Then get into therapy. A therapist will help you navigate your feelings, grieve your failed relationship, and come to terms with what you need to do to protect yourself.
Her past is not reassuring. That said, it doesn’t determine her future. Does she show any signs of cheating? Does she hide things? Does she talk openly about her other friendships and relationships? Does she spend surprising overnights in other places? What do others in your lives think, friends or family- do they consider you overly jealous? Have you been overly jealous in previous relationships?
Either you’re forgetting, she’s forgetting, or she’s gaslighting you. If it’s not about anything important and she’s not systematically undermining you, I wouldn’t worry about it.
My first girlfriend tried gaslighting me. We’d make plans and then she’d say we never did. I switched to only making plans over text, and within a week I caught her gaslighting me, with proof. For some reason we dated for another several months, but if something like that is reasonable, you could consider it?
I sort of doubt she’s intentionally gaslighting you after dating for 6 years, but I could be wrong. My advice is to just say ‘huh I don’t remember you saying that,’ and then moving on,
I think she’s had enough of being her sister and parents emotional punching bag over what sister did to her. If the book idea must go to these nutcases, then maybe the only rational head prevailing among the whole lot of them (OPs brother) should mention it to them. OP has had enough slaps in the face, humiliation, and verbal abuse from this motley crew to last a life time. She should stay far away.
You have the right read on this situation
she's abusing you. she is making your environment unstable and unsafe. the next step she'll take is breaking your things. your relationship is over
Why is that ?
OP should just teach him how DNA works. It's not always 50/50. Some ppl are just not very bright. SMH
Then get into therapy. A therapist will help you navigate your feelings, grieve your failed relationship, and come to terms with what you need to do to protect yourself.
He loves you the way I love my headphones
Her past is not reassuring. That said, it doesn’t determine her future. Does she show any signs of cheating? Does she hide things? Does she talk openly about her other friendships and relationships? Does she spend surprising overnights in other places? What do others in your lives think, friends or family- do they consider you overly jealous? Have you been overly jealous in previous relationships?
Women say stuff like this then wonder why they’re still single at 40
Either you’re forgetting, she’s forgetting, or she’s gaslighting you. If it’s not about anything important and she’s not systematically undermining you, I wouldn’t worry about it.
My first girlfriend tried gaslighting me. We’d make plans and then she’d say we never did. I switched to only making plans over text, and within a week I caught her gaslighting me, with proof. For some reason we dated for another several months, but if something like that is reasonable, you could consider it?
I sort of doubt she’s intentionally gaslighting you after dating for 6 years, but I could be wrong. My advice is to just say ‘huh I don’t remember you saying that,’ and then moving on,
I think she’s had enough of being her sister and parents emotional punching bag over what sister did to her. If the book idea must go to these nutcases, then maybe the only rational head prevailing among the whole lot of them (OPs brother) should mention it to them. OP has had enough slaps in the face, humiliation, and verbal abuse from this motley crew to last a life time. She should stay far away.
That’s not ADHD. He’s just a terrible lover.
Then you buy something very small.
What's the problem?
You already counted his assets in with your own.
And now found out that he doesn't seem to be on the same ship as you anymore.
You have made many sacrifices. And find that even your plants don't prosper at his place.
Neither do you.
Get back on our own feet and dismiss playing house with him.
Gosh….even thinking of having to get rid of my entire household… naw. I wouldn't have done that.