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It's understandable that your mother is in a difficult situation. On one hand, she may feel a sense of obligation to help her sister, especially given their family relationship. On the other hand, she has valid concerns about the potential negative impact on her own life if she allows her sister to stay with her. It's important for your mother to consider her own well-being and boundaries in this situation, as well as the potential consequences of enabling her sister's behavior.
One option for your mother could be to offer limited and temporary support, such as helping your aunt to find a women's shelter or other temporary housing arrangement, while setting clear boundaries and expectations about the terms of any assistance. It may also be helpful for your mother to seek support and guidance from a therapist or other trusted professional to help her navigate this situation and find a resolution that is best for her. Ultimately, the decision about whether or not to allow her sister to stay with her is your mother's to make, and she should do what feels right for her and is in her best interests.
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You need to get a lawyer and file for an annulment due to spousal abuse. Gather all the evidence you have and keep any future messages she might send. If she calls then record the conversation and keep that as well. Do not let her know what you're doing and do not contact her personally. Get everything together and have your lawyer handle any future contact on your behalf. If I were you I'd also request an order of protection before the annulment is finalized. Don't wait until she decides to come after you legally trying to take everything you have or cause you of being the abusive one.
I'm sorry you're going through this but you need to immediately start protecting yourself. If this is how things are this early on there's no telling how far she might go and how crazy things might get.
If for any reason you need to get things from the home that belong to you I'd suggest you request a police escort so she can't try anything and if she does then you've got a legitimate witness.
Aye, that is exactly how I've been framing it in my head. Not only did she lie, she basically went on a date with this person and used my money to do so. It feels awful.
Thats pretty rough dude. I would have some heavy resentment for her after putting you in this position… at least that anger may help you with moving on.
There's no magic fix here. You deal with reality, avoid each other as much as possible and get out of there as soon as possible. If you can afford it you might be able to buy yourself out of the lease at some point. Really it should be her doing that, but there's a fat chance of her doing anything for your sake.
It might help you to take a trip and have some alone time to grieve the loss of the relationship so you can move forward undeterred.
Thats pretty rough dude. I would have some heavy resentment for her after putting you in this position… at least that anger may help you with moving on.
There's no magic fix here. You deal with reality, avoid each other as much as possible and get out of there as soon as possible. If you can afford it you might be able to buy yourself out of the lease at some point. Really it should be her doing that, but there's a fat chance of her doing anything for your sake.
It might help you to take a trip and have some alone time to grieve the loss of the relationship so you can move forward undeterred.
thank you. i appreciate this a lot. i’ve considered reaching out to his family, which is something i think i’m going to do. i hadn’t considered reaching out to an old friend of his, i have one in mind and they’re friendship didn’t fall out on a negative note. thank you for that! and as far as it goes for medication, i don’t think he would be too happy if i brought that up. i have in the past, but he is very… i’m not sure how to word it. he doesn’t like hearing that. he refuses therapy and says it’s for people who are “b1tch made”. i’ve also already scheduled a therapy appointment for next week when i get settled in at my moms. i’ve known deep down this was going to happen eventually for quite some time now. and i’m finally ready. a weekend trip to see my family and friends made me realize how much better i feel. as soon as i left i immediately felt better. i’m prepared for the ups and downs. looking forward to spending an obnoxious amount of time with my friends and family. again, thank you. hope all is well for you
She can be a victim and an abuser at the same time. She had a responsibility to get you away from him. Instead, she kept you in that situation and essentially used you as a meat shield to make it easier on herself. You owe her nothing. Take care of yourself, and let her do the same.