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5'6″ 130lbs is healthy. You don't need to cut your calorie intake by 300/day. You exercise and you're mindful of the things you eat.
Similarly, counting calories to their exact number is a slippery slope for me. It started with good intentions, then I'd run extra on days my calorie intake was higher (but still normal). Then I started freaking out if my daily calorie intake was above 1,000, so I kept it below that. Then, 800 seemed too high, so I started purging along with skipping meals. I had people commending me for being “healthy”, telling me I looked great, asking for dieting tips etc. Meanwhile, I was mentally unwell, physically trashed, I had ulcers in my mouth and throat, no energy, my eyes look dead from pictures during that time.
I'm rambling and projecting my own issues, I'm sure. All of this to say that I can't and won't count calories anymore. I won't obsessively check my weight on the scale, body check in the mirror, starve myself or purge. I'm in a better mindset now, but if my husband was acting the way your boyfriend is, I could easily slip back into that ED. Tracking exercise progress would feel too close to my former unhealthy habits.
You don’t get to choose that for her. It’s not up to you. And if that’s what she needs to do to heal and move on, then it’s her choice. If you actually cared about her, you would respect that.
You’d know the texture of the conversation better than anyone else.
If you found him flirting with her, of course he’s hiding something…
But it's not nothing. You're an adult, not a child. You're responsible for yourself. And it's totally fine to walk around on your own without him tracking you.
I would never be okay with someone tracking me. It's a major red flag and controlling.
Relationships end and it will be painful, but you chalk it up to a learning experience where you’re figuring out what you want and don’t want for yourself. You have permission to break up with him. None of what you described makes this man sound wonderful and amazing.
His hot and cold behaviour towards you is him being moody and immature, leaving you on eggshells wondering how he’s going to be that day. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be around you all the time. It can and does exist. For real!
His treatment of the cats is concerning, also while undermining your plan. This is bad.
You do ALL the housework and cleaning!! Girl what??? This is terrible. He lives in that house too.
You already know you can’t/won’t marry him as his lack of effort and inability to help create the loving, warm home you want is who he is NOW Explore this realization and your feelings more fully. It’s your gut telling you what you want in your life and that this is not it.
i know you are in denial but the female friend he lives with who you can’t meet is his girlfriend or wife. there is no scenario where you don’t get hurt here.
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Do yourself a favour and block this man. All he is good for is a headache.
Pre-nups are often seen as not trusting your partner, but they do a lot and are very handy for a slew of things. The discussion of a pre-nup under this circumstance really wouldn't be a bad move.
Simply verbally agreeing to do this or that means very little as you don't know where you both may be in the future or what could occur during that time. It's easy to believe you may never part or that if you do it would be amicable because you both love one another right now, but things change, people change and things happen.
Deciding to stay home full time, should you make that choice, is something that needs to be heavily discussed and planned for.
Why would you even stay with someone who would be so cruel as to fake a proposal? That's really shitty, immature behaviour, and from what you're saying he was just as bad at the party.
Sweetie, just lie to him. Tell him it's the biggest you've ever had and that it's just so satisfying when he fills you up… It's either a porn thing or a male ego thing… I gave up trying to figure it out long ago. I find that lying about this one thing is forgivable and saves a ton of headaches.
Lmao “tight vagina”
If a woman is turned on she is going to be looser.
He doesn't need to apologize and if if you think he does, then so does she. Everything you want him to apologize for she did as well, if not more so.
She wants permission to cheat basically
Fair. But the reason we keep telling you not to is that a big part of a relationship is circumstances.
As a really simple example: I used to date someone who teaches high school. She had to wake up at 6:30 in the morning. Meanwhile I worked as a start-up tech-bro in the Silicon Valley; our work day didn't start until 10 AM and I wasn't allowed to begin it earlier even if I wanted to. By the time I got home, it was 8 PM and she was already winding down for bed. Having a relationship, under these circumstances, can be very difficult. (And then we added in my music rehearsals after work and things got really hairy.)
Circumstances are strongly affected by age. You're thinking about settling down and starting a family: she's just trying not to flunk out of college. In a relationship, the two people have to meet each other where they are. And this girl is going to have a really hard time doing that for you, not through any fault of her own but simply because of where she is in her life.
Now, circumstances aren't insurmountable. What happened to me and this schoolteacher? The answer is, we got married — without either of us changing our careers. (Well, I did, once the opportunity presented itself… Close to our third wedding anniversary.) You can make it work. What I'm telling you is that there's reason to believe you and she won't be able to make it work, because the differences between what you want and what she can offer are simply so large. Believe it or not, it would be easier to just go out into the world and find someone new who is into you, and whom you're into, and who lives nearby and is in a life stage where she can want similar things to you. Mutual attraction, which you and this girl from Mexico have, is special, don't get me wrong, but it's only one component of what makes a relationship work… and it's the smallest one.
No one here will give a crap if you feel or not comfy in your own home. Woman and Child who will be seen as kinda guests in your house will always come first. Put a t-shirt and some sweatpants or shorts on. Life changes. Yours just did with the move-in of your gf and her kid. That's it. Its not that hard to dress a bit more than what you're comfortable in your own home. Since now its not just your home.
I'm sorry it scares you, but she is determined, and she knows what she wants. If this is not what you want, don't waste her time. She'll meet someone who wants the same things.
She gets upset and guilt-trips you about needing to study for an important exam. Pouted and was upset that you had an important work meeting, treating it like you did something wrong to her.
Even just these two examples, it sucks that she's so self-centered and unreasonable. These aren't even things you are doing for fun, like a hobby you are choosing over time with her or making plans with friends instead of her. You'd probably be spending weeks “making it up to her” if you wanted to go do something else vs carry her bags for her while she shops.
Maybe I'm looking at it wrong, but it just seems so selfish for someone to be acting like they've been wronged just because their partner has other life obligations.
How is this a question? Your friend sexually assaulted your partner and your response is “oh maybe it’s ok..”
IT IS NOT OK. THIS PERSON IS A BAD GUY.☣️
You replied to the wrong person, I assume you meant to send that to OP? Not that I am bothered by it, but OP might not see it.
In the most gentle and loving way, I think you should delete the account and speak to a therapist. If you can't move on from his behavior after three years to the point that you are still obsessing over ways to be in contact with him and dissect his thought patterns, you need support to start the healing process.
You're not crazy, but you are picking at your wounds instead of trying to heal them. That's not good for you. A therapist can help you work through the hurt so you can leave this guy and what he did in the past.
You have nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of. You deserve love with or without sex.
I think you should probably consider your long term goals. Do you want kids? If so, you may need to have sex to get that. Do you want a family at all? This can help you evaluate a relationship. Also what does she want?
Let her decide if she's ok with it and you do you.
I triple the Full Monty suggestion! Better than Magic Mike – they're actually learning how to strip and how not to. It'll teach you a thing or two. Plus the main character is cuuuuute. He plays Mr. Gold on Once Upon A Time.
Besides the slight saving grace that he didn't meet you as a minor, it's still creepy and weird. You're 23 now – how many 18 year olds are you hanging out with and spending time with?
I fail to see how your life would be improved by exposing his affair with you.
He was cheating on you with the woman he married. Which can't be nice.
So is this a revenge thing or a guilt towards his wife thing??
Tell her to return you car within the hour of you will all the cops
She is NOT someone you want in your life break up and ghost her
I'm curious does it ever occur to them to use a softer grip and to start using lube? To ease up on the frequency some?
I ask because there was a story about a guy with a heavily calloused dick and I'm really confused how some one could let it get to that point without connecting the dots that what was happening isn't normal.
Dude what do you mean you don't what to do. The HOE LIED and BETRAYED you. The HOE CHEATED on you then GASLIGHT the HELL OUTTA you.
Living in another city doesn't means SHIT. Cheating starts in the mind stop fooling yourself. You can't honestly think DISTANCE would stop them from FUCKING.
Why would you even consider being in a relationship with a woman who you know want to FUCK some other dude and being relationship with you don't mean SHIT when it came to that dude.
Forget the LOVE BULLSHIT it's all about RESPECT an HONOR and that HOE don't have any when it to you and the relationship you two have.
If you got any RESPECT for yourself you would dump that HOE and move on.
You litterally said I'm the WORST MOTHER EVER, and then once I defend myself bc I work my butt off its fake girl bye
Why are people at a bike race teaching condom use?