Right I understand how that all works. I’m just reading into it. It’s not him saying it that makes me uncomfortable, it’s what he wants that in a woman I guess. Idk maybe that’s common?
This is very confusing. At age 20 she should have had her HPV vaccine by now? If not tell her to go get it. The only real way to pass on HPV is sex or sharing sex toys.
Are you sure he means donate as in this would be your inheritance? Because, honestly, it sounds more like he wants to be a landlord without any of the responsibilities. Is it his idea that you pay him for it or yours? Is he buying it and immediately putting it in your name…or is that just your assumption? Because just having a property (I'm assuming with a house on it) without doing anything else with it (like renting it out) seems as pointless as having it do nothing in a bank…which has the bonus of not having to pay property tax and upkeep. Unless, of course, that's the reason for letting you move into it.
I'd be sure to have expectations and costs firmly laid out…and committed to a legally be binding contract before I'd actually take something like this on. It could bite you in the butt later on. It would truly suck to put time, money and effort into a home…thinking that it's going to be yours…only to have the conditions of ownership change or have the home taken back completely.
How exactly do you marry someone who is crushing on another guy right before your marriage? I’m sure the maturity is appreciated, but how does one go into a lifelong commitment with someone who may occasionally get swept off her feet from another guy she works with? Communication is great and all, but if my fiancé communicated to me that she liked someone else a month before a lifelong commitment, I’d be torn up inside. You both should be head over heels with each other right now, yet she’s crushing on someone who isn’t you. Sorry but I feel bad for you. Gotta suck.
Thank you! I’ll ask them about if a change would be helpful.
Right I understand how that all works. I’m just reading into it. It’s not him saying it that makes me uncomfortable, it’s what he wants that in a woman I guess. Idk maybe that’s common?
She asked to be alone, but you kept texting her. She probably wants to move on.
This is very confusing. At age 20 she should have had her HPV vaccine by now? If not tell her to go get it. The only real way to pass on HPV is sex or sharing sex toys.
Are you sure he means donate as in this would be your inheritance? Because, honestly, it sounds more like he wants to be a landlord without any of the responsibilities. Is it his idea that you pay him for it or yours? Is he buying it and immediately putting it in your name…or is that just your assumption? Because just having a property (I'm assuming with a house on it) without doing anything else with it (like renting it out) seems as pointless as having it do nothing in a bank…which has the bonus of not having to pay property tax and upkeep. Unless, of course, that's the reason for letting you move into it.
I'd be sure to have expectations and costs firmly laid out…and committed to a legally be binding contract before I'd actually take something like this on. It could bite you in the butt later on. It would truly suck to put time, money and effort into a home…thinking that it's going to be yours…only to have the conditions of ownership change or have the home taken back completely.
How exactly do you marry someone who is crushing on another guy right before your marriage? I’m sure the maturity is appreciated, but how does one go into a lifelong commitment with someone who may occasionally get swept off her feet from another guy she works with? Communication is great and all, but if my fiancé communicated to me that she liked someone else a month before a lifelong commitment, I’d be torn up inside. You both should be head over heels with each other right now, yet she’s crushing on someone who isn’t you. Sorry but I feel bad for you. Gotta suck.
I think the fact that you think that's an option says exactly how you feel