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It seems like your ex is calling the shots here.
In your own words you said she divorced you, and now she's being insistent that you get back together.
Why the hell are you ALLOWING her to dictate things, put pressure on you, manipulate you and be the decision maker? Dude, that's on you for allowing that behavior and putting up with it. You don't seem to have many boundaries.
This woman has zero respect for you. That's why she had the audacity to bring this man to YOUR home. A “normal” cheating partner would at least go to a hotel room. But no, not her. She waltzes the guy right into the house, full well KNOWING there was a high probability of the kids seeing this man. It's like she was purposely trying to get caught. Zero respect for you sir, absolutely zero. This woman clearly has issues that go beyond cheating.
But to be honest, that isn't even the real issue here. The real issue is you putting up with this shit, tolerating her control and manipulation and ALLOWING her to have so much input into your life, post divorce.
You should have made it clear to her long before now, that a reconciliation was not possible. Instead, she knows she can come crawling back to you now, utter “I made a mistake” and you'll actually entertain the thought of allowing her back into your life as something more than the mother of your children.
I don't know which one of you is more fucked up in the head.
Divorce? Home slice you should be calling the police
There’s absolutely nothing that can be done about this. If someone is so insecure they can’t get over knowing what an ex looks like after they went looking, that’s a them problem not a relationship problem. They have to figure out if they can move past this or not.
Just a bit of advice for always. If you want something, want to know something, want to understand something. Never hint. People aren't mind readers and some hints aren't as obvious as you think they are. I'm a woman and slightly dense, so hinting had to be HUGE hint for me to get it. My guy is denser than me and hinting is a misfire every time. I would recommend not being too blunt ex: “hey do you like me or what?”. But a nice warm conversation talking about feelings is good. Also he may be a bit shy so if you're not, go first about your feelings so he can feel more relaxed talking about his.
I think he's cheating. He immediately got defensive and instead of trying to alleviate any suspicions he just made himself look guilty. Also threatening to not move in together sounds like he's just trying to shut you up about the situation.
I like how she says OP is bad at sex, but wanted to use him for sex? Which one is it then? He can't be that bad if she wanted to use him for that.
You asked! You need to work on your own vanity and figure out why you are so into yourself and your looks. It's good to put effort into yourself, but it seems that you care more about what other people think.
I have suggested asking our friends with kids for recommendations in the past and can’t remember why that didn’t go anywhere. Time to try again!
Thank you for the advice regarding calling out her insults. Her insults can range anywhere from things like the selfish comment (that I feel is untrue) to blatantly cali g me stupid or an asshole.
I will suggest virtual therapy, thanks for the tip!
I’m fairness, I have flaws and tendencies that I’m trying to work on that contribute to the fights. I get dismissive, and lose patience quickly when I feel like the conversation is going in circles. She will ask if I agree with her on something, and if I don’t, I’m pretty blunt with why. I am working on being nicer about it so she doesn’t feel like I don’t support her. I think in general I can do better to empathize with her and validate her feelings.
Why'd you cheat? You don't deserve either of them. Break up with the new girl and let her go find someone else.
Updateme!
I started telling him I’m not driving him anymore and that’s exactly what happens. He takes his brothers or parents car if i don’t and he’ll also be kind of mad at me for saying no. I understand it’s because nobody likes to be told no or not get something they want, but i have bpd and can’t handle him having an attitude with me if i won’t drive so most of the time i give in. But i stopped driving there every day, i give him grief every single day about the amount of consumption, i stopped paying for it all together. He doesn’t think he’s bad enough to be considered an alcoholic and thinks he falls into the “gray area drinking” criteria.
Oh you’re newly single you say ? CONGRATS!
Lol not even a second time, wouldn’t want to go through life married to someone like that.
It's refreshing to see someone have faith in their partner. A lot of people just hear the story and see red, they don't think about logic and how the story may sound. Good for you. You probably would have ruined your relationship had you come in with accusations and anger.
Does your sister have any reason to dislike your gf? Maybe some issue that the two of you aren't aware of maybe? This is all wild and I hope you all get to the bottom of it, but I'm glad to hear the two of you will be figuring it out together. That's what's important. Best of luck!
Sounds like she's wasting your time to me. What adult has time for this kind of game lol
I guess I’m not afraid to say anything. I sent a text saying it feels like this has morphed into something more, but I suppose it doesn’t freak me out to have a conversation that checks in with how we are feeling. Could he pull away and get weird? Absolutely. I hope he doesn’t. I hope we can talk about what we want and how we feel and go from there… but shit doesn’t always work out that way
Focus 100% on your wife during and speak before hand what she comfortable with you and friend doing.
For example just oral or full penetrative sex.
But no matter what you focus on you wife more.
I've heard such bad things about doing it with someone you wife close to, it starts jealousy and fights ??♀️ but good luck.
Once it's over cuddle you wife tell how much you love her
But I still think it bad idea
This one is kind of rough. If your biggest concern is changes, he would hold similar opinions of paint color or views regardless of the place you bought, honestly.
If you admit that he is good at a lot of upkeep, then the complaints about the garden and upkeep are kind of moot. In terms of price; I find it very hard to believe he wouldn’t get a very good deal on it? Could saved expenses go into monthly housecleaning? He also has a pretty good point about the paint color.
Also, about spending weekend in complete leisure, I find this interesting. I live in a two bedroom apartment with no kids, and still find weekends to be house chores and catch up time. Just kind of a weird complaint to me.
Personally, I would feel pretty gutted to take that dream away from my partner when it’s right in front of them. I don’t think it’s that hard to have a super serious conversation about it expectations if you did move in. A large room for kiddo, you pick the paint color and decor in “x” amount of rooms, garden is his responsibility and chores split evenly ect. The complainants you have seems pretty menial and I personally wouldn’t consider disappointing my partner over pretty small reservations.
He love-bombed you by being “perfect”. No-one can sustain that over the long haul. Anyone who's been in an abuse relationship needs to work on themselves before they enter another serious relationship.
He is being controlling. It's none of his business how you spend your money as long as you can pay your share of the bills.
If you're living with him, move out ASAP. Then break up with him (via text, if necessary). Then get yourself into therapy before you get into another serious relationship so you can heal and be healthy before the next one.
Women don’t come on to you in a club like that lol. It requires a lot more work and it are usually the fuckboy type of guys that are in favor with club women. so anyway you’re good
You're a shitty person. I hope they both dump you and you end up alone, as you deserve to be.
Massive L take. OP could remove himself from every situation that BFF is involved in, but GF would start to question why pretty quickly, and when it would come out that BFF is the reason for OP always being absent, the outcome would be the same. OP sounds extremely reasonable and far more patient than most (I know that I wouldn't be one to be taken aside and berated for 5 minutes without an unpleasant response). It isn't manipulative to straight up ask someone what their problem is when there clearly is one (or several)