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Date: February 8, 2023
That’s good but doesn’t have to be that hard, if you can’t come to my friends birthday I’m not going to sit at home. There will be more situations like this and if you can’t handle it let’s break up right now.
Even if you don’t care about yourself. The way you treat yourself and the way you let others treat you is teaching your daughter how she should treat herself and how she should let future relationships treat her
Thank you
FFS you don’t own her. You sound like an insecure man child
So… it's flirting. And by the sounds of it she didn't engage too much? She can't stop people flirting with her. And you're both very young, just enjoy the time you have together..
It sounds like you don't have time for a relationship at all right now.
This behavior is toxic if you’re not past 23.
I heard “it’s not alcoholism until you graduate” way too many times to count. It is alcoholism and it’s not ok no matter the age
We're assuming OP is a reliable narrator though, and that may not be the case. OP might not be a victim, but is she someone you really want to be in a long term relationship with?
You fucked up big time, I mean MAYBE nothings happened but the way it looks to anyone that saw it, you’ll never convince anything that happened. Also, if you’re so drunk you don’t remember that in itself is another problem.
That’s incredibly disgusting. Ew. Ew. Ew. You should leave. Single is better than dealing with people like this. Actual ghost him.
“Don’t date people who make you feel small.” OP needs this tattooed on their forehead.
I don’t think you need to jump straight to ultimatums.
Just sit down, talk it out. Explain to him how you have been feeling, the impact it is having in you & how you feel about the relationship. Giving him an ultimatum straight out of the gate like that might not have the outcome you want.
So talk to him, have an open & honest discussion. Listen to each other. Give him the chance to change.
It sounds like you need him to adjust better and quicker. Conversely, it sounds like he needs more time and more leniency to adjust.
Just as you are probably bracing for the next unintentional slight, he is probably bracing for the next time he says the wrong thing. This is a lot to ask of both of you, and so I think either of you would be within your right to say, “You know what? I think I'd prefer something a little easier.”
Then you need to sit down and calmly establish some boundaries. My 56 year old wife has purple hair with blue highlights. I have hair down to my shoulders (almost 59). Mom needs to get with the program.
OP totally sucks. BF should head for the hills. Spitting in someone's face, IN THIS COUNTRY, is an invitation to a flat-out brawl and and a beatdown. Good lord.
BF – show some pride and backbone and walk away from this situation. At the very least, the future FIL should let you drop a mega loogie on him to make it even.
This is abusive. Dump him.
Break ups suck! But it’s a great time to return yourself and do some self work.
We tend to lose little bits of ourselves when we try to combine our lives with someone else’s. Take this time to do some hobbies you enjoyed before you dated, or see your friends more often!
It’s gonna hurt and no one can argue that, but there’s something really special about being single if you allow it to become a period of personal growth
You get to curate your own socials
She also gets to choose whether or not to stay with a partner who publicly displays photos of him intimate with another woman. If I had to tell a partner to remove those photos from public display, I wouldn't even be with that person.
Op hasn’t responded to a single question. Love when that happens on an advice subreddit.
HPV can be spread even if you don’t have active lesions. I had a high risk strain. No one I had sex with had warts or lesions.
Idk, most athiests don't send thrir children to religious schools. You can pass down your culture without the religious aspect.
Exhausting.
I would go with “I’m not having this conversation again” and walking away.
Refuse to engage in any battle of any kind.
I’m pretty broken-hearted thinking of your kids.
My dad has always been in my life but if he missed my wedding id be PISSED.
The baby won't remember that you weren't there but I sure would. Imagine getting married and having to find someone at the last minute to walk you down the aisle ??
I truly believe that there are times when it's okay to he selfish and its nobody has to like it ? (My wedding is one of those time for me)
Just be frank with her! “I want to continue my French lessons and you don't seem to be into it, so how about if I go alone?”
Of course if the instructor is a curvaceous young woman named FiFi, she might not want you to go alone.
I completely understand why you would want that closure. It helps us grow as people and makes it a bit easier to let something go. Unfortunately, you can't make someone tell you what they're not willing to disclose. Also, when it comes to people and relationships, sometimes they themselves don't understand why they do what they do. His explanation may have actually been the real reason for behaving the way he did, or the reasons he believes it went the way it did. There will be many times you'll never know why.
What you can do to make it a more positive experience, though, is use this situation as an opportunity to grow as a person and get to know yourself better. It may help to take some time to do some introspection and evaluate what you may want to do differently in future relationships and/or what you want (or don't want) in a partner. Also, maybe you can evaluate why getting that closure is so important to you. What difference would an alternate explanation make? Are you wanting him to confirm any assumptions you may have? Are you looking for him to tell you why he didn't value you or what his criticisms about you are? There will be many, many times you'll never know why people do what they do, but you can always try to understand why you do what you do, which is way more valuable anyway.
Perhaps you could start off vague with something like “hey I just want you to know that I will always love you no matter whatever happened in our lives before we met each other. I am committed to this relationship and want us to be as honest as possible with each other”.
Then maybe give her space in the moment to respond.
Are you worried she’ll lose her figure or are you genuinely concerned about her health?
Asking her for the favor now makes perfect sense, so that's fair enough. But not being sure how to word it correctly? No, that doesn't make sense.
Also, how would you expect your girlfriend or anyone else to coordinate a delivery when they have no clue where to send the delivery? It's a simple favor? Sure is. You're complicating it.
Wise words. In a way i can relate. Sometimes it annoys me aswell listening to other peoples music, sometimes it does not when there is a common understanding and agreement to listen to it
I mean I have $20….
Woops, just reread that end part about living in the moment. My bad. I stand by just seeing him until he’s gone though.
Absolutely Of course, the matter is complicated by yhe fact OP is pregnant with her husband's baby so may not be as calm.as she should. OP's husband may be treating the twins as his own now, but will he do the same after his baby is born?
I am very familiar with the family court system.
In your state.
And if they decide they aren’t interested in those, no overnights.
I've been witness in a friends custody case that is very similar. Guess what? Judge ordered visitation and held her in contempt when the 13 and 15 year olds involved refused to go.
No one with the kids’ best interests at heart (since that is what every single ruling in family court is made for)
Bst interest is subjective. Many would argue that regular contact with their father IS in their best interest.
This really could go many ways.
This man-child is not committed to you. It's ok to have doubts and not being ready for big things like marriage and kids. However, the way he has navigated through this and how he have been behaving is extremely immature.
He's almost thirty and still a mama's boy.
Being a parent is HARD. Being a single parent is REALLY HARD. I think you need to be rational about this because this man will not support you (maybe not even financially if not obligated). A few questions you should ask yourself:
Do you have stable income? Will your job still be available to you after you give birth? Do you have a support system? People you can count on in time of crisis? How much having a kid costs where you live? Health care, clothes, food, child care… Do you have dreams of your own that have an “expiration date”? Things that you know that if you don't do in X years you won't be able to do it? If yes, are you OK with letting these dreams go? Are you mentally prepared to having a kid, probably alone? (that's the toughest one, I would suggest talking to other mother's)
I know that having a kid is a dream for you as well, but this should be a heart and mind kind of decision.
And regardless of what you choose, dump this guy. He is already by the door, just kick him out already. You deserve better.
It’s confirmation bias. You hear and remember the horror stories but not the millions and millions of people who use various birth control options and everything it totally fine. My wife for example, she has an IUD, and absolutely loves it. No complaints and it’s been a definite positive for our sex life.
Your gf can talk. She’s 30, and went after a teenager. She’s obviously the one that is attracted to children and is projecting her own feelings.
Her sexualising children to the point she can’t even watch shows and movies with them is because she’s the pedo. And she doesn’t want to watch them with you because she doesn’t want to be reminded of how disgusting she really is.
Run from the pedo.
Some times fantasies are just fantasies. I’d like to explore space in a sweet spaceship and it’s fun to day dream about a future society where that’s commonplace, but space sucks ass so I’m not actually interested in doing it irl.
People always talk about how a relationship can't survive without trust, and it's very true. But there's something else a relationship can't survive without, and that's respect. I would struggle to feel love for someone I don't respect, and I don't respect your husband or his family and I'd be surprised if you can for much longer.
I’m being very honest with you, it hardly ever ends up working that way. Chaotic people always manage to create chaotic situations somehow. Your son will absolutely have issues from all the trauma and need intense therapy most likely. For me it came out as a lot of anger towards my family. Who knows how it will show for him, regardless, she doesn’t want to be around it and you shouldn’t be so confused by it. Fostering and actually having a child move in full time are very different. She also got to consent to fostering children, this is out of her hands, it’s happening whether she likes it or not. You have live in child care, sure, but she would end up being responsible for him in some way. It is inevitable. It’s a terrible situation and I feel for you, really. But I can definitely see why she left.
“Oh, that's my husbands child, he's been living with his mum in France most of his life, but he's come to stay with us for highschool because his schooling opportunities here are better”.
Not hard at all – families come in all shapes and sizes, and a stepson / child from an earlier relationship isn't some weird, novel thing. No one would bat an eye.
Your wife is a massive AH here. I'm so angry for your kid
I’m not even opposed to something like a threesome but I don’t think that’s what’s fueling her worries
She’s always quite open with things like that
I know you are right about counseling, it is just hard for me to accept. I work in counseling and chaplaincy, and it's just… difficult to accept that I'm in a position of needing to be on the other side of the table. I freely admit that I'm not as available as I could be, but my schedule has gotten to the point that I have almost no free time. I changed jobs because my well paying job was killing my soul and my mental health. It's just rough because my wife doesn't seem to understand that, all she sees is the lack of availability and time I have now.
Yeah, he could have been sending snaps from a saved album though. People are shifty! And his communication with you is defo sus as hell! You sure the family, I live at home, it’s mum and dad, but wife and child??? Anyways, yeah, good call, cause you deserve way better than that!
Even if she did “forget” that he tried to kiss her, why did she exchange snapchats with him anyway? Every college girl knows that guys at parties are after sex, especially a football player. And she's cheated on you in the past? Something tells me she didn't reject that kiss after all.
You're marrying this man? ? Are there just… No other men in your area or something?
Not true. I'm still friends with exes. Doesn't mean it's romantic though.
It’s a bad idea. And disrespectful of your husband to be insistent about it.
Gross. If he thinks calling you derogatory words are cute start calling him derogatory terms back and see if he is fine with it. Better yet, just toss him in the trash and move on.
I don't understand how guys don't seem to understand that who they follow on Instagram reflects on them PUBLICLY. Their mom sees it, their partner sees it, their partner's mom sees it, and everyone sees it. This is what “alt accounts” are made for, so you don't publicly broadcast that you are looking at thirst traps.
That's how you can get over it, by telling him this, but in your own words, haha.