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Date: November 26, 2022
Ahh.. I can understand better then.
And had it been an issue from the start that you'd hope would get better? Or something that kind of got increasingly problematic?
I personally don't believe people can/will change (not without some pretty intense therapy)… If you are planning/wanting to get married/have kids with him, I'm assuming you've brought it up with him? Sometimes these kind of heavier talks that involves the future somewhat scares the guy and regresses them into something they found comfort in in their younger days. I think if this was this case, you guys should have a serious talk about your futures and if he's just trying to hang on to his childfree/youthful days as long as he can and thus burying himself in games and neglecting you/your relationship.
If not, perhaps you should bring up your expectations/hopes for your future together and express how his current behaviour (excessive gaming) is making you doubt and question your future (or whatever you are actually feeling about it).
I guess other things is trying to find out why he is that into his video games, bring up gaming addiction or usage of gaming as avoidance or some kind of (unhealthy/maladaptive) coping mechanism of other issues/problems/stress he may be having.. and trying to work through it together.
Suggest other things you can do together (and enjoy doing together) that you know releases stress… perhaps working out together, going to an artjamming/candle making workshop together or whatever…
But sometimes a kick in the butt (i.e. you leaving – and you do need to be prepared that it may possibly be the end of the relationship) will make him realise he needs to change and/or put some effort into the relationship.
You can't make generalizations here. Each person is different. If your husband never has given you reason to distrust him and he shared something like this with you he most likely has matured. I would keep an eye on it, but I wouldn't let it damage your relationship.
Yeah, but your wife didn't ask you to turn those opportunities down because she wanted time to travel. She wants you home as much as possible because you have two! premature infants and she needs your help.
You got a new job offer in less than two weeks, you could have gotten another one easily later. Instead, you left her stuck at home with PPD (which fucking sucks & medication will only do so much) and two infants. It's nice that your mothers are there, but she didn't make those babies with them, she made them with you. A lot of people don't have other options, but you did. You could have stayed in your old job until the situation was more stable.
You prioritised you career and your happiness over your family. That's your choice to make, but you'll also have to live with the consequences of it.
You’re just getting into adulthood. You learned a lesson that will make you more observant when you date in the future. It’s difficult to find out who you can trust.
Point out where I said I agree with this mentality, you illiterate moron
But it’s not only his house if you’re sharing it and hoping to start a family together. That’s what I mean.
Yes, he may be the one who bought it and made the payments. But the point at which you take someone on to be a life partner (whether that be husband/wife or long-term romantic partners), things like the house you share cease to be strictly yours vs. mine. You two are building a home together that’s the foundation of your lives together. It’s more than just the concrete slab, the walls, and roof. It’s about coming together to decide how you want this space to be and how you both want to feel inside it. The fact that you don’t feel you can do too much because it’s his home says there’s a fundamental problem. And if he’s not inviting you to make this space your home just as much as it is his, then that’s says he doesn’t want you to feel that way. That’s a problem.
You quoted me but I'll say it again.
Legally an adult doesn't make you a real adult.
That means yes legally in the eyes of the law you are an adult but your birthday happening does not make you a real adult. Because you turned 18 you do not magically become a developed adult over night you are still have the same mind-set, maturity and development as you did yesterday when you were 17.
I'm just saying she is still just as much as a kid as she was the day before her birthday which was only months ago.