She did say I would like to do it occasionally. I think she's just looking for ways to break the barrier e.g. “I did in Amsterdam and nothing bad happened, come on, relax”
Fragile person, can't look beyond a certain style of facial hair and has to compare her own husband to a pedophile.
That says more about her than about him. Let him enjoy his facial hair.
Go read the posts that men make when their SO goes with a short hairstyle. They are told to get over it and they should let her express herself however she wants.
Have a meeting, first with the your fiancé and then with her, her parents, and the BIL and tepl them that if the brother-in-law shows up in anything other than black tie, the wedding will not happen. They can all stay away if they think such childish behavior is appropriate. Or you can hire security with a mandate to stop anyone who isn’t properly dressed and make sure that they know that no one is an exception, especially your in laws try if they to get the BIL in the wedding in wearing a clown costume.
You are setting the tone for what you will and won’t allow for the next 50 years possibly. Do not let them walk all over you and do not allow this clown(pun intended) to ruin your wedding.
My suggestion would be to remind him at this point you do not plan to have anymore children, and he is throwing a fit and throwing away moments that he will never have a chance to get back.
Yeah, she’s a con artist, looking to take over your house. Change the locks, tell her she has 48 hours to get her shit.
She did say I would like to do it occasionally. I think she's just looking for ways to break the barrier e.g. “I did in Amsterdam and nothing bad happened, come on, relax”
ngl this is the cutest thing I've heard and if your mom doesn't think the same she's really wrong.
Keep the stache, ditch the girl.
Fragile person, can't look beyond a certain style of facial hair and has to compare her own husband to a pedophile.
That says more about her than about him. Let him enjoy his facial hair.
Go read the posts that men make when their SO goes with a short hairstyle. They are told to get over it and they should let her express herself however she wants.
Let him be.
Sounds like a bangmaid scenario
Blaming the alcohol is such a cop out ?? she cheated on you with your so called friend. I’d ditch them both.
Have a meeting, first with the your fiancé and then with her, her parents, and the BIL and tepl them that if the brother-in-law shows up in anything other than black tie, the wedding will not happen. They can all stay away if they think such childish behavior is appropriate. Or you can hire security with a mandate to stop anyone who isn’t properly dressed and make sure that they know that no one is an exception, especially your in laws try if they to get the BIL in the wedding in wearing a clown costume.
You are setting the tone for what you will and won’t allow for the next 50 years possibly. Do not let them walk all over you and do not allow this clown(pun intended) to ruin your wedding.
My suggestion would be to remind him at this point you do not plan to have anymore children, and he is throwing a fit and throwing away moments that he will never have a chance to get back.
Your siblings are correct. Either that or you’re desperate. Which is it?
but like i hate the fact that i feel like i have to do that. ive never had these kinds of crazy thoughts before
Start therapy if possible
He's a creep. He's a weirdo.