I think now is a good time to take a step back from your relationship and work on you. There are things you've identified wouldn't have made you a suitable partner, might be a good time to work on being that person. Do it for you
“No, me belittling you and criticizing your appearance isn’t a ME problem, it’s your fault for being insensitive.”
“I know our frequency of sex is an issue for you so let me tell you in detail all the sex i used to have with other men who were taller than you and i felt more spark with. But your feelings aren’t valid because I really like you so you shouldn’t complain. You being upset is your problem not mine”
I stopped reading after seeing the age gap… yeah no
I think now is a good time to take a step back from your relationship and work on you. There are things you've identified wouldn't have made you a suitable partner, might be a good time to work on being that person. Do it for you
yeah I just remember that she said she is having signs of mental illness recently, I should take her to therapy soon. thanks for the advice.
No he’s treating her like the grown adult she is. He shouldn’t have to drive her around cause she’s too broke to buy a car
You work that out with the courts. Talk to a local family lawyer, they will fill you in better than I can.
It sounds like she still likes fantasizing about your times together. 25 times is a lot.
We don't
She may be healing and now she has different needs.
It’s called manipulation and gaslighting my man.
“No, me belittling you and criticizing your appearance isn’t a ME problem, it’s your fault for being insensitive.”
“I know our frequency of sex is an issue for you so let me tell you in detail all the sex i used to have with other men who were taller than you and i felt more spark with. But your feelings aren’t valid because I really like you so you shouldn’t complain. You being upset is your problem not mine”
Don’t marry this woman.
For the same reason I read your whole comment. I didn’t realize how awful it was until it was too late.