.
If after this the attitude on your fiance doesn’t stop…. Leave. You are in pain and he is carrying on like an entitled brat… it a actually sounds predatory.
You are not throwing away 6 years. She threw away 6 years. Yes time to move on.
This was wrong on too many levels
Relief that you separated before getting married. She belongs on the streets and hopefully that is where she is now. Focus on yourself, you are still way young ….
The best way to not waste any more time is to get out of this relationship.
It's unfortunate you don't want the same thing. If you want to flush a good relationship down the toilet because you want kids, then you can just do this. You're not responsible for his mental health. Only for your own health and should you have kids you're responsible for their mental and physical health for the rest of your life too. But not his.
If you and your boyfriend are fine with it, that's all that matters
How long are you away for and how often? I can understand not wanting to be with someone who travels a lot, like a part time ldr
You play dirty!