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We have had a lot of that this week in this sub.
Omfg. You are so naive
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Whether you meant to or not, it’s still something you did, even if it was just a mistake. Shes allowed to be upset or frustrated, especially if this happens a lot. Maybe it is a unconscious interpreted msg, but it still was done. Intent vs impact. All you can do is say you’re sorry and work on it. Maybe next time make sure you understand what she said by repeating it back to her.
The same room and the door locked are red flags. Gay or not they don’t need to be in the same room.
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How is a couple of hours together “too much” when you’ve been dating for 5 years?
It’s once a year, I’d expect to go to whole day events once a year that I wouldn’t enjoy if they were important to my partner’s family. Being in a relationship means doing stuff you don’t want to sometimes, this is not a big ask at all.
It sounds to me that this is less about gifts and more about feeling seen/heard/appreciated.
Giving them a list with a book title on it wouldn't change that you feel unseen because they once again wouldn't have to listen to what you said when you mentioned that book that you wanted to read.
How are three gifts from a list going to make you happy when you have to write that list between chores that you have to do alone and they're adding to by now also asking for a list? The real gift would be to see that you're overwhelmed and take on some of the tasks so you can relax for half an hour.
If I'm right (only you can answer that) this is very much about just wanting to feel appreciated. Have you tried explaining it this way? That you don't want a product from a list but you want your partner to empathise with you as a person.
I think he's already seen how you can get sometimes and decided he's not into that. Nothing you can do really.
His offer actually explains his reaction too; he offered because he thought it was dangerous for her to drive so late and/or sleepy/tired – and after she said no, she gets into a car crash immediately.
Your husband feels guilt, OP. Guilt.
I love this!! 8 mo in. She moves in. Life changes. Wait until he really has kids!! LMAO
Unfortunately I do think you mixed something up there – she’s the one he wants to talk to and give attention to – you are the one that’s a habit he can’t stop but puts to the side
On the grounds of fraud or misrepresentation, he can get an annulment. This is because she hid the fact that she was no longer sexually attracted to him.
Why do you try to keep hanging out with people who don’t want to be with you?
Sweet Jesus; if this isn't fake fucking run (I'm hoping it was typed with one hand, because as annoying as it is to have bored assholes spam this forum with fake or nonsensical scenarios or masturbatory fantasies, this scenario bein real is far, far more disturbing).
Weird tests aren't an okay thing to which to subject a partner at all; there is no way to “test” whether you're cheating even if they were; “emotional cheating” – and the thought policing people try to do in response – isn't a thing, except in the minds of manipulative, controlling people who are too insecure to have healthy relationships; and pressuring you to be in a creepy semi-incestuous sexual situation is inappripriate even if all the rest of that weren't the case.
Your fiance has serious mental illness that is prompting bizarre, harmful behavior and radically delusional thinking. She's not healthy enough to be in an intimate relatiknship. You need to call off the wedding immediately and break up with her. It sounds like she has family members who can help her get psychological treatment, but if they're not reliable, you could stay in friendly contact at least long enough to get her set up with a psychotherapist. That said, it's not your responsibility if you don't feel able or just don't want to.
Absolutely do not marry this woman under any circumstances.
It's unfathomable to me how someone is willing to part ways with someone they share mutual love with due to political differences and don't want to conform and hide my opinions to please her.
It's important to understand that “politics” isn't just a vague, unimportant thing. It is a personal life values thing. Political goals, decisions, and ultimately laws can greatly and permanently affect people's lives. So, it really isn't something most people can ignore, and it's definitely not just a “petty political dispute.” It's real life.
If you fundamentally disagree with her about life values, it will serve you both to be very honest about your views and act accordingly. So, please, for both of your sakes, do not conform and hide your opinions from her. Tell her your beliefs and values forthrightly. Not doing so will only delay the inevitable. She will eventually find out by way of your actions, and it will just be harder and more traumatic. There are some things in life that can not be compromised. Personal life values are one of those things.
Good luck.
End the relationship. Now. This boy is a failure of a partner.
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Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. Happy Valentine's day.
He is a groomer
This so called 30 year is immature. I assume op doesn't bring him around because of the age gap.
This so called 30 year is immature. I assume op doesn't bring him around because of the age gap.
I think there was a misunderstanding here, my bro died on the 30th and he wanted me to attend the game night on the 4th and tonight (the 18th). I don’t expect him to drop everything, just be there the first weekend post death.
Thank you for your reply.
Talking about porn on the first date is definitely pretty weird, though you could attribute that to the drinking, but… really it depends on how YOU feel about it. If you’re a little creeped out, that’s totally cool. But if you’re up for a little roleplay then you might be a great match
Ops gf doesn't have a penis.
We don't know how hard OP pushed at him to do it. He may have just figured 'fuck it, she'll see once she meets them' just to shut her up about it. Some people are ridiculously naive and oblivious about why somebody isn't close with family. He may have figured she'd see for herself and step up out his ass about it. So relive all that trauma to tell her about it, let it rip him up for the duration and she still keep pushing OR just let her find out for herself so she'll stfu about it forever.
Hell, on this sub itself we see ppl writing about pushing at SOs to reconnect with straight up ABUSIVE family bc they just cannot compute that some people are toxic af and blood means squat. They think bc they have a good family their SO is being unreasonable or dramatic. That it can't be “that bad”. It's hella naive but common as dirt.
My bf doesn't need to know WHY I don't associate with my uncles and their families, he doesn't need to know the BS they've pulled over the years or even need me to tell him “they're bad people”. The fact I don't speak to them tells him all he needs to know and he respects that.
Sounds to me like OP didn't respect that and pushed at her bf about meeting his parents and now she has regrets for doing it and feels shitty. Well she got what she wanted so badly and at the cost of her bf's feelings and getting to watch his dad assault him. FA&FO ??♀️
Do him a favor and break up with him because anyone who forces the person who they supposedly love to talk to their estranged parents for the sake of family is not mature enough to be in a relationship
First. I can’t you yelled at her 4 year old. Not cool. You aren’t compatible. You are controlling. Different religious beliefs, she has repeatedly said to not parent her kids but you don’t listen. You won’t marry anyone who isn’t a Christian. She’s not. You aren’t compatible.
Why don't you just tell him how you're feeling and what you'd like?
Sure, the suggestion of a road trip might be somewhat of a steep step after only three dates, but it sounds like he's trying to be very respectful about it.
But again, why don't you just tell him you're not comfortable going on a road trip with him so soon and suggest another date activity, during which you can talk about what you would each like from each other at this point in time?
I think it’s crazy that people still trust what’s being told to us after being obviously lied to. Epstein for example. How can anyone trust the elites after that? I’m not sure what exactly what she was saying but I’m on the side of “don’t believe what you’re being told.” I don’t believe in blind trust in the government. Especially considering it’s history.
But that’s not the point.
What makes you so sure she will be isolated and miserable considering there are so many others who agree with her? I’m confused about that part.
It’s ok to prefer to be with someone on the same page as you but to insult her intelligence is wrong in my opinion. We live in a world with endless information, the internet and more- people have so many different versions of the same event. I think it’s very wrong to insult people’s intelligence for having a view because you don’t know how they got there.
But again, you’re allowed to break up with someone for any reason you want.
Got it, you’re full of shit. Thanks for clearing that up.
Tell him to come eat some pancakes then
If everyone in your life is saying it’s a red flag that’s something to think about
You'd be surprised how much emotional distress can force people to mature faster. Besides he sid he has a fiance. Pretty sure they discussed and practiced what he wanted to say before he did it.
Why are you dating a 27 year old man that doesn't own his own car? Why are you letting yourself be used? There must be a million young men your own age to date.
He was with you because he cant fuck a bus pass. why would you date someone without a car anyway?
(yeah yeah, I know a lot of places people dont own cars because of public transportation/high cost of ownership and storage, Im not talking about people who don't own a car because they don't need to. I didn't own a car for 7 years because I was deployed and rarely home and never needed one. when I did buy a car, I STILL didn't need it, got deployed again, and gave it to my ex wife to use while I was gone. I mean people who don't own a car because they don't have the means/ability to obtain/afford one on their own)
That woman was married to the guy, this one doesn't mention marriage. It's probably not the same.
I’m not sure whether I think you should tell him.
I definitely don’t think you owe it to him to tell him how many sexual partners you’ve had. Honesty is good, but honesty doesn’t mean answering every question every person has, especially when they don’t need to know and they’ll behave irrationally to it.
But I would consider telling him you’re not a virgin. Not because it’s something he desperately needs to know, but because it might clarify some things about your relationship. I.e. how much of a double standard does he have? Will he judge you for having sexual experience even though he does too? Is he fine with the fact that you’re a woman in control of her own body, which you may choose to give to him exclusively…but have also chosen to give to others before him? If he’s not that may tip you off to some control issues that won’t just disappear when you get married.
Have you discussed your respective need for alone time? This can be a big issue when someone is suddenly always there.
Have a talk ahead of time about how you'll let the other person know if they're doing something annoying. Agree to both do your best to not be defensive if the other person brings up something.
Nothin wrong with her or anybody else using tinder. I did when i was single.
But its objectively funny this guy is obsessed with the idea of her being a virgin and she was using hookup apps before she met him. She isnt just not a virgin, she was in her own terms actively involved in hook up culture. More power to her, but thats funny.
Probably because the totally reasonable default assumption is that they are, because cis people make up 90%+ of the population.
I understand why trans people dont go around outting themselves to everyone, it's not safe. But once a couple decides to be either “exclusive” romantically, and/or discusses becoming sexual (whichever comes first), it's not okay for a Trans person to not share that they are not Cis, especially if they know their partner is not typically attracted to the genitals they happen to have.
In OPs cases I'd honestly be pissed and feel lied to, because she was allowed to develop real, strong feelings for someone who she isnt really compatible with sexually, and that's really unfair to do to someone you supposedly care about. Wrong sub, but BF is YTA in this instance. He waited nearly a YEAR of being in an exclusive relationship, thats totally unacceptable.
And I say this as a pansexual, non-binary woman, so its not coming from a place of hate or a lack of understanding/concern for the Trans community.
hi, im a polyamorous person who used to be in monogamous relationships— i would sadly suggest that you end this relationship, because monogamy is very important to people, and at a year in, i do think you know your partners preference (which what you described here, seems in line with monogamy), and if you are not, you can not have a healthy relationship
you need to look for people who more align with your relationship ideals
It was part yelling into the void, and part understanding whether it is normal to have feelings in a relationship or if it is cause to take a step back and re-evaluate
Lawyer first. One thing to note is you said they’re going into high school first right? Meaning he hasn’t been in their lives for more than ten years? Might be something to bring up to the lawyer because custody would be a breeze for you if he has abandoned them for that long. Do not engage with anyone besides the lawyer and see what the advice is, then talk to your husband and then your kids.
I am so sorry for your loss too, thank you for sharing
No please I didn’t intend anything wrong can you guys please stop downvoting me, I worked so hard to get to 11k karma
Sounds like a weird petty thing to do.
I was in a kind of similar situation before. If you've resorted to asking on reddit, you may have your answer already. It may be time to cut ties, for both of your benefit.
Your girlfriend is going drinking with her other boyfriend.
Bro, girls have it rough when they go out and it's just safer when there's a dude around or a couple of their friends. You lie to her regularly and need to get focused on things in your own life first so you can be a good partner.
The biggest mistake was harassing her while she's out with friends because they are probably the ones who told her it makes sense to leave if you're acting like that. What do you need to do? Leave her a flower and apology note if you want at her house. It should say a big “IM SORRY” on the front so she doesn't see the flowers and get freaked out you're hiding in the bushes.
You need to turn off your phone for a few days and maybe watch some TV with ice cream big guy.
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