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He’s parenting out of guilt and laziness.
I’d book s
If he truly believes that he’s not playing with a full deck.
Mostly that just sounds like an excuse to be an AH and give zero fucks about the consequences or damage he’s doing.
If he visits them then he is just enabling and even approving of their abuse to his wife.
Haha this.
Choose the wife. Sounds like your mom is a piece of work!
Good luck. I feel these women have great advice and life experiences they are sharing. It however, sounds like they may be right, you're her punching bag and she may say this is normal. Be prepared to use this as a nuclear option.
Tell him that you are going to get tested for STD'S, and see how he responds.
…no that's definitely not normal
Dude, it should go both ways. She does it for you, you return the favor if she is game. Not everyone is comfortable with oral sex.
Please get away from this bully right away. You need to get help and support. Do you have any relatives or friends who you can turn to for help? Honey, screw this dirty old man! He is just vile.
With two months clearly his heart told him that the best its confess his love to you, and indepently of your commitmed issues your heart it's not saying 'I love you'. You already told him that you are not in the same page so its up to him if he wants to wait, but if you think your feelings will not change the reject him.
Since the wife was very drunk, it can sometimes be impossible to move, it’s like you’re stuck in your head and you are somewhere else mentally. Memories of things that happened can seem gray and grainy like an old movie. Did it happen or not? I’m guessing the friend reminded the wife of the fun they’d had. It is also possible the friend changed the diaper although after you’ve changed about a gazillion diapers you could change one in your sleep.
Even more reason to divorce and go NC with your supposed friends.
Become the worst person in the world to live with. Make her existence a living nightmare
She does not hate you
As along as she is happy I don’t mind feeling guilty. I just don’t wanna hurt her.
As along as she is happy I don’t mind feeling guilty. I just don’t wanna hurt her.
Fantasizing about constant sex and being able to have sex on demand are two different things for men past early 20's, the guy needs to be physically fit and regularly exercise and/or practice orgasm control since male orgasm reduces desire for their current partner and sex as an activity for some time.
You have to be careful not to become blinded with Love and let it control you emotionally, love is a strong drug and can lead to disaster, just take a step back to talk to yourself about what you want to do and then draw a line underneath it, your feelings of hurt and betrayal with fade in time.
While she can do that with her father , she very much can't withhold access to the children from her husband . The judge won't like that one bit when the time for a divorce comes…
He sounds like an abusive shit head. I’d run if I was you.
I'm a little unsure whether you're actually aromantic towards all people, or you just only like her as a friend?
If you knew you're aromantic from the start, you're a huge dummy for not disclosing that before you got together.
Tbh, until the election thing I was in a very confused state. I agree that I haven't completely gotten over it and yeah I get that their relationship has nothing to do with me. I disagree with the stalking thing tho. I guess the post was too long for me to mention this but I was not comfortable hanging out with him in his room, mostly because I never was in a guy's room before. He would be the one asking me to come to his room. And as mentioned above, his room is very far off unless there was some party, and I am not a party person in general. The crashing at his room thing was mostly a convenience thing and yeah I guess I did like being in his presence. It happened barely five or six times I guess. Also, I know he is not into me. And I knew it back then too. I just feel like we could have been good friends, I guess? Because he would just call me up and vent to me about his family pressures, even in lockdown he used to call me up every time he fought with his family. So somewhere he did rely on me in certain contextual emotional aspects I guess? In a professional sense too, I used to be his “proofreader”. Most of the submissions went thru me. I helped him with his application for the Student Exchange Scholarship spending over eight hours on that work. So I don't think it was a completely one-sided friendship on my end where I was looking for something that wasn't there. It always felt like there would be a point when things would be okay I guess.
You challenged his manhood. He is trying to keep you his girlfriend and you (without knowing) basically called him a pussy. In his eyes, if he can’t win a fight against you he is useless to you.
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Try not to let this become a big thing between you and your husband. I would however make it clear you don't ever want to do this again.
I don't want to be the laughing stock of my family, sue me. We see them every weekend and it would be unnecessarily stressful to be regarded so lowly by people whose opinions I care for.
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Yah, rude in the north is so different than rude in the south. You say “Bless your heart” in the North, and you are saying “you are the kindest being around”. You say “Bless your heart” in the South, and you are saying 'fuck you'. You say: “Fuck you bro”, in the North, and you are saying “hello friend.” You say: “fuck you bro” in the South, and you better being wearing a bullet proof vest.
Crazy idea
Humans should not ever look at each other's phones, search hx, journals etc
We should love another, trust one another, and not look for trouble
We should also always assume the people we love have private lives we may not know about
However, given the level that (based on reddit threads)humans seem to not share their inner thoughts with their lovers, AND the rejection that seems to happen when “more is revealed,” I can appreciate the distrust
He said that she was talking about how she really wants kids with her partner but he doesn’t seem too keen on having kids at all. I don’t know if this info changes anything?
I saw a few comments but they got deleted??
I feel for you brother.
Exactly. It’s been laid out. If either one of them regrets “wasting time” with eachother, they’re responsible. Shouldn’t blame the other
As a previous pharmacy technician, benadryl is just an old antihistamine that has drowsy side effects.
Taking any medication every single night, builds up enzymes that break the medication down quicker. It probably barely does anything for her at this point and is a placebo effect and habit. That's not ideal given if she's ever given anything else more serious, this seems to be her way of taking/depending on medication. This suggests she really could end up addicted to something stronger if she was given it for a short period, and its a habit that really should be worked on. Honestly I think I'd be really put off someone early on if I found out this was an issue for them, both depending on them and being kind of stupid in not realising they are literally doing nothing after taking them for so long. But maybe this doesn't matter to you that much.
I would really suggest moving your pet food out of the bedroom though. Ive never heard of anyone keeping their pet food beside where they sleep, and that at least will remove the issue from happening again. Mainly you can't force or control her, you've brought it up a ton of times and laid down some boundaries… and she has just totally completely ignored them. So if you're not moving out, moving the cats dinner away from her bed and where she takes her pills seems like a logical step?
Also personally definitely couldn't stay with someone that completely and utterly dismissed my serious concerns or boundaries repeatedly. It doesn't bode well for the future for you at all. You could go and have a big talk about it and your concerns for her dismissal… but it sounds like she's liked to pretend she cares and will do something about it and then ignore you anyway… all for some pills that probably aren't even doing anything bar putting your cat in danger.
Not exactly sure, maybe an opinion if its a red flag? Is it really as big of a deal as it feels? Is this something I should do inner work on or talk to him about? Anything helps
No do not let it go.
Drunk driving is dangerous for everyone.
I’m mostly wondering is it okay if he’s not acting on anything.
In her post she clearly states regret and knowing she is wrong. There are some things most humans will agree on. Like treating others the way you want to be treated. Even if they're strangers. I don't think OP is a bad person but she did something knowing it would hurt others.
If you are scared of a relationship then you really need to ask yourself what pain you haven’t dealt with yet, because whether you want it to or not, it’s going to keep coming up. You will never be fully intimate or vulnerable if you’re already that scared of just liking her and getting to know her, and it’s really not fair to someone else to take them for a ride bc you are confused. She probably liked you too but you pulling away and coming back bc of your own issues is going to be confusing and hurtful for her so I’m the nicest way, my advice is to deal w your own personal issues before you bring other people into it. I say this out of personal experience with myself, not being judgmental at all!
He should be nice and sweet to you all of the time, not just after he has treated you in a degrading and painful way.
They're the same thing. Both saying they are committed to someone
I’ve been around the kid plenty of times with no problems. That’s not the issue. It’s barely 50/50 custody so it’s not like it’s around much
He’s totally justified in his reaction.
Around the kid or not, you still use illegal drugs.
That can impact his child, especially his custody if the other side were to get wind of your behaviors.
Break it off and let him raise his kid with a healthy person. If you love him, do him the respect.
I don’t see anything wrong with what your boyfriend wrote and in fact I would see it as a compliment. “Fun and exciting” only last for a short time and it gets old REAL fast. I don’t think you should have read the note. It seems like it would be similar to him looking in your journal. I know I wouldn’t want anyone looking in mine.
You asked a 14-year-old who just moved into your home if she was comfortable with you walking around in tight boxers and no top, and expected an honest answer. Her daughter should be clothed around you and vice versa. She is not your biological daughter and it’s just respectful to be covered around her, especially at her age.
Thank you, for your response, I do agree. Honestly I get that some of this is probably symptoms of mental health issues, but also I think it's fair be then like ok, so what are you going to DO about those.
And yes, they literally want like thighs touching while we game, it just feels cramped to me on top of everything else.
Just disappear without a word and she’ll go crazy
Full brain development doesn't happen until 25. I'm 39 now, and there is a very clear dividing line in my life that happened when I was 26/27. Was very much like your wife, wanting to go out every night, not a lot of concern for the future. Seemingly overnight my priorities changed to my career, building my future, generally just getting better at understanding consequences. I'm not judging the age gap at all, but this is somewhat expected behavior for her age, but obviously not for your age. It's something you're going to likely have to deal with for a couple years until she ages out of it.
lol she booty called bc she was ovulating. there are a shocking amount of break up pregnancies for this very reason
move out and rent whatever it is you can afford (if you think it would be cheaper for you).
She is not in the wrong you know…
You’re fighting over 2.5% of the rent but you don’t keep track of who buys groceries? That’s a huge expense. I’d want to feel very very confident that I’m paying my fair share there before I got all up in arms about the rent.
Well, I guess in the future, if a woman that you want to marry tells you, she wants to fuck other guys break up with her immediately instead of putting yourself through all this shit first.
A boundary is still a boundary no matter what FOR HER and only when it comes to HERSELF. We are talking about him and his body though, she doesn't get to dictate those boundaries unless it comes to cheating instances which she's watching it happen and clearly he is not cheating on her by not shoving this innocent stranger off of him. She does not get to dictate what his personal physical boundaries are with the rest of the world simply because they are dating
The answer is always yes, he’s probably hoping for that. When it comes to his intentions, I would be upfront about your expectations. Do you only sleep with people who aren’t sleeping with other people? Are you able to take this risk and accept the consequences either way? Dating is full of unknowns — you can only work off of the knowledge you have at the time. You don’t have to rush if you’re not ready, even if you’re over at his place naked and under him — you can ALWAYS say no.
Boss is paying so he believes it his kid.
Thank you very much.
It means it’s time to dump him and find someone who appreciates you and is happy to have you in his life.
Hey I’ve been almost exactly in your shoes. I decided to take her back and she just kept cheating, wasting another year of my time and doing tons more damage. Have some respect for yourself. You will find another girlfriend who won’t cheat on you.
YES! She mentioned somewhere he was touching her so the fact that people were even doubting that part of the story is ridiculous. I've had countless experiences with Uber drivers trying to get my number, making fetishizing comments about my race, one story that was basically assault that I don't even want to go into publicly, but this is very common and just because someone hasn't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen all the time.
If you have taken other behaviors like this before l, he knows he can push you around and you won’t break it up.
Girl essentially you and your safety come second or third to his friends. You deserve better but it’s up to you to get it.
Did you thank your sister? You should. I wished I had someone who would go these lengths to protect me.
This is the truth. Look at all the comments making fun of him and saying it’s gross. You do the same if it was swapped and you’d get flamed for being controlling ?♂️
Since your parents always say “well he could have come” then just BRING him and see where that leads from there, bring him every time and have a blast.
Doing something wrong? Way to minimize a crime that got him locked up. Obviously mom is concerned. You want to bring a kid into this?
What you had will never be again, it will never be what you had. You will always strive for that but never achieve it. Once broken the illusion can not be pieced back together
What do you hope to get out of spending more time with her? Is it for her? You don’t owe her anything. Is it because you hope she’ll apologize or change in the last few months of her life? I seriously doubt that will happen. Figure out WHY you think you need to spend this time with her. Then ask yourself how likely it is that what you hope for will happen. You don’t owe her anything. You never did.
As one should. Conservaturds are a plague on American politics.
Find another job if you can't get more hours at your current job. Or just limp along for the weeks until the others give you more hours.
Don't worry about what others do (“They didn't include me in a group chat”). Just take what comes your way, handle it with grace and then move on when you get the chance. 8 billion people in the world and you'll be able to find better than those 2.
If they don't include you? that's their loss not yours. They are negative – you don't have to be. They don't know how to drink responsibly – don't put yourself in the situation that you have to babysit irresponsible drunks.
Do you know if he tried to get close to her again?
To find the reason why she hooks up with these men.
The last was a loser too.
She is setting her life on fire with these men and needs to slow things down, 10 months and moving all in and staying after being physically assualted.
There comes a point when it's not how to fix/deal with the guys and it becomes how to fix yourself so you do choose them and stay well past what she should.
Why are you two still engaged lol
Stop buying 10-12″ dildos, it is intimidating to your guy with his 5″..be respectful with your toy purchases or the guy is going to get even more self conscious than he already is.
They are young. Elementary school and younger.
Sounds like you have let your daughter and your ex manipulate you. I would be pissed you missed the birth of your child. Might want to buckle up and get ready for a divorce from Tiffany,
How much longer does Tiffany have to come second to your manipulative and narcissistic ex wife and daughter? I wouldn’t stay with a man who couldn’t draw a line in the sand and stand up for me. I would nope out of there real quick.
If what she wants isn't what you want then the relationship is over. Don't torture yourself in to being okay with a situation just to appease your partner, if polygamy isn't what you are after then it's time to cut and run, especially if your version of polygamy is just letting dudes run train on your future wife while you wait for her to have emotionless meaningless sex with you.
You deserve better bro, and you still have your entire life ahead of you, this is the best opportunity to go out and live before settling down.
She had a whole relationship with someone else while you're married. She doesn't care about you, doesn't love you, and doesn't respect you. The only reason she admitted to anything is because she thought you had figured it out or that you would figure it out.
She's also extremely manipulative. Not only did she pretend none of it happened for so long, but she's also using tears to manipulate you into staying and forgiving her. She's not crying because she betrayed you and feels bad about it. And it's an absolute lie that she was tortured and felt guilt every day since it happened. She acted like nothing was wrong the entire time and you had no idea something was up. That's not how someone who is feeling incredibly guilty will act. She thought you'd never find out and was happy to live the rest of her life that way. She even had the nerve to keep in touch with him afterwards.
You will never be able to trust her again. If you do, you're a fool. She will absolutely cheat on you again in the future if you stay. It may not even be the only time she's cheated. It seems she's fine with cheating as long as she thinks she can bury it and you won't find out. Next time she will do a better job at hiding it so that you'll never find out.
Don't confuse how someone makes you feel with how they feel about you. I think the situation is clear and you need to be honest to yourself.
It’s just not true, you’re generalizing. You don’t know, you might suggest, but you don’t know. And to be fair, I don’t know either for sure. But I know “throwing up” doesn’t have to equal manipulating, not learned behavior (which is basically the same as learned behavior). There’s so many other options, that’s honestly more common than to manipulate, especially since she has so high anxiety that she needs meds.
The one example you could pull out of your head is about her not knowing laws and getting arrested? Really?
To be fair, my mother recently got arrested because she does the same thing. She was arrested last week and her court date is late next month. I have the paperwork on my desk if you don't believe me. I could have told her she was being foolish but after 30 years of her ignoring everything I say, I've given up and it led to her arrest.
And also to be fair, my girlfriend works in the legal field. I know if I tried to correct her on a law, she would not listen to me. So, unfortunately, yes, really.
But extreme, not extreme, why does it matter? I was illustrating a point. I mean the video game example wasn't extreme. What part of the original conversation was extreme on my end? Asking “Where did you get those?” because I wanted to see the context around it? Technically I didn't even say she was wrong. I was asking where she got her info from because I wanted to make sure it wasn't wrong, not her. I didn't accuse her of anything but she's acting like I did. If I can be more gentle, please tell me how. What could I have done different?
I'm asking for advice. My parents get mad if I try to correct them so I've learned to be as gentle as possible over the years but I don't know how to be any more gentle other than to keep my mouth shut but that just doesn't seem ethical. I don't want her wandering around the world with misinformation in her and her basing her decisions off that misinformation.
You want to have a baby, with this fucking clown? Why?
You have described finding a giant turd in a huge septic tank and said….yup, this is the prized possession I want to spend my life being hitched to. W.T.F
These are the same “friends” that are all for paternity tests? I can see both sides. I feel very confident that a man who needs a paternity test should absolutely have children with someone else because I don't want to make a life where my integrity is thrown out the window. It's fine to have a boss double check the cash drawer at work but not be questioned in my home. Some people are afraid of babies being switched at birth. Whatever. My kids were definitely a mix of our 2 families. This man will never stop calling you names. Look up “the rules of fair fighting” there are a few versions but they all say no name calling.
Do you have those things all figured out? You're both young. But if you aren't feeling it then it is what it is. Do you feel like you can trust her again?
Thank you I will do that
because outside of that the relationship is amazing
I’m so glad you said this!!! I’ve been feeling this a lot and noticing it more recently that most of my friends are single and will just tell me to be young and dumb and single too! My closest friends are amazing friends with my boyfriend so they definitely give me different advice but my outsider friends who don’t know him or our relationship as a whole very well usually just tell me to break it off! Great advice!!
You are just 19 ~ just break up and live your life lmao
Get a lawyer, sue for full custody with supervised visitation. Set up an support network with nanny and overnight babysitters due to your varying flight schedules. There are companies that provide these services. DNA test your son if you wish, if that is an issue for you. Others in the airline industry are single parents and do it well. Also, therapy for you and your son can help. Stay strong and you can do it.
You presented two trash opinions of his but sure defend him.
I thought the same thing!! More power to him if he doesn’t want a bachelor’s party, but it’s sooooo weird—and more than a little disturbing—to dictate to his fiancée that she can’t have bride-only events.
OP, take it from those of us who have been there, it sucks, it hurts – but the only thing you will regret at the end of this road is staying. You will never trust him, you will never find yourself 'worthy' again…I wish I could spare you the pain, I can't, but I can spare you the lesson. Please do not try to stay and make this work. Life is too finite for it.