You reek of insecurity. She doesn’t need your approval to do her job. I literally had to look back and see how old you were cause honestly, this sounds like an insecure 15 year old worried about his first girlfriend going off to summer camp and worrying that she will duck out of singing campfire songs to make out with another boy.
Just face the fact that she isn’t your girlfriend anymore, she’s going off to work in her chosen career field (which I guarantee you she was well aware of the fact she may be the only woman on ship) and you need to go off and do some major work on yourself before looking to get into another relationship.
If she’s at your house and ignoring you, tell her to leave. If you’re at her house, wish her a lovely evening and go home.
He is an abusive AH. You need to break up. This will only escalate.
She thinks once every couple of years is a healthy sex life?
At 22?
You're not sexually compatible. Not even a little bit.
You reek of insecurity. She doesn’t need your approval to do her job. I literally had to look back and see how old you were cause honestly, this sounds like an insecure 15 year old worried about his first girlfriend going off to summer camp and worrying that she will duck out of singing campfire songs to make out with another boy.
Just face the fact that she isn’t your girlfriend anymore, she’s going off to work in her chosen career field (which I guarantee you she was well aware of the fact she may be the only woman on ship) and you need to go off and do some major work on yourself before looking to get into another relationship.