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Date: November 3, 2022
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“Doesn’t want to be a couple outside of the home” sounds like a red flag to me. Like she wants you there for her when it suits her, but freedom everywhere else. You’ll continue to invest in the both of you, she won’t. I think you’ll end up hurt. I’m sorry to say that, but better now than further down the road. 🙁
If you're trying to restate what I already said then you would be agreeing with me. Not the reverse
I’m sorry but this sounds like psychosis. It’s very likely no one is impersonating the healthcare he care guy and it’s in her head. Much like the “messages and bullying” hidden in random Reddit’s. I think you need to consider that she is very unwell. And an involuntary psych hold is needed if she won’t go willingly. She needs serious professional help. She’s at risk. So is your daughter when they’re alone. I’m so very sorry for you all, to be dealing with this.
Yikes is the only word that comes to mind
I know Im being a dick, but after you break someones heart, you cant just get them back. You can keep trying, you can apologize to him, you can try to be friends and maybe one day you will get back together. But its a tough road ahead of you.
Sorry it’s taken a while to reply to this. Thank you all for your comments. It’s so hard for me to get advice so I’m very grateful to you all for taking the time to give me your opinions.
He’s immature. And not as you described him. Loving and caring in certain situations isn’t loving and caring.
This isn’t safe riding gear at all. And wearing it under riding gear for 4 hours would leave you stinky and gross. Unless you can stop and put it on under your gear somewhere very close to his place, better to just put it on once you get there if you must wear it, but be aware that full latex takes a substantial amount of time to get into alone, and you need to powder yourself, so after you surprise him and do some foreplay, you’ll need to shower before the sex.
How someone treats you when they don’t think they can get something in return, is the real person. If he was rude when he didn’t see you as an option or that he could get something from you then run. Don’t trust him being so nice now his other options left. He will quickly leave if a better option comes up. You want to be their best option.
Don't walk away, run away NOW!
Sexy 10/10? So? If ive got nothing in common with her, whats even the point?
They might look great on the video. Of course they will, thats what their makeup is designed to do. And everyone around them knows that this look has nothing to do with reality. And will cease at the end of work day,after they take all that makeup down.
Dont let yourself be influenced with a good work of makeup artist or five. Their work is there literally so that end consumer of that video is influenced as designed, but thats all there is.
You sounded like a nervous wreck this whole post. Who needs to live like that. You sound caring and considerate and deserve better than to deal with someone who throws adult tantrums.
If I see him post outside of football or basketball, I’d be concerned.
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Have we learned nothing from Biz Markie?!
You tell her once that that is completely inappropriate. If she does it anyway, then you find a new GF.
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Your worth isn't defined by the size of your penis.
Buy that toy. Use your fist. Get creative. There's no rule that says that you have to satisfy him entirely with your D. It's not about you not being “enough”.
Thanks for making it disgusting for me.
I didn't mean it as a joke though. Men who finish before things even start, they can work on that. Does he watch porn? How often? Jacking off to a computer screen HAS TO GO it psychology is really bad for intimacy.
I’m sorry this is happening to you. I know it’s really painful. But this is not going to be the only relationship you ever have and it’s not going to be the person that always loves you. I know it feels this way right now because it did to all of us in our first relationship when it ended. I would just work on yourself and move forward. There will be other women I promise that is, unless you go to a monastery in Tibet or something
You’re now the age he was when you met. Would you want to date a 13 year old?
Don't blame Tik Tok, this is all on you.
This makes sense. I was just unsure on what would be better for us but my anxiety is definitely swaying that decision. Thank you.
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She didn't cheat, are you on the correct post?
No, I do not agree. It's a different dynamic when it's your parents, versus just a friend or something. It's nuanced.
Even if you're an adult, you might still need them in your life and lean on them, it doesn't mean condoning their every action. You're free to cut off parents over infidelity if you like, or indeed for any reason, but I strongly feel that it should (as much as possible) stay between the parents in an attempt to not let it impact their relationships with their kids. I understand the mum's hurt, trust me, but I also think she's putting OP in a terrible position, when he's an innocent party in it.
I'm saying this as a kid of parents that split up, in part, because of cheating.
Bro, you don't deserve to be treated that way… this is a ??? just because if she gets used to treating you like this AROUND OTHERS, then the future is bleak if she decides she can walk all over you…. if she needs more time with her gfs and less with you, blow off some dates and go work out and play CoD with the boys, invest in yourself now.
I think his relationship counselor is his 21 year old fling….
Sounds like it's past times to end things.
I think the last sentence sums this up. Grow a pair and block him, you’re only interested because u treats u like trash
An hour long ride isn’t that taxing for two kids.
It's definitely more of a courtesy.
because bc ruins a women's body while condoms do nothing
Basically, you’ve just asked us: how can I keep walking the same line but yet do better for my children?
You can’t. Like many have already told you. My heart is broken for your children. I know the aftermath of a raising like yours, and while I really want to yell at you, ask you wtf is wrong with you, I don’t think it will help or make you change. May your children have the strength to do better for their children, and may they have the money for the mountains of therapy they’ll need to develop the tools you never gave to them. May they rise above you and your husbands hatred, and may they continue to have the strength to protect themselves by keeping you and your husband at more than an arm’s length. You’re reaping what you’ve sown. Your children deserve so much better than you and your husband. I hope they get it.
Worse yet, she has passively accepted and been a part of the abuse her husband has subjected his kids to, even if it is unwitting.
Life to too short, OP. Your husband is more concerned with optics than treating family with respect and love. What kind of life are you living, with a man like that? What life do you want to live? One on punishing your kids for how they ought to be, but aren't? Or one where ypu show them love and acceptance for who they are and who their families are?
Flashing you chest isn't the same as flashing your genitals. Men also have nipples and they're allowed everywhere, covered in hair and sweat. That's assault on my eyeballs.
I'm gonna be real. It sounds like your gf has some unresolved relationship business. The cheating has made her unsure of herself in ways that make her feel the need to sell men on her good qualities…by talking about how much other men dig her.
It sounds like she might be in a bit of an emotionally messy headspace. For myself, I tend not to get involved with folks who are still too hung up on their last relationship stuff.
I wish. I once had to sit next to a guy who was already well intoxicated when we boarded and then kept ordering (and getting and downing) wine and quickly started getting handsy.
Your totally right. It was just such out of left field that I want to hope stupidly that he can do better and it really was just the worst choice he made and he’ll never make it again but I know I shouldn’t expect more then what my eyes tell me.
It also doesn’t help, I’m waiting for my status of residence in our country we live at and he makes the money that supports me. If I left him I wouldn’t have anywhere to go, I mean I could get another live in job (I came over to this country as live in job before moving in with him) but I wouldn’t want that while going threw just trauma I would want my own place and be independent but at the moment I can’t do either.
Or he doesn't like oral. That's allowed. Some people just don't like it. It's gross to try to bargain it out of an unwilling partner
Boobs and genitals are not the same thing.
I know it’s not because of the abortion. I was basically over it the second it was done. I never wanted kids and will never want to experience childbirth so I over it pretty much immediately. He has cheated before but that’s something I have and am still currently working through but I don’t think that would be the reason for my thoughts either. I really have no idea where they’re coming from because we’ve been great and they just started like a week ago.
OP, if for you sex is “almost my way of just feeling loved” it indicates perhaps some misplaced priorities on your part (maybe even some childhood sexual abuse). But if that's your standard for a good relationship and your boyfriend doesn't have a particularly high libido you and he just aren't good match. The point of dating (especially as teenagers) is to learn how to find someone who's a good fit for you the way you are and they way they are. It isn't to latch onto someone with diametrically opposed traits then to try to change them into what you want. You may not be doing anything “wrong” and he may not be either. It could be that you're just not meant to be together because you're too different in the ways that matter most to you.
Im really sorry that it happened to you. Maybe its a good thing your family isn't talking to you. Like they're supposed to be your support system but rn they're adding on to your stress. Let them kick rocks.
Dnd is the greatest game of all time.
Just have mouthwash next to the bed.. have him gargle for a few seconds.. & boom.. problem solved..
If the genders were reversed you would not be second guessing your instincts.
You should know that you don’t need to fight for a relationship. That if he’s”really lovely “ most of the time, but the rest of the time, he’s miserable, or makes you miserable, that’s not good enough. And no, the rest of us aren’t too picky, or uptight bitches, for having standards higher than her can reach. You need to up your standards for your mental well-being. And if he doesn’t meet them, oh well, that’s not your problem.
It’s not your job to make his life better. You were not put on this earth for him.
Ewww runny scramble sounds nasty. I keep mine soft but…that's something else.
And wtf I can barely keep my footing over the hallway carpet when I leave the bathroom. I'd die, slip right off the mortal coil.
Dude, have some respect for yourself. She’s playing you like a fiddle. You’re better than this and you deserve better too.
It's not too late to be the adult with common sense in your own life. Have you ever thought that your lack of any support system besides him is by his design? Don't give it two years. Start building your new life now. Get out of this toxic marriage, make friends, go out there, and find someone who matches your libido!
If she has any issue with it you should break up with her. Also, have you tried colour correcting creams instead of concealer? Works better for some people.
I have no problem with my bf wearing make up ??♀️ it's just not a big deal or any size deal for that to be happening
She needed 200 for rent but 1500 for a car payment? Who can drive a car with a payment like that without having the income to cover it. I’ve never heard of anyone I know having that big a car payment. That math ain’t mathin. And what was your solution for the 200?
You have every right to be insecure
This. He thinks “insecure” is an insult to her. It's not – it's a testament to what he's brought to the relationship.
Congratulations! He's not a good man anymore. Please stop making excuses, there isn't one.
I understand how easy it is to make assumptions about relationships I'm not inside of, but it isn't really appropriate to assume anything here. No one knows the dynamics for real….what has happened in their past that causes either of them to behave as they are now. Could have been reversed at another time. Unknown. Also, people need to be left to make their own choices. It can only end badly for you and your wife if you decide to step into the middle of this couple's relationship. Make your own choices about whether or not you hand out with either of them, but don't take a stance publicly on their marriage.
Maybe ponder the following:
– people with low self esteem are far more likely than healthy individuals to jump to the conclusion that a partner is cheating
– feeling the need to tell a partner about every contact you have with your coworkers is obsessive and not something most would do
– it's pathological to tell someone they can't be friends with half the planet, so if he's failed to mention making a female friend at work it could be because you've (irrationally) made that verboten
Ask yourself why someone in his position would cheat on you instead of just breaking up if he wanted to be with other people. You don't live together, share kids or real estate and it's not like he'd have to file paperwork and ask a judge to allow him to be single. It would just be too easy to breakup if he wanted to try something else. Be aware of looking for problems where none exist. More breakups are caused by baseless accusations than by real cheating.
Please leave. He's trying to normalize abuse.
What makes you feel that this is something you should share on relationship advice?
She probably only got married because she can’t stand to be alone, not because she loves her husband. Some people are like that unfortunately.
I left someone who wanted me to lose weight because he liked skinny girls.
You should leave someone who wants you to gain weight because she wants a man with a bigger belly.
You guys just met 3 months ago and she's already dictating what she wants you to look like. Assuming you're looking for long-term, is this what you want? You guys haven't even hit the half year stage yet and she's already made you feel bad about something you've spent a long time working on.
uh, sorry to say, he does not want to marry you.
I bet he will marry when the risk is worth the reward, and that ain't you.
If you want to get married someday, and he tells you he won't ever marry you, then I would suggest you end the relationship because you both want different things.
But seriously, he's going to marry the next girlfriend, its almost like a rule.