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Have you guys talked about this, aside from him wanting to?
Communication is really important, especially when it involves something that either partner is uncomfortable with. Talk with him about your feelings and boundaries, then maybe see if there's a compromise he can be happy with (like a butt plug for him, or something like that, I mean there plenty of sex toys that he could use for his own pleasure). I wouldn't advise threesomes, because that ends badly for most people.
My boyfriend was really into anal when we first got together, and not gonna lie, I enjoyed it for awhile. After a few months, I lost interest in it and now (ten years later), it's just a painful experience that I don't enjoy. He knows this and accepts it, never becoming disinterested in the sex just because it doesn't include butt stuffs. Now, occasionally, he will touch my booty with his finger just to see what reaction I'd have, but never does more than a quick touch.
It was rape as soon as you said no and he did it anyway.
I'd like to point out that there's a magic that some women have, where their personality is open and loving, to the point where it can be hard to resist taking it personally. And imho, the best way to handle it, is to love having them as a friend while maintaining all of the usual boundaries.
There is a saying “when someone shows you who they are, believe them”
I think it's sort of relevant here. He is showing you who he is and where his priorities lie and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like you are high on his list.
My advice would be to express to him how you're feeling and what you would like to change. Fill in the blanks and tell him explicitly what you would like to change. Then give him the opportunity to do so. If he doesn't a) care or b) make an effort or c) implement the changes – then you have to put your own self first, and take a good look at the viability of the relationship. It cannot and will not work without equal effort from both of you. Remember boundaries and advocating for yourself are important.
Good luck OP.
Do it, its always better to do it and regret than to always wonder “what if I”