If you’re not attracted to her, you should probably end things sooner rather than later. The point of dating is to find out if you’re compatible. Seven inches is quite a bit larger than average. Her remark was rude and likely due to her own insecurity.
My apologies for a slightly different response. But yes I do agree with you with we both did the same thing to one another. We had a issue of miscommunication.
I framed it that way because it was both. I acknowledge that. I am not proud of it. But I truly do care deeply about her.
And I didn’t necessarily change it from holding her back and over reliant on me. To me in this situation I feel as if they coexist. I held her back unintentionally by allowing her to be over reliant on me. She told me she was happy with me being her best friend and her partner. So I respected it. But as I thought about it more I realized that that isn’t okay.
My overall concerns in regards to us, is I really want us to be able to communicate properly this time. We are extremely similar with how we handle situations which is good and also bad. I want us to build that friendship again with clear communication and if it’s mutual take the steps to try again. But I don’t know how to properly articulate how I feel to her without my heart being in my throat.
Doesn't sound like a threat, just her being cautious about random/flings women around her or your shared newborn too soon IMO.
Then you’re as bad as the current GF.
If you’re not attracted to her, you should probably end things sooner rather than later. The point of dating is to find out if you’re compatible. Seven inches is quite a bit larger than average. Her remark was rude and likely due to her own insecurity.
If he had 22$ left over, he didnt get a lap dance. 138$ for 2 & 1/2 hours is low.
My apologies for a slightly different response. But yes I do agree with you with we both did the same thing to one another. We had a issue of miscommunication.
I framed it that way because it was both. I acknowledge that. I am not proud of it. But I truly do care deeply about her.
And I didn’t necessarily change it from holding her back and over reliant on me. To me in this situation I feel as if they coexist. I held her back unintentionally by allowing her to be over reliant on me. She told me she was happy with me being her best friend and her partner. So I respected it. But as I thought about it more I realized that that isn’t okay.
My overall concerns in regards to us, is I really want us to be able to communicate properly this time. We are extremely similar with how we handle situations which is good and also bad. I want us to build that friendship again with clear communication and if it’s mutual take the steps to try again. But I don’t know how to properly articulate how I feel to her without my heart being in my throat.