That doesn't answer my second question. It's honestly pretty gross to assume you can “mold” someone to suit you and your life. It kind of sounds like you don't take her life and preferences as seriously as your own.
Do it. Ask him to hang out in a casual, friendly setting to confirm he is really cool and not just going with the flow of conversation for work reasons.
If you don't have plans to use him for tattoos anymore, The worst that can happen is he says no, or you realize you're not into him and it's a one time thing.
But there’s no other solution, so they both split everything equally.
When she’s working, he watches the kids. When he’s working, she watches them. When they’re both free, they both watch them. There’s no open “caretaking” time that he could pick up at the expense of his free time/hobbies.
You are absolutely unhinged and totally inconsistent. You didn’t think to fly to him to break up but you’re considering it to explain the break up?
Fwiw, I don’t think you should have flown to break up but jfc, ever heard of zoom? Or 10 other apps that allow you to see the person you’re talking to?
but i cant make a move on her because shes my friend’s ex even though im sure that we both feel the same way about each other
Lol, you were a thing even before he got into the picture. Even without that in mind, you know your friend much shorter than her. If she were to be the love of your life, do you think your friendship compares to that?
With that said, before you get properly into business, she needs to break up with him, instead of waiting for I don't even know what.
Omg the audacity of this man
That doesn't answer my second question. It's honestly pretty gross to assume you can “mold” someone to suit you and your life. It kind of sounds like you don't take her life and preferences as seriously as your own.
Do it. Ask him to hang out in a casual, friendly setting to confirm he is really cool and not just going with the flow of conversation for work reasons.
If you don't have plans to use him for tattoos anymore, The worst that can happen is he says no, or you realize you're not into him and it's a one time thing.
But there’s no other solution, so they both split everything equally.
When she’s working, he watches the kids. When he’s working, she watches them. When they’re both free, they both watch them. There’s no open “caretaking” time that he could pick up at the expense of his free time/hobbies.
You are absolutely unhinged and totally inconsistent. You didn’t think to fly to him to break up but you’re considering it to explain the break up?
Fwiw, I don’t think you should have flown to break up but jfc, ever heard of zoom? Or 10 other apps that allow you to see the person you’re talking to?
Girl, find yourself a real man. He’ll act like this the rest of his life as long as you allow it to happen
Question zero:
Do you like her smell, or perfumes? If you have issues with this it can be very hard to fix.
Does she smell bad? Does she have bad hygiene?
What do you do with your wife to build attraction?
Are you able to sit and watch tv together and cuddle?
Are there any activities you can do together?
but i cant make a move on her because shes my friend’s ex even though im sure that we both feel the same way about each other
Lol, you were a thing even before he got into the picture. Even without that in mind, you know your friend much shorter than her. If she were to be the love of your life, do you think your friendship compares to that?
With that said, before you get properly into business, she needs to break up with him, instead of waiting for I don't even know what.