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Date: October 10, 2022
Honey he’s abusive. You need to leave him because it will get so much worse. Find a friend or trusted family member, or see if there’s a woman shelter you can get to.
Break up with him. Immediately. I had the same thing happened to me and it only got worse.
Yeah, like, on the way say something along the lines of: “we should only buy stuff for other people and not ourselves because I don't want to buy something for myself if you've already gotten it for me for Christmas”
We have a lovely relationship, and I don't want to throw it away because of this, a mistake, which I'm sure every couple goes through. I just need advice on trusting and what to do
I was in a similar situation a couple years ago. I asked a classmate I was friends with out, we got drinks and said she just wanted to be friends. She got really distant after. I was depressed at the time and her rejection made me a lot more depressed. 5 months later she texts me out of no where wanting to meet up. We met and hooked up almost immediately after. I ended up rejecting her for a variety reasons. Sadly people don’t always appreciate the people in front of them. Some people need time. If you still are attracted to her and have feelings in anyway, yes meet up to spare yourself potential regret later on. If you’re seeing her in your dreams and she wants to see you, yes meet up. If she’s in your dreams now and you’re on the fence then there’s a chance she’ll be in you dreams forever until you get some exposure (therapy) and closure in some form.
If neither of you feel it’s a restriction, then go ahead.
All the red flags. Like so many that there aren’t enough for the rest of us. Girl, run. Put that inheritance into a trust, lock it down all the way. Get a financial advisor to help you set it up and invest. And if you decide that you absolutely cannot live without the Man of All The Red Flags, then you absolutely get a prenup. And a trust. Like don’t even for a second think about skipping that step before any marriage.
It's always amazing and infuriating watching people's answers change with gender. I always see the same advice no matter what the offender's gender is, but it seems like there is a lot more shade thrown when the they are a man and a lot of “well what about her feelings?” comments when they are a woman. I get it. She got rejected and feels bad, but she did it to herself. She asked him what he wanted. OP asked for a sandwich. She disregarded his answer to her question and decided to “give” him sex instead. OP was upset but still took the time to communicate to her that he did not want sex period. She still wouldn't accept no for an answer and starts throwing a tantrum.
Anyone would feel bad in that situation, but that doesn't excuse her from not giving two fucks about OP's consent. Her behavior after getting rejected is sexually coercive. He said no and she should have been supportive. Instead she questions his reasons ( as if he needed to give her a good reason to be able to say no) and then has been stonewalling him and crying to the point that their kid is concerned for her.
Imagine a grown man getting turned down for sex on his wife's birthday after trying to gift her sex she didn't want and then throwing a temper tantrum that lasts so long his kid is asking about it the next day.
He's done. He waited for his chance to leave without drama and took it. Time to start the divorce process. If he stays unresponsive, it will make things difficult but still completely possible.
I mean… he says he believes you won’t understand him? So he’s indirectly calling you ‘dumb’ or not emotionally intelligent enough to understand what he’s trying to say? To me, that’s a huge red flag. It sounds like he thinks he’s this super smart, amazing ‘God’s gift to the planet’ guy who has to talk down to everyone since he’s on another level.
Idk. I mean it seems like he doesn’t really know how to have a mature discussion or a mature way to resolve any type of conflict.
I suppose you could pick up a self-help book about improving communication between couples. See if he’d read it with you.
If he continues to refuse to try to change or if you notice it’s worse or he’s just continuing to be a jerk, unfortunately, consider cutting your losses and moving on because he likely won’t change if he truly feels he needs no improvement.
You can salvage the friendship if she comes to you and sincerely apologizes. Otherwise – no. She sucks.
I can’t tell if she’s exaggerating unless I understand the joke. So explain it.
Damn, a lot of really fuckin high and mighty people who’ve never had too much to drink in this thread.
Something is most likely going on between them. To what degree I can't say but there is definitely something not right. The fact that she sees nothing wrong with his behavior is a tell tale sign that this normal.
But you just freezing up was a bad move. It comes off as weak. You should have physically moved his hand from your GF's leg and firmly told him not to do that. If you had done that then the make it a trio “joke” may not have happened, and if it did then that would've been the time for a more aggressive confrontation.
She owes you an explanation about all of this.
You're not married, and it's an abusive relationship.
You can do better.
If they've both lived in the same area since, the odds go up. They both are the same age, odds go up. It's VERY improbable; not impossible
Wowsers why are you with this guy? Leave him, can you imagine the hang ups he’d give future kids?!
Next time she changes her style just tell her you hate it and that you are repulsed by her. Be rude, dismissive and tell her that as her BF you should have had a say in it.
Honestly tell her to fuck off. If she is gonna be a complete child over your choice in hairstyle, then tell her she can walk.
Get an attorney. Your mistake here was staying after the original issues with this coworker. When you stay with someone who cheats you tell them that you are ok with cheating.
Adults fuck. It’s what they do. 99% it “got physical”. 1% it didn’t but they wanted to and were worming their way up.
Crushes are normal in relationships. Lying to meet up is cheating. Cheating comes down to your core character. You are either someone who cheats or someone for whom cheating is never an option. Unhappy people leave. Cheaters cheat.
Contact an attorney, get STD tested and push for as much custody as you can. The less influence she has over your kids the less likely they’ll grow up to be cheaters.
Learn to say goodbye. It’s a true skill. It’s hard at first, but you’re giving someone an opportunity to be their best for someone else, and a side effect of that is you get to focus more on your self. At the end of the day: it’s not about you, it’s not about them, it’s about the relationship and doing what’s best for it. Leaving someone doesn’t mean you have to say goodbye, and they aren’t dying. Just spend more time somewhere else.
You’re 23, and there is a lot of life to explore with someone more aligned to your interest.
Thank you for the reply!
I guess I do also appreciate the fact that she was open to me about the gifts not being what she wanted. Problem is that now she feels really bad about telling me this but I've sort of moved on and accepted that fact already.
Next time we will just communicate specifically on gifts and make sure to not get more than what's needed
Men don't cheat on women they love.
Source: Man who cheated on plenty of women he didn't love but is with one now that he does and there's zero temptation or want to cheat.
End this relationship and be better in future.
Sure she can want to stay together, but the trust is broken. She'll always remember that you cheated and it will likely be used against you a lot in the future. On top of that, you've gotten away with it once, and like an addict you'll try to get away with it again. (Source: been there, done that).