You want to keep the friendship? I wouldn't even be able to get a crush on a boyfriend of my bestfriend. Did he flirt with her or something? I don't think that happens out of nowhere sorry.
What the actual fuck. Your husband is disgusting. Tell him to sort his shit out (literally!) and plunge it away! Leaving a nugget for others to find and deal with is just wrong
I'm surprised so many think its fine on here. Its not the age gap its the age. Freshman in HS with college freshman, or 8th grader vs senior in high school is really messed up to me.
He has too many red flags, his friends, first offer inappropriate when he’s in an intimate relationship to have them that involved. It is why I don’t think it’s appropriate for men in a relationship or women to be hanging out individually with datable people. Just my opinion. For exactly these kinds of reasons. Reddit is full of stories like this.
Secondly, his mental disorders, and the fact that he is unable to set boundaries or stand up for himself make him a very poor choice for a boyfriend.
You want kids, she used to, but now she doesn’t. This is huge. She either changed, or she said it because she knew it was important to you and knew you wouldn’t want to marry her otherwise.
Between that and the sexually incompatibility I would suggest going your separate ways, so you can find someone who makes you feel wanted and that wants to have children with you. This sounds like the kind of thing where you will eventually get tired of feeling undesirable, find someone who does find you desirable, and end up cheating. Please get out before that happens.
You want to keep the friendship? I wouldn't even be able to get a crush on a boyfriend of my bestfriend. Did he flirt with her or something? I don't think that happens out of nowhere sorry.
What the actual fuck. Your husband is disgusting. Tell him to sort his shit out (literally!) and plunge it away! Leaving a nugget for others to find and deal with is just wrong
I'm surprised so many think its fine on here. Its not the age gap its the age. Freshman in HS with college freshman, or 8th grader vs senior in high school is really messed up to me.
He has too many red flags, his friends, first offer inappropriate when he’s in an intimate relationship to have them that involved. It is why I don’t think it’s appropriate for men in a relationship or women to be hanging out individually with datable people. Just my opinion. For exactly these kinds of reasons. Reddit is full of stories like this.
Secondly, his mental disorders, and the fact that he is unable to set boundaries or stand up for himself make him a very poor choice for a boyfriend.
You want kids, she used to, but now she doesn’t. This is huge. She either changed, or she said it because she knew it was important to you and knew you wouldn’t want to marry her otherwise.
Between that and the sexually incompatibility I would suggest going your separate ways, so you can find someone who makes you feel wanted and that wants to have children with you. This sounds like the kind of thing where you will eventually get tired of feeling undesirable, find someone who does find you desirable, and end up cheating. Please get out before that happens.
Run. Run fast. Run far.
Remember that we all told you this in a year. 5 years. Ten.
THIS!! The ableism here is so disgusting and offensive.
ah – I see that now
and what do you think this public servant does for a living?