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Date: October 31, 2022
I mean he's your ex for an obvious reason. Sucks for her that she'll find out he's a cheating douche
Yea she cut off contact with him and has changed her behavior. She will let me check her phone whenever I want. The whole situation just still bothers me and when I think about it makes me feel sick
What’s difficult is that I love this pup with my whole heart and we’ve really created a bond together. I really don’t know if it’s better to tough it out for her, or rehome her and lose her forever. I know that sounds stupid and maybe a little selfish, but I can’t imagine not having her.
That’s what I don’t understand, I’m sick to death of these stupid games. How can it take a few days to decide if you want to be exclusive with the best guy you’ve ever met ?
I can’t contact her though and tell her I don’t want anything to do with her because then I seem crazy.
I guess all I can do is carry on doing me 🙂
Yes, ironically I’m mixed and my family moved to Texas when I was young. There were a lot of people I knew growing up who were racist to some extent (I grew up in central texas so more subtle than overt racism). On many occasions some of the people I grew up with would go to college in more diversified areas and come back with very different demeanors on the ideology of race and how to treat people. Not to say everyone can change but I often find people grow in bigoted environments and people highly value the judgements of those that raised them. When they branch out and see that view is wrong and can openly state that, typically it’s a good sign they are more informed and sincere. At least, that has been my experience.
She’s interested when she’s ovulating. Her hormones are wreaking havoc
he’s 40 bro prolly can’t
Two things here (really 3), but to lead off by answering your question; no, there’s no point in staying, and that’s logically always been the point.
The second issue is focusing on his friend. She couldn’t possibly be any less relevant.
Finally, what are you rushing here? You’re 20 years old. A healthy relationship should be your focus, not an inherent need to get married. Unfortunately, you’re here in an objectively bad relationship. It’s time to let it go.
Some Said Here I could send her to shrink to get it Sortet…
If that's a dealbreaker for you then maybe you should leave, I don't know.
Bodies change, but you married this person and said “for better or for worse, in sickness and in health” right now she is struggling, and the weight gain is likely an offshoot of this.
You're approaching it backwards, you're thinking if she loses weight then everything will be fixed and she will be fine, but you don't know that.
If you can establish an emotional understanding and help support her it's much more likely she will have more motivation to invest in herself and how she feels about herself. How you're approaching her only will contribute to shitty body image (which who knows how it was before), low self-esteem, and resentment toward you.
This!!!!!!!!!
Every couple is different. I'm similar like you OP and we are happy with it.
Having a ton of sex does not equal healthy happy relationship.
Do what works for your relationship and don't compare to anyone else.
Or she could go back to work and he could stay home and do 75% of the housework if it’s si easy.
Its a red flag. Just like someone always changing the screen that they're viewing whenever you walk in the room. It doesn't mean anything by itself. But when you see a few red flags, it probably means something.
Thank you!
he made it up
Uhh, he's still lying. Stop having sex with him and get tested ASAP
I wanted to break up yesterday but she said give her another chance
Leave the relationship. Block him. He is a danger and manipulative. You are not responsible for his wellbeing
Yes. Leave him alone. He’s an emotional toddler.
Sounds like the straw the broke the camels back or whatever
I understand, it's unfair. Tell your bf the criticisms from your parents and that you expect him to make an effort given the favor they're doing you both. Also tell him that you have heard the last of his complaints unless he has a plan B. Long as he can't offer an option, he needs to suck it up. Especially that your parents sound like good people who happen to live their lives the way they see fit which is only fair.
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So he has known this all along and now all of the sudden its a problem? You should leave him. If he doesnt accept all of your this will be a thing for ever.
Lol I don’t think it does.
I get what you're saying but honestly I didn't get the creepy vibe from her. She's not a bad person, she's a frustrated person.
She and I aren't meant to be but I want the best for her. I hope she's more honest with people in the future because she's got a lot to offer.
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You say shit that you won’t normally say because your brain stop you from saying these… In alcohol you don’t have those filters.
I’m one of those people that showers in the morning plus hair washing to wake myself up and then I take a long relaxing bath at night with no hair washing to get the day off me.
But this is my choice. If someone who said they loved me tried to make me change up what works for me I would be pissed.
Also it’s really hard to get good sleep with wet hair and you wake up and it’s a nightmare to style if you don’t do the 2 shower a day thing.
I think this is one of those things you’re either gonna have to let slide or call it off if it’s a dealbreaker for you.
Is she really worth losing over this? If she is it’s not the love you think it is.
He been cheating on you and staying with the other woman 4 nights/week.
That’s the thing, I met everyone. So it feels like he’s hiding it from someone that I haven’t met.
My family are born in an old culture where they arrange their young daughter to be with a more established older man so they don't agree with me dating a young man
Of course. If you wish to further chat about it, feel free to reach out to me at any time 🙂
Does he say it to you??? That's what counts.
Talk to an attorney and get the divorce going. Tell her that you want a divorce and that you want out. IMO, she's cheating whether it's emotional or physical or both. She has checked out of the marriage, so there's really no reason to fix it. File for divorce and start living your life and you will see that being single is better than staying in a loveless marriage . Good luck
That’s manipulative af
I love that this is the top comment.
You tell her “Who I allow to touch or enter my body is my my business and my business alone. This isn't up for discussion, it's my body”
There's nothing disrespectful about that.
I’m struggling to understand how a relationship that’s structured like this progressed to marriage.
Dude, for sure don't let her pressure you. BUT, if you plan to propose to her anyway and want to marry her just do it and get it over with. Why are you dealing with all the BS. Do it tomorrow. Ya bringing all this on yourself.
I don’t understand why he needed Reddit to tell him this lol
Why is he not blocked? Please don’t reply and block him. He wants something from you despite him giving you nothing when you reach out to him 5 years ago.
He made his bed now let him live in his misery alone
Sex is a pair-bonding activity for primates, & humans are primates. It's a huge reason why missionary is the main way we do it, not just doggy style (which inseminates just as well). It's easier to let little things go, feel warm fuzzies towards your partner, etc., when you're having regular, good sex.
I hope you have spoken to your fiance about the plan for birth control, abortion, sterilization, etc. once you're married, & that the two of you are on the same page about it all. I don't want to trash Catholicism, but I really hope he doesn't expect you to just churn out baby after baby after baby for years. Besides everything else, that's exceedingly hard on your body.
So could she if she actually cared.
Don’t people write their diary those days? They put every ex’s name in it. Lol
Blowing up someone’s phone to check on them is not abuse. It’s overbearing and annoying, but not abuse.
You don’t know if he is trying to control her. You haven’t read the text messages. OP literally says he is just overly worrisome.
Your previous partner sounds like an asshole because he was getting angry. There is no indication in this post that the boyfriend was getting angry.
Exactly. I think she's mad at his family because they're exactly correct. She likely cheated on her husband and he just found out that her son isn't his. It's not easy to meddle with a DNA test and I really don't see how his family could have had a chance to meddle with it. She's pissed off that she's been called out and wants an echo chamber.
Sometimes I have a hard time believing people are this stupid but then I come on reddit and read stories like this and can't believe my eyes. Jesus Christ this guy is awful lol.
…this is right out of a 1974 Penthouse Forum. “there I was at the laund-o-mat…when all a sudden the USC cheer squad came in to wash their uniforms My 20 plus inches stood at attention….” Just as believable too.
Thinking maybe the ex left her last relationship and hoping he wants her back at some point. Posting about a new guy would make that…messy. Or, the ex never was an ex. both very bad.
I am sure u don't believe in good Samaritan concept too.
It's meant to be that way, it's a karma farming post that's been on here several times
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Did he do it to show you that words are hollow, or did he really hope you’d never figure it out?
Dump him. He's lying about you to people and doesn't trust you. Without trust you have nothing.
But also correct. You don’t fully trust him. You’re worried he’s cheating on you
Not entirely. If they live in cities that have high crime then safety is 100% a solid reason. Though im not sure how their situation is. Long(ish) distance relationships are very different. Especially in the early 20s because they're still maturing.
Now, if she asks and he does not agree to share locations, i can't really think of a reason not to agree other than he's doing things he shouldn't and doesn't want her finding out. I could be wrong though
Love changes, esp when someone changes something fundamental about themselves. You can love and accept someone and no longer feel physical attraction. Since you both have high sex drives, it might be better to morph into a platonic relationship and continue to love and support each other, while looking for different romantic partners.
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Serious replies only… he just recently got married.
I don't have any sage advice for getting over your infatuation; wish I did. But it might help if you realize how sleazy it is for him as a newlywed to be scoping you to be his side piece. I'd call that pretty disrespectful of him.
It's up to you whether you report him or not. What you've described so far sounds like it falls short of a smoking gun. Meaning I believe you're reading his signals exactly right, but he has plausible deniability if you accuse him of unprofessional behavior. It could even backfire and hurt your career.
My serious advice is to start by setting a firm boundary. If he crosses it, tell him he's making you uncomfortable. Make a note when he clearly crosses lines with you, in case you need them later. He'll either behave himself, or he'll unintentionally resolve your quandary for you.
That’s unfortunate you think so.
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I meant we are sorry
She is not making you feel guilty. You are choosing to feel guilty. Because you have no personal boundaries.
Do you want to do this? No? Then DECIDE you are not doing it. And tell her. It’s not happening.
Tell her what you ARE willing to do. What her options are. One of the options is breaking up. You decide what the other options are. And tell her to choose.
There’s nothing you can do to keep someone from cheating on you if they decide they’re going to do it. Period. You can’t tie someone up in your basement in the name of love. You can’t control them.
If you love someone, you have to trust them. If you don’t trust them, then I would question how much you actually love them opposed to being infatuated and attracted to them. In this case with your girlfriend, it sounds like what she wants and what you want are two completely different things. This means you aren’t compatible unless one of you is going to bend on what your goals for the relationship are. Sometimes things just don’t work out no matter how much you love someone or want to love someone.
You’re eighteen. This is just the beginning of your life. It might be worth taking a break from romantic relationships and becoming more comfortable with yourself and figuring out exactly what you want when you do date again (dating with the intention of eventually marrying someone vs dating to find companionship for the time being, etc).
You work 3 jobs cook and clean and he does jack shit all day? That's not gonna change, and it's an abusive situation. Please leave. Even if he suddenly started doing the chores he is abusing you.
I was going to say the same thing. Write it and then burn it.
If you feel the need to snoop on his phone—even with his permission—then you probably don’t trust him enough to be in a relationship with him. If you don’t trust him, don’t date him. If you do trust him, stay off of his phone. It’s one thing to USE your partner’s phone. It’s another thing entirely to go SEARCHING through your partner’s phone. You don’t need any proof in order to break up with him. You just need to decide that you don’t trust him.
So let me ask you this… Do you respect yourself enough to at least care about your own physical health? You suspected that your partner who you never indicated you were non-monogamous with slept with another person, but they were never honest with you about it, so does that mean you did not make them get tested once you suspected this? How many other people have you suspected this about and how often do you think that this person is putting your health at risk? Come on bro this is beyond doormat shit this is get yourself antibiotic resistant gonorrhea shit. oh, and the way you use her mental health issues as an excuse for hard behavior is actually really ableist.
Ya that’s one way.
We logically don't need to read beyond the title. Read it yourself; “what should I do when my partner treats me like absolute shit?” What would you suggest if you saw this post written by someone else? I think you know.
It sounds like the two of you absolutely hate each other. Why are you still in this relationship?
Just move on and delete her number. No need to block it. If She messages you can just ignore it
I’ve mentioned it, haven’t gotten through all the discussions though but I’m worried I’ve implanted a seed somewhere that he’s insufficient, he’s not he’s a great person but I’m worried this might cause an unintentional rift or overthinking
I think he's definitely checked out of the relationship, and I think he has been for a while. It's just very heartbreaking because I would give anything for us to be able to return to how things were the first couple of years. But I know that will never happen. It's just learning to cope with that that is hard for me. We've had many discussions, and I do not think he wants to change anything.
Dude, I know a lot of people struggling to find new work right now. You can judge all you fucking want, but a lot of people who have been trained/educated to work in certain sectors cannot find positions.
Delete her number and let go
r/whenwomenrefuse is a subreddit that highlights the very real danger of what happens when women shut that shit down.
I was raped by someone myself and my ex considered a close friend. We knew that asshole for years, and I'll never forget when I was sleeping in the guest room at another friend's house, when I heard, “I'm not (my ex's) name” in my ear. The terror I felt was beyond measure.
I always told myself that I would fight back if I ever found myself in that situation. But he was way bigger than I was. I couldn't even scream, I just let it happen. I wish I'd called him out, wish I'd charged him, but I was such an idiotic doormat that I didn't.
I still think about it years later.
I think most folks would not be ok with this. I don’t think putting a title on the relationship will change things either. She isn’t going to change. Do you think she’ll turn down future opportunities to take trips with this “friend” or other “friends?” She’s old enough to know the complications of doing something like this. You’re old enough to know it’s not going to work with a woman like this.
Sure you can, straight men get pegged by their cis woman partners all the time.
Ok do a partner that chooses a material item over your health and well being should be an ex. And that’s it.
Breaking up with someone who called you terrible names and not feeling sorry about the breakup is perfectly normal. Also, you're an adult. Your parents shouldn't be controlling who or how often you see someone.
I know exactly who to ask