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Date: November 5, 2022
He might have dopamine overstimulation it’s becoming pretty popular these days, is very common in men, and kills sex drives, it’s not that they don’t want sex but the high stimulation In Their brain floods chemicals which kinda wash out all the others, it really shouldn’t be your responsibility for this, but getting him outside and on adventures doing new things he hasn’t done is a great way to reignite the brain! It also might get him a little less grinchy!
Again, I’m not understanding what you just said.
I know I have extreme anxiety, I never considered having adhd because I dont' have problems focusing on tasks but hmh. Idk. thanks!
Oh look, another loser.
Trust your instincts. Not those of people who have never met him.
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My (34m) wife (36f) and I have been together for 17 years. About a year ago I asked to open our relationship up. Mainly because I was severely lacking intimacy and feeling super stressed. We have 3 kids and jobs. I spend the lions share of time taking care of the fam. She agreed and mentioned she also wanted that but was too afraid to ask.
I found a partner after a while, a beautiful and amazing woman. The sex is incredible. I'm very affectionate still with my wife she means literally the world to me. Being with the other woman makes me love my wife even more.
Now my wife also has a partner and i feel like I'm dying. I don't understand how anyone does this. I can't think or sleep. I'm strong on the outside for her sake since she has been for me but inside i don't know how I can survive another moment of this. I feel like I can't even sleep next to her. My heart is pounding out of my chest.
I feel like there is no good way forward. I have crafted my own hell. I want to run to this other woman just so I can feel normal but my wife is the one I want. How the hell does anyone do this? Is there any other reprieve from this intense gut wrenching grief?
Have you had consultations or looked into programs for IVF to help out based on your circumstances? Maybe some kind of payment plan availability? There must be resources out there. I think Australia is pushing to make IVF free. Is it a procedure you could do abroad/ for cheaper in other countries? Would adoption down the road ever be something you consider?
If you're set on having a kid to the point of having one with him, that's your own choice and prioritization. But do yourself a favor; if you DO have a kid with him, do not stay with him for the sake of the child. Sounds to me like you'd be better off as a single parent receiving scant child support here and there than also supporting him. He is not a good person, not a good partner, and then you at least open yourself down the road to someone to fill the position of good partner/ parent.
I mean, you asked. Could he have been less rude about it – sure. On the other hand you’ve gone to raves before and it was a hit and miss and he probably worried whether or not you were having a good time and that ruined it for him a bit. Find stuff you can do together and don’t worry about the techno parties.
Also, I really chuckled at “techno concert”
Some people just have massively different love languages. In my early 20’s I couldn’t have articulated what my needs were in this way because I was so focused on being what I thought someone needed instead of being myself that I ended up creating distance inadvertently because my actions weren’t authentic. I didn’t want to upset anyone and I honestly had this naive notion that someone who truly loves me will just ‘get me’ without much effort, but that’s really not how relationships work.
I had a similar experience to you with my last serious partner years ago, he just always felt miles away, no matter what I did or said I just couldn’t reach him and I was convinced he didn’t love me as much as I loved him. We connected on many levels but ultimately there were a lot of things about himself he wouldn’t share with me which just felt like a big giant wall and so I pulled back because it didn’t feel safe being 100% vulnerable with them. He was very actions over words and I needed the words. He would say things like you’re saying “no one knows me as well as you” and sometimes I felt like I barely knew him! It was so confusing.
It wasn’t until a big disagreement and spending some time apart did we ever get the courage to say how we really felt, but that was it, it was never an ongoing practice of being open about our feelings. Only after these big exhausting talks which was so hard.
I think based on what you said here, you both need time alone to heal some things and grow and mature in some ways to become the partners you want to be.
It sounds like you both have expectations of each other but it was never fully communicated, just a lot of assumptions and hopes and without directness which builds resentment over time. You could have felt you showed love through your actions and she could have told you sweet things all the time and expected that back but never really had the courage to ask. There are many variables.
Anyway, I know it’s hard to move on but build up your confidence on your own and a relationship won’t feel so confusing because you’ll have the confidence to be direct and ask for what you need and be able to discern who is safe to open your heart to in a good way.
? Excellent creative writing. Sheldon is totally plotting to take you out.
And even though there technically wasn’t proof, none of the cops told you that you should probably get out of the relationship for your safety anyway…?!