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I bet he's not trying to understand you.
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Welcome to owning a business – letting employees go is the worst. Especially when you're pulling for them to do well, cheering them on and helping them. Im sorry you're dealing with this. And…looks like you know what to do.
You need to follow your state's employment laws – if this is your first firing, I'd recommend a simple attorney consult before you meet with the employee. Make sure you have your ducks in a row first, especially if you are not in a right to work state. Whether you're in a right to work state or not, do document what has happened. Make sure you've Very. Clearly. Made it clear to this employee that she's close to being let go – this needs to a be 1-2 or a 1-2-3 thing (unless it's an egregious situation). You'll feel better if you handle it this way (speaking from experience). Fire fast – hire slow. Sounds like you need to take some fast action right now – typically these things get worse. Not better. Wish I had better news. It's not uncommon for an employee to start off great – and be great for a number of years. And then start to tank in their performance, have excuses etc. When this happens, I typically meet with the employee and cleary state the specific behavior that occurred, and say, “X happened. This is not typical of you. (step 1 – state the specific behavior). (step 2: Clearly state the impact of the behavior) When you (state behavior) it creates problems with my landlord (Affects our businesses reputation, etc etc). (step 3: Clearly state how it makes you feel or concerns you) This makes me concerned that something in your life is causing you to change behavior – Are You Ok? **Then wait – be silent. No matter what the employee responds with, repeat these three steps until the employee takes responsibility. The goal here is for the employee to take respesibility -true responsibility. After responsibility is taken .. Ask the employee why they began working at your business and if those reason are still true. This opens the discussion if a behavior change can occur or not. If it's a no – then you both can dissolve the employment peacefully. If it's a yes – then outline a very specific steps she needs to take within the next 30 days – to be reviewed in 90 days (sho she needs to keep doing these things over a 90 days period) for her stay employed. It's ok if she has small mess ups during this time – you need to address those fast and clearly – but she does not get to make big mess ups like being late and making excuses like she's been doing. Make clear what fireable offenses are. This is what I'd do.
no, thats not gonna happen. We are happy, this is the best relationship of my life – it is a sensitive topic for her, why would I tell that I had 2-3 times more girls than she imagined?
You’re quoting something that was never said. You’re just flying into assumptions to fit your narrative.
I know this is very tmi but is it because you can't dock? A gay friend told me about it and blew my mind. I never knew such a thing existed. Oh I miss my innocent days ?
You should think long and hard because you can't unring that bell if you sleep with your friend. You will lose your gf. Is it worth it? Be an adult and keep it in your pants.
That's a non-answer. You need to talk to her more
You asked her if she ‘got pregnant on purpose.’
Unless SHE raped HIM, that cannot and does not happen – and yes, I’ve heard the stupid term ‘baby trapping’ from people who can’t handle the fact that actions have consequences, but it’s not a real thing.
If a man chooses to have sex with a woman, he is responsible if she gets pregnant. It’s not HER fault for ‘baby trapping’ him, because that’s not a real thing.
Sex can ALWAYS lead to pregnancy. So if you don’t want to risk pregnancy, keep your underwear on.
It’s the ONLY form of contraception that works every single time without fail.
Honestly, I hardly see the point of even engaging with her anymore on this. She used and manipulated you and is gaslighting you.
Just get out of this situation as fast as possible. Don't be a doormat anymore in this situation. My advice is to break up, evict her and then sell the place.
At 18 she's playing games like this, so I wouldn't stick around to see how much better she gets at them as she gets older. She'll manipulate you into having 3 jobs and doing the coking and cleaning just because she can. She's being insane, you come here to get advice on how to calm her down when what you should be doing is telling her to either get over it or break up with you because you didn't do anything wrong.
Yeah it’s love bombing for sure, but the intentions are unknown.
Sometimes love bombing is manipulative and used as power over someone.
Other times like this, he is much older so maybe he is just actually super in love and thinks he found a unicorn and wants to lock it down as soon as possible.
This is why I 34m will no longer date girls in their 20s. Because almost every time it’s like “I don’t know what I want” “we want different things” “I just want to be single for a while” etc etc.
As long as you make your intentions CRYSTAL clear from day one he can’t be upset with you for not wanting to join him in his overwhelming pursuit for love.
If you truly have no interest in a relationship, then you should cut him off completely right now. Like no contact. Let this dude go, he might be falling for you.
Or he is being weird lol. Either way, if you’re not interested in commitment, get out now.
I don’t the issue is whether they can or can’t. It feels odd to OP and the optics are kinda weird even if technically fine. The conversation, “so, how do you know each other.” It’s not often that you date your sibling’s sibling. Technically fine but weird to explain and likely surprising to family.
Sorry but I think he knows full well what he's doing, he's trying to make her think she's imagining it due to insecurities.
I remember reading up an article about a Saudi father and son killing both the daughters for dating an American and other acting too American.. the combination of religion, being too conservative and narrow minded can be so dangerous.
I think the solution is a check in; after an argument she says “Partner, I still love you. I need to take some space for myself now to think things over, and we'll talk again in a couple of days (later on, couple hours, whatever she needs).” That way you get reassurance and she gets space. Make sure you give her space in the way that she needs, if it means no little texts for the time she's away then so be it. You are trusting her to come back, she is trusting you to respect her peace.
If I understand this OP, he is upset because her family doesn’t treat him properly (in his eyes) and now because she’s unhappy because they argue she’s reconsidering marriage? And if she does this he will kill her family?
If I have it right, get the hell out now, contact the authorities (not sure what country your in). Get a restraining order.
If I understand this OP, he is upset because her family doesn’t treat him properly (in his eyes) and now because she’s unhappy because they argue she’s reconsidering marriage? And if she does this he will kill her family?
If I have it right, get the hell out now, contact the authorities (not sure what country your in). Get a restraining order.
Go to your graduation. You put in so much hard work and time to get to that point. You deserve it.
So you want from a “loving mother us against the world” to dropping your son for a shag with his friend. Nice one.
In all honesty you shut the hell up and listen to him. Don't give him a pity party of you being lonely and was happy someone was finally interested in you. You hurt your son. You knew you'd hurt your son. You lied to his face and missed important things in his life and rather then trying to make it up to your son you moved on with your life. He lost his friend and his mother. “me and my son against the world” until someone is interest in you and you drop him.
You seriously need to deal with whatever he has to say to you. Take the criticism, take the anger he may still hold for you and his friend.
So.. My current partner used to be like that. He was “stoic” and didn't really react much to stuff until I let him know he could. It took a while to get him to understand his emotions are valid and what he feels is OK, and it was like a dam broke open.
You may or may not be like that. He didn't know he was. Now he's learning how to handle and process all of these big emotions that he never let himself feel before, and it's fun but also scary sometimes (for him not me, I love experiencing it with him).
You deserve the same thing. It's not so much about how much you show those emotions. It's about being accepted when you do.
I think he was in love with OP, but the sister kept throwing it out there and probably got preg on purpose to trap him.
Please learn something about contraception. Don't rely on your partners, even if they have some medical knowledge. Visit a family planning center for education.
Also – abortion should not be your backup for failed contraception.
You “think”? Y’all have got to stop lying to yourselves about just how absolutely shit your partner is holy crap. Stop justifying it or softening it with that “I think” and “I feel like”.
The asshole is a misogynist. Your educated ass knows that. The only one who benefits from you not saying the words out loud is that asswipe benefiting off a woman’s hard work while putting down women everywhere. God don’t you just dry up at the thought of him? GAG.
Ma’am, please raise your daughter in a better home. A home that doesn’t involve this man.
Thank you for your kind words! I’m just trying to heal and move on and I appreciate this.
Oohhhh lol OK
I’m sorry. it this guy is not relationship material. He is never gonna be ready for anything because his mother controls him. You are in a bad relationship with 3 people – you, boyfriend and MIL. I hate to tell you but it sounds like she will win every time. I would GTFO now. Run like the wind from this situation. If you want the baby and can afford to keep it do. If you can’t make the decision for yourself not to please him ( his mother). He is never gonna marry you and if you stay in this disaster of a relationship you will only get pain.
So you are unhappy in a poly with this guy, and you don't trust him to be monogamous
Don't move in, dump him and find someone you are compatible with
She has told me a few times. And that should be enough, i agree with her on that.
It is a mix of both. I am sometimes not doing what she wants because i dont know how. There have been moments where i tried and she has made fun of me failing. This is making me uncomfortable trying again.
What I should do
Is it possible she has someone in mind for her? She lets u try first and then she gets her chance..
Man the bar is in hell. I don't understand why some women keep doing this to themselves. Surely there's not a shortage of men? Idk maybe there is
She definitely isn't putting 150k, that's the problem. The husband is going to pay 90% of the mortgage and she is calling him irresponsible ?