You've been woth him for 3.5 years and so far he hasn't changed. Why do you think he will magically change into he next few weeks? He won't. If anything he might “change” logn enough to make you think he changed but he won't. He will only change if he WANTS to change and he would need soem serious therapy.
Break up with him and then stay single for a good long time. Nothing good will come out of rebounding. You need to learn to be on your own and be happy on your own not dive right into some other guys arms because you don't want to be alone. You need time to get past this relationship and you can't do that properly if you move on right away.
So my advice….break up and stay single and find your self worth before moving on. You've stayed in this toxic relationship too logn as it is. Work on yourself or you'll just continue to attract unhealthy partners.
Not sure what mindset someone could have that they would even think they could demand a sex act that someone doesn't want to do. That's just weird to me, to literally demand or get angry over something sexual. And then of course, the fact that his friends easily sway him….
I walk away from these types of guys too (41F) but I always find it so difficult to cut someone off that I am so close with. I know when I have to do it, it's so difficult. My BFF on the other hand, she can do it and not get annihilated mentally by it for an extended period of time. Basically just want to acknowledge your strength and I admire it. So many women put up w horrible behavior and I did from my ex husband which taught me important lessons.
Short week means arriving Wednesday night and leaving Monday morning.
You've been woth him for 3.5 years and so far he hasn't changed. Why do you think he will magically change into he next few weeks? He won't. If anything he might “change” logn enough to make you think he changed but he won't. He will only change if he WANTS to change and he would need soem serious therapy.
Break up with him and then stay single for a good long time. Nothing good will come out of rebounding. You need to learn to be on your own and be happy on your own not dive right into some other guys arms because you don't want to be alone. You need time to get past this relationship and you can't do that properly if you move on right away.
So my advice….break up and stay single and find your self worth before moving on. You've stayed in this toxic relationship too logn as it is. Work on yourself or you'll just continue to attract unhealthy partners.
Not sure what mindset someone could have that they would even think they could demand a sex act that someone doesn't want to do. That's just weird to me, to literally demand or get angry over something sexual. And then of course, the fact that his friends easily sway him….
I walk away from these types of guys too (41F) but I always find it so difficult to cut someone off that I am so close with. I know when I have to do it, it's so difficult. My BFF on the other hand, she can do it and not get annihilated mentally by it for an extended period of time. Basically just want to acknowledge your strength and I admire it. So many women put up w horrible behavior and I did from my ex husband which taught me important lessons.