Thank you! & Soooo irritating. I’ve been with my partner for 7 years. We have a toddler. We’ve talked about marriage but we just aren’t there yet. But in no way are either one of us single! We definitely have that commitment. And sometimes I wear a ring on my ring finger just to shut people up! ?
Honestly you should probably go your separate ways, she deserves a lot better. If you both want to work on things you should really get into couples counseling.
I felt like it was an issue an year ago, now I've been more like numb about it. Not sure if it's the root cause of everything or result of something, but I guess is still eats me up alive.
Then get off Reddit and get some sleep. You aren't in any condition to sort through your emotions and make decisions. Even if you want to truly break up and end things this is not the state you need to be in.
Once you sober up talk to her parents and postpone/cancel the wedding. Then take a trip with your friends somewhere and get away for a bit to clear your head. You can figure everything else out later.
It may feel like the end of the world but it isn't. You are 25 years old
Yeah I’m overthinking as well, cause my past relationship included my ex cheating on me with his ex. So I’m really worried that I don’t want to include myself into anything that might cause others problem. And stuff that’ll make me uncomfortable.
Psst…you don't actually like your boyfriend. So..yeah. Break up.
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Thank you! & Soooo irritating. I’ve been with my partner for 7 years. We have a toddler. We’ve talked about marriage but we just aren’t there yet. But in no way are either one of us single! We definitely have that commitment. And sometimes I wear a ring on my ring finger just to shut people up! ?
Honestly you should probably go your separate ways, she deserves a lot better. If you both want to work on things you should really get into couples counseling.
You are absolutely dealing with a disability. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
OP rushing to get that 2nd divorce under his belt
Thank you everyone! I was so under his charm that I didn't even question that it could be a lie. All I knew that it made me feel really uneasy.
I felt like it was an issue an year ago, now I've been more like numb about it. Not sure if it's the root cause of everything or result of something, but I guess is still eats me up alive.
If that is the case, then good thing it’s not your relationship
. he usually kept me in block for only a few hours. Now 3 days have passed and I'm still blocked
Let her. A psychologist isnt a threat, and could help you deal with your mom's…… idiosyncrasies.
Then get off Reddit and get some sleep. You aren't in any condition to sort through your emotions and make decisions. Even if you want to truly break up and end things this is not the state you need to be in.
Once you sober up talk to her parents and postpone/cancel the wedding. Then take a trip with your friends somewhere and get away for a bit to clear your head. You can figure everything else out later.
It may feel like the end of the world but it isn't. You are 25 years old
Divorce & Abortion. You’re young, don’t be tied down to worthless sack of shit you married.
Pal, let’s agree to disagree. Give your advice if you have another one and move on.
You did the right thing. Stop looking back unless you’re aiming for a doormat position.
Yeah I’m overthinking as well, cause my past relationship included my ex cheating on me with his ex. So I’m really worried that I don’t want to include myself into anything that might cause others problem. And stuff that’ll make me uncomfortable.
Break up