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I know this gets thrown around a lot on this sub but Jesus christ on a cracker these are major red flags. Like, dangerous red flags. I would go so far as to say your safety is at risk if you stay with that guy.
I say redirect the energy: buy him a complex pasta maker with all the attachments and a book on pasta- no live yeasties to care for are involved & lots of delicious pasta. You can date and go out when the pasta is drying.
I guess I cant really comprehend this type of personality, since im the polar opposite.
The headphones are the problem.
She's allowed to talk to her brother and share her negative opinion about you *because you gave her reason to have a negative opinion.”
That's not “talking shit.” That's a result of your behavior.
When arguing with your partner can you say something that you don’t necessarily mean?
Yes, but don't expect to stay together at the end of the argument.
Can you say hurtful things without no control, it just comes out and regret it after it.
Yes, but don't expect to stay together at the end of the argument.
Sure is not yours and that bitch just playing games so be careful!
I don't believe him friends that claim 100+ partners, I think that is BS. More isn't better. Sex should be special. An “open” relationship will almost certainly destroy your relationship. Make the best of what you have.
This sounds like a scam they want you to pay for prints they are not going to promote you.
If you want to be a model start by reading about online marketing and how to be an influencer and entrepreneur.
Sounds more like your parents want to play the long game of providing for your future, in building a strong foundation for you so when to step out in the real world your steps are solid.
That's not his “roommate” that's his wife or main girlfriend. Pretty clear your just the side piece, sad to say.
Okay I'm going to spell it out for you. Your BF is transphobic, he was probably generally awful to Jacob all season…. and is justifying it in some competitive BS. The coaches do not agree with HIS assessment of Jacobs abilities and think your BF is not a good team player and gave Jacob the award because it's high school sports and the kid did his best despite having horrible teamates …. like your BF.
That one trick geneticists ha-
Wait a minute…
OP’s girlfriend asked if he wanted to open the relationship here, so that to me would be a request.
In the last email, they said that they were open to staying friends, if we could work through this shit together. But that there would have to be new changes and boundaries, and that we'd have to have some real talks. I'm okay with talking but to be totally honest, I don't want things to change. Especially between Clark and I. I have to admit, while I DO love Shay, it's not like how much I love Clark, and I don't know if Shay and I would be friends without him. We are very different women. This is going to sound terrible, but I feel like I can't lose him.
I say this with as much kindness as I can muster: your behaviour is selfish and entitled. It doesn't matter what you want at this point, you can't have it. Keep telling yourself that until you internalize it. You are putting your own wants and needs above that of your friends, who you claim to love. If you do care about them at all, you need to back off, leave them be, and get therapy. It will end up being the best thing you can do for yourself as well, because your obsession with this man is unhealthy and doomed to failure.
I’m curious why you think it wouldn’t work out?
Give him the $1000. He gave you a great price on the land and you agreed to cover all closing costs. This is after he let you live on the land for free for years. He also employs you. Don’t let greed on your part tank this relationship.
My life experience is bait to you? Only troll here is you.
Assuming she's in the US, you are probably vastly overestimating the bus system in her area.
…. Yes you should call it quits. I feel sad for you that your considering being with someone that you aren’t sexually attracted to.
Assuming your standards aren’t ridiculously high, you deserve to feel attracted to your partner. EVERYONE does.
gf sounds emotionally manipulative. lol at ppl who are saying to take the 350 and do something nice for her. literally all this dude wanted was to buy himself a watch and now she has to buy it bc her feelings matter more and then on top he has to reward her for that? you all are taking crazy pills
Yup. IMO, your best bet right now is to pack your bags, book a flight to your home state and chalk that relationship up to experience. Good luck, you sound like a well-rounded person so my guess is you’ll be fine.
Fuck his shit up and you better dump her ass.
Can you tell Kayleigh about his scheming, tell her if he wasn’t being manipulative why is he hiding it from his wife? Invite her to talk to the wife if she’s not willing to give you the benefit of the doubt,
Then move on, if she’s not even willing to take a third party account she’s not worth the effort.
And if she does discover the truth she owes you an apology, but between scheming brother, loss of trust, broken communication and crossed wires, this is likely unfixable
You do however deserve vindication and bro deserves a slap down (figuratively)
This is an inappropriate comment
Response to his comment: Wow, that's a unnecessary comment!
If he complains, shrug it off and say, I just think it's an unnecessary comment, you're clearly looking to be upset and looking for an argument?
Sometimes I am surprised how much my husband has in his plate, but he always eats more than me, I always eat more frequently and often leave a couple bites I eat later. That's just the way we are and, if I say wow! that's a lot of food!, he says: is it? looks normal to me. And, I say: you're right, that's normal for you. That would be a lot for me but I'll get hungry in a couple hours. And we shrug or laugh because it's just true.
Thank you so much. I think about that too… being with a partner that makes me feel good in the skin I’m in currently. He does try to, but his actions contradict his words sadly. I guess if it keeps on going this way, staying broken up would be best. I’m happy you’re with someone who appreciates and loves you! ?
I recommend that you read “It's Okay That You're Not Okay” to help you help your husband through his grief. Culturally a lot of the things we do to help grieving people aren't actually helpful. Platitudes, offering to help in vague ways, pitying them, these are all normal things to do but they can be isolating for the person grieving. You should offer to help in specific ways, offering to communicate with people for him regarding what's going on, offering to do his “chores”, offering to find a grief counselor, etc. Those are all great, but the generic “let me know how I can help” puts it on the griever to figure out what they need and to ask for it, both of which are very difficult while grieving.
Suicide can lead to more suicide, and if your husband is blaming himself for his father's death, then I would keep an eye on him. Regardless, I would encourage him to attend group therapy or grief counseling – but I'd do research. Therapists are just people and some people can suck or be incompatible with other people. Offer to go with him for support, if he wants.
This situation really sucks, I hope this comment has helped you come up with some ideas for supporting your husband. ❤️
What you do now? You thank god you dodged a bullet. And then find a better girlfriend.
I would’ve stopped and told him to get out of the car.
Your boyfriend being sad isn't a good enough reason to keep the baby. Him telling his therapist and not you is probably also a signifier that despite how he feels he knows this is for the best.
Unfortunately nope. Her time she can bring the child around whoever just like you can. You have to hope you had kids with a good co parent so this shit doesn’t happen… do you pay child support? My ex pays the amount of my rental so I don’t have to move in with anyone.
Yeah – whether or not he is lying about the lap dance is, quite frankly, irrelevant at this point. You said this was a “deal breaker”. What do you mean by that? If you said it was, and don’t follow through, then that is shame on you. Whatever your line is to cross. He is not remorseful at all. He is just remorseful he got caught – not that he did it. I cannot even imagine what I would do in this situation. It’s easy to say “I would leave him.” However, at the old age that I am. I have learned nothing is that cut and dry. At the very very least – you need to take $200 out, turn off your location for however many hours or all night – go wherever you want – either a hotel/spa or male strippers, and he can stay home and take care of the baby. Dress up really sexy, and just walk out for the evening – or forever – it’s up to you. Then after that, admit you were being petty and got caught. Go to intensive marriage counseling. Make sure you take care of yourself – not just your baby.
It's never worth ruining a friendship just to be someone's rebound relationship (and dating does absolutely obliterate any chance of ever being platonic again). Maybe pull back on some of this “touchy feelys” so you don't give her the wrong idea. Then if in four to six months she's still seeming interested that might be the time to talk about it (unless she makes a pass and forces you to talk about it sooner). Friendships can sometimes turn into real romances. But this has every hallmark of being someone who just misses being part of a couple (any couple, regardless of whom else is in it). Don't risk the friendship over this, she's just not thinking clearly right now.
Absolutely right. You should not let her or other people’s insecurities dictate how you live your life.
You should ask her whether this is something you two can work through, while making it clear, you yielding to her demands is unreasonable and not the kind of relationship you want to be in anyway.
So, is it at all possible for her to come and visit for a few hours at the set? Is yes, maybe seeing it all will ease her mind. Because she has most likely painted some unreal horrendous picture in her mind.
BUT, my advice is maybe to rethink this relationship entirely. For your sake. Your gf stormed out, saying she rather break up with you than be happy for all your accomplishments. I would think it was sooo cool if my partner got to work on a movie set with Ryan Reynolds!! I would be all over that shit. Cheering annd encouraging. Make lunches to bring to set. I would be so proud of partner. Your gf puts her insecurities above your happiness or your relationship. How can you ever trust a person who would do that?
I wouldn't even bother. He doesn't respect you at all. You're not doing this on purpose and he doesn't care. He's making you feel awful because he's not getting what he wants. That's fucked up. He's being a total asshole.
Oh she won’t ask him – she will try to guilt the poor kid into it. She will tell him it’s what you want, and that he’s hurting you if he says no. She will absolutely make you the bad guy and use it to guilt trip her poor kid.
Who cares. You need to get out. Stop making excuses. It will be hard and scary but most things worth having are. I mean it's up to you. Live a life you hate or fight for one you want. You are strong enough you just need to find that courage.
First, I would tell your dad. It’s sort of old man creepy. And then talk to your mom to if you need support from her.
You, you were talking and then you started to feel played and instead of reassuring you and using the opportunity to get closer he set you up to expect him to flake.
He sounds like a boyfriend that’s not worth having. LET HER STEAL HIM and get the hell out of there. He’s abusing you.
She's gone, but you sure that's the right call?
I might, but if none of it is true he doesn't need to know someone said those things about him. That's why I haven't brought it up; I don't want to falsely accuse him of something and then have to listen to the vile filth some crazy bitch has been spewing about him on top of it.
Love and family takes work and forgiveness. If she learned a lesson think seriously about what you can handle long term. Good luck.
Go have sex with someone else. He will get over his bs real quick.
You need to understand that when you lay out a laundry (no pun intended here which is ironic) list of issues followed by saying “the dilemma however is this;” you're beyond making an assumption that you're in a healthy relationship and that it's this one specific issue where solving it changes everything. Quite frankly, it's a bit odd that you think of all issues that this one is the deal breaker (not that it isn't one).
Almost everyone comes here making the argument you're here making; “when things are good, they're really good.” Awesome. But that's not why you stay in a relationship. You stay in a relationship because the good is great, and when there's bad, you work as a team to sustainably remediate the issue so that the bad isn't a pattern and constant problem. The families getting along, growing up together, and having the same references are completely irrelevant in that regard.
People have a misconception about how healthy relationships work. They think it's about the good outweighing the bad. It's not. It's about knowing whether or not the “bad” is a legitimate issue that can't be addressed, and more importantly, whether you want to deal with that behavior forever.
To put things into perspective, when all is good it's great. Your families love each other and the fact that you're together. Awesome. Does that change the fact that she's constantly negative? Does it change the fact that you can't have a life outside of her? Does it change the fact that she's stubborn? Does it change the fact that she's a cryer and blows everything out of proportion? That's someone who's easy to talk to?
Lol not only is he a pedo he’s incredibly fucking dumb clearly… maybe those two things are synonymous
Lol I wonder where these other girls are? Probably also got fed up with his sh*t and left. Single at 34 and no one in his age gap wants to stick around.
If this is all she’s prepared to try, and won’t try therapy then your relationship is over
Why is this getting downvoted?! Of this story was reversed and a wife was asking her husband for his financial information I feel like the attitude would be very different and I’m saying that as a woman. Why be married if you want everything to be a secret from each other?
him being an addict himself, no wonder…
Yeah, had a partner like this once. Every time I came home drunk and went to piss in the sink, it was full of dirty dishes.
Filthy.
It's true that since the summer hollidays are coming up, even if he rejects me there'll be what, 3 months without seeing each other? That's a good opportunity for things to go “back to normal” past the awkward stage. Thanks!