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So you can just block him and I strongly recommend you do. If he’s showing such incredible controlling and threatening behaviours when you’re not even established, and threatening violence, believe me, if you stay with him, he will kill you.
Do you know it’s verified that the most common form of spousal murder is strangulation/choking? He has already told you that’s what he’ll do if you stay.
Honestly, it sounds like you need to do things for yourself like self-care stuff. Start a new hobby, exercise, go to sporting events or do things that you like that she is not interested or involved in. As you do things that make you feel good about yourself, you'll start getting over her. Don't be surprised if she takes notice and tries to get you back. Once she sees you pull away, she'll do what she can to rope you back. Don't fall for it. She will not have changed, she just wants an ego boost from you.
Nop, thats a very short minded and biased reading that you are doing of what Im saying.
Point 1) OP clearly stated that she suffers a lot of mental illnesses.
Point 2) She got a complete overhaul style change in the spawn of a year, while going from a “standart western” feminine style to a full pierced face, overweight and coloured hair style. This alone its sign of mental inestability. Changing your hair colour, having a piercing, a tatoo… but a FULL change over one year, from a person that we already know that has mental problems? Do you need me to explain to you why 1 + 1 equals 2?
Point 3 ) Im not critizicing anyone in my post, Im just stating facts about her behaviour, and the most probable outcome that I see in that relationship.
Point 4) She can of course drees anyway she wants, and behave anyway she wants, thats called individual freedom and Im a full supporter of it above anything else. And also of course OP has every right to not be attracted to her.
Point 4 ) She does not need to make anyone happy, not even herself (wich seems to be the case). But hey, let me give you a life tip with a book quotation: “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert Heinlein. Do not take it as a literal thing, but in general terms if you feel that you dont “need” to make your SO happy ( and yourself also ), you are running to have a very sad relationship, and life in general.
It is hard to get over the embarrassment, it is forever recorded in your brain but on the bright side it is a start for a beautiful friendship. Everyone who walks upon this world has had embarrassing moments. Remember you are much wiser now.
Definitely kick him to the curb. But know this is not typical behavior for someone in a committed relationship. What he did was deliberately hurtful. As was blaming you because you “hang out with the wrong ppl”. His commitment was not strong. You know you can’t count on him. Btw, you did not make him cheat. He did that. If bf had a problem, he should have discussed it with you.
Dang dude… I'm sorry you went through that… I'm sorry she won't leave you alone now. It'll be hard to heal since you can't cut her out completely… being the mother of your child… but hopefully she will realize soon it isn't going to happen and stop making things worse for you.
Also sorry but I chuckled hard at the opening sentence. Right amount of savagery. She didn't just cheat she had a full blown affair. That's awful. That's also not on you. That's on her.
So you can just block him and I strongly recommend you do. If he’s showing such incredible controlling and threatening behaviours when you’re not even established, and threatening violence, believe me, if you stay with him, he will kill you.
Do you know it’s verified that the most common form of spousal murder is strangulation/choking? He has already told you that’s what he’ll do if you stay.
Please believe him and run. He doesn’t love you.
Hey OP, this person may not be saying they cheated but I am. They absolutely cheated on you. Probably more than once
Honestly, it sounds like you need to do things for yourself like self-care stuff. Start a new hobby, exercise, go to sporting events or do things that you like that she is not interested or involved in. As you do things that make you feel good about yourself, you'll start getting over her. Don't be surprised if she takes notice and tries to get you back. Once she sees you pull away, she'll do what she can to rope you back. Don't fall for it. She will not have changed, she just wants an ego boost from you.
Just be happy, your her number one most insecure
Nop, thats a very short minded and biased reading that you are doing of what Im saying.
Point 1) OP clearly stated that she suffers a lot of mental illnesses.
Point 2) She got a complete overhaul style change in the spawn of a year, while going from a “standart western” feminine style to a full pierced face, overweight and coloured hair style. This alone its sign of mental inestability. Changing your hair colour, having a piercing, a tatoo… but a FULL change over one year, from a person that we already know that has mental problems? Do you need me to explain to you why 1 + 1 equals 2?
Point 3 ) Im not critizicing anyone in my post, Im just stating facts about her behaviour, and the most probable outcome that I see in that relationship.
Point 4) She can of course drees anyway she wants, and behave anyway she wants, thats called individual freedom and Im a full supporter of it above anything else. And also of course OP has every right to not be attracted to her.
Point 4 ) She does not need to make anyone happy, not even herself (wich seems to be the case). But hey, let me give you a life tip with a book quotation: “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert Heinlein. Do not take it as a literal thing, but in general terms if you feel that you dont “need” to make your SO happy ( and yourself also ), you are running to have a very sad relationship, and life in general.
It is hard to get over the embarrassment, it is forever recorded in your brain but on the bright side it is a start for a beautiful friendship. Everyone who walks upon this world has had embarrassing moments. Remember you are much wiser now.
Definitely kick him to the curb. But know this is not typical behavior for someone in a committed relationship. What he did was deliberately hurtful. As was blaming you because you “hang out with the wrong ppl”. His commitment was not strong. You know you can’t count on him. Btw, you did not make him cheat. He did that. If bf had a problem, he should have discussed it with you.
I told him I wanted to see him and asked him to come over.. I apparently asked him twice.
He asked if I was talking about that night because he couldn’t but brought up the next night.
I told him I was out and not home yet. It was pretty late when we were talking
The next day he asked if I was hung over.
How do you feel about dating a congenital liar?
If you are good with the idea, stay.
Dang dude… I'm sorry you went through that… I'm sorry she won't leave you alone now. It'll be hard to heal since you can't cut her out completely… being the mother of your child… but hopefully she will realize soon it isn't going to happen and stop making things worse for you.
Also sorry but I chuckled hard at the opening sentence. Right amount of savagery. She didn't just cheat she had a full blown affair. That's awful. That's also not on you. That's on her.
She’s mad at the kind of response he gave. Saying he didn’t like it is one thing, saying it looks like WW3 is another.
It's honestly good advice.