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Date: October 5, 2022
Yeah, and I totally understand. Its safer in Germany and her family is here. Plus uni
I learned long ago I become indifferent. It's not fair to my partner once that occurs. I inform them of such and usually there is a slow but understandable separation. No big pain, just a good bond leftover from an attempted lifelong bonding
Ask her what you can do to help her get there. Perhaps you two need some time to yourselves as a couple.
Mainly because I was severely lacking intimacy and feeling super stressed. We have 3 kids and jobs. I spend the lions share of time taking care of the fam.
The solution here is to try to get closer together. Not for each of you to find someone else to fuck. You've used the wrong solution to fix this problem.
Now my wife also has a partner and i feel like I'm dying. I don't understand how anyone does this.
You never thought of this before opening your relationship? Or did you think you were the only one fucking someone else and thought your wife would waiting for you at home?
Is there any other reprieve from this intense gut wrenching grief?
Communicate to your wife about your feelings. Then therapy or divorce.
Stay with your husband until he has bought his share of the business. Then you can divorce him and get half of his share in the settlement.
Ok, yes, I'm kidding. Firstly, as others have said, don't make any rash decisions. Take your time to let the initial shock blow over. Then make decisions when you are calmer.
FWIW, I'll give you my perspective.
In your shoes, I'd feel that my position in the company was untenable. You've effectively had 4 people promoted over you. You also don't know what the future structure of the company will be. Will you still be considered a manager? Will pay structures change? What will your duties going forward be? If I was working for a company and there was a buy out by some of the employees, even if I wasn't interested in buying a share of the company, I would still want to know what the buy out meant for my position.
And I don't feel that I would be able to continue to work for a company where my employer didn't treat his workers well. Even if he had legitimate reasons not to offer you a share in the company, the way he went about it was totally oblivious of your feelings. It wasn't your partner's job to tell you why you hadn't been offered the position, it was the company owner's. The company owner should've handled the situation with much more sensitivity than he did. So again for that alone, I wouldn't want to stay in the company.
As to your relationship with your partner? There's a fair bit of context missing that would help me decide my long term future. You wrote that the meeting was planned by email. Did everyone know that it was to discuss the buyout? Did your partner know that you hadn't received the email before the meeting? If no, did he ask why you weren't included when the meeting started? If yes, then did he ask at the time why you weren't included? If he was told ahead of the meeting the reason you weren't invited, why didn't he tell you? Was he sworn to secrecy for some reason? Was he concerned that if he made any complaints he'd be frozen out of the buyout too? Answers to those questions would help me decide if my partner was put into a difficult situation that he didn't know how to react to, or if he's just an asshole that doesn't care about me. Him going to lunch afterwards was a pretty dick move though, no matter how you cut it.
But anyway, as I said, take your time. You have plenty of time to find a new job if you want, or find a new partner if you want. One last piece of advice, I don't know how your finances are arranged, but if you do have joint finances and you do stay with your partner while he buys into the business, make sure only his personal finances go into buying the business. If he uses any of the joint money then insist on having your name registered as part owner.
Finally if you could clarify something for me? In your original post you said there were 4 other managers including your partner. But in a later comment you said there were 5 people, 3 men and 2 women. Did you mean 4 other managers NOT including your partner? Or are there only 4 people not 5? Just curious.
They keep making fun of my insecurities, mostly on Twitter or Facebook. but i just ignore it and pretend i dont care. next is they keep having small talks about me in class. They know every little thing about me, how to trigger my anxiety or just make me angry. Like i said, i open up to them alot. We were really good friends.
Could the two of you be able to do some therapy together?
When you're depressed sometimes it's not right to be in a relationship. She needs time to heal and I think you do too.
It's just wild to me how many men can't stand a few months without sex around childbirth and will literally trash their whole relationship over it.
Honestly, you did the best thing. It’s best to let people handle uncomfortable situations in the way they see fit. She would have definitely been mortified had you gotten into a fight! Always deescalate.
If he says him mom doesn't like you, why would you expect him to bring you to her house?