” He's perfect! But he doesn't respect me at all! ” This is you. Tell him he can look at all the insta models when he's single..and break up with him. You deserve better.
So… it's flirting. And by the sounds of it she didn't engage too much? She can't stop people flirting with her. And you're both very young, just enjoy the time you have together..
And you are missing my point. These things are not at all similar.
There is a big difference between:
somebody having an affair without your knowledge (which is what you now seem to be talking about); and, somebody using “her hard earned money” to support a second family (which is what you were talking about in your previous post); and, not knowing whether the child you are raising is actually yours.
These things are just not remotely similar.
Sure, she doesn't know if he is having an affair. But you know what? He also doesn't know whether she is having an affair.
And even if they get the paternity test, he still won't know whether she is having an affair. He will just know whether the child he is raising is his own, which is apparently all he is asking for.
You seem to not like that. Fine. Nobody has to agree to it. But blaming him for just asking is ridiculous.
Tell him to date dudes
Exactly how I read OPs comment, too.
Oof. “We’re both in the wrong” is not the take you want here, my dude
” He's perfect! But he doesn't respect me at all! ” This is you. Tell him he can look at all the insta models when he's single..and break up with him. You deserve better.
So… it's flirting. And by the sounds of it she didn't engage too much? She can't stop people flirting with her. And you're both very young, just enjoy the time you have together..
Yes, that’s very possible. It was a functional arrangement for us until recently.
And you are missing my point. These things are not at all similar.
There is a big difference between:
somebody having an affair without your knowledge (which is what you now seem to be talking about); and, somebody using “her hard earned money” to support a second family (which is what you were talking about in your previous post); and, not knowing whether the child you are raising is actually yours.
These things are just not remotely similar.
Sure, she doesn't know if he is having an affair. But you know what? He also doesn't know whether she is having an affair.
And even if they get the paternity test, he still won't know whether she is having an affair. He will just know whether the child he is raising is his own, which is apparently all he is asking for.
You seem to not like that. Fine. Nobody has to agree to it. But blaming him for just asking is ridiculous.
What in the Mike Pence is going on here…
Ty