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Date: November 4, 2022
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She'll keep ruining his relationships if he doesn't know. Show him the letter
Michael being gay is his business to tell. In some circles it is a safety risk to be outed- even casually like this. Not only is it incredibly irrelevant to the issue here that Michael is gay, it is straight up not anyone's business. The boyfriend is not entitled to know, especially considering Michael doesn't even know him.
I can't imagine considering for a second having a 5 year old in my house sitting there while everyone around them opened gifts. What a cruel thing to do!
If there is a guest in my home on Christmas when we are exchanging gifts there will be a gift for the guest. That means that I buy gifts for teenagers girlfriends, children of boyfriend/girlfriends or just a random friend who tags along.
Do you need to spend the same amount on this child as you do your grandchildren? No, not this year. But a gift of some sort would be gratefully accepted. Now, if the relationship continues next year she will probably get to be full grandchild level with the appropriate gifts.
OP grow a pair and move on tbh. You deserve better…be brave enough to believe it
You’re right. I’m just dwelling because it was my first serious relationship and we did all the typical things.. talked about marriage, traveling, dreams & kids together.
Honestly, she might be “using” him, but given the age difference and the fact that her brain hasn’t even stopped developing yet because she is 23… I’m on the “he’s a predator” train. I don’t think it really matters that she might be a gold digger or is an asshole, he is despicable. I feel bad for OP… and I feel bad for this girl, who might think she’s all high and mighty and be off on a power trip, but who is being robbed of a normal adolescent development.
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That man sounds dangerous. See what he says when you remind him that if you did say yes after repeatedly saying no and anything sexual happened that would be rape by coercion. No means no, and no means no the FIRST time.
are you talking about xie lian????
No winners here. Like yeah it seems you overstepped a boundary that I wouldn't want overstepped if I were your sister. But on the other hand, I'd certainly want to know the kind of person I'm potentially dealing with if I were the boyfriend.
Ikr, like fully grown and matured adults cannot be susceptible to manipulation?! Victim blaming around grooming, and any general manipulate needs to stop. Like can we stop blaming people for others taking advantage of them dammit.
Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments. No one is a mind reader. Maybe initiate a conversation about what sorts of things make her feel loved and appreciated, and then surprise her with some. But you make sure to communicate that since everyone has different perspectives on what that looks like, you need some direction. And hopefully she’ll do the same for you.
Thanks for the advice, you have pointed out strong cases too. It seems that I might have pushed too hard, I'll listen to your advice to be patient with her. I just hope the damage is not too severe from the cycle.
ME TOO!!! Before I got into the body of it I was doing long math where I calculated the quantity of the meal I just ate, the time since I stopped eating and how far through the digestive process it could be and whether it would be a full run to the bathroom or a wince and a hard swallow!
I've struggled with depression since my teens, at times worse than others and peeing in a container seems a lot more challenging and problematic than just shuffling to the bathroom. It could be a kink.
I understand what you mean, but I'm not sure that I would wish OP to leave. The husband won't get better because it it.
I don't know what has been done to address the depression from both parts, however, I know that if it has been going on for years, it can be exhausting. You wouldn't want to live with someone depressed either.
And by the way, good Luck to him for finding someone in that state… It will be easier to work in the problem he currently has.
Lol yeah. He just wanted to cheat and thought his wife was enough of a doormat she’s accept it and he wouldn’t have to bother lying.
Then continue to suffer, babes. Don't complain if you're not willing to change anything.
Boom, ROASTED!!
Hi ?
I got suspicious this fall over a relationship my husband (decades in) formed with a superior in a sport they officiate. He spent a full eight days with her in charge of a big event out of state. Then went back out of state to officiate an upcoming Olympic sport. I fully encouraged it.
After seeing them in person I sensed a connection. So I read his texts with her. She started it. He played along. None of it was sexual but not what husbands or in her case a higher boss in this sport should be saying. Period. I made him read me the texts out loud. He realized he messed up. Hurt me. I said if I texted someone that I worked with like that or a superior texted they missed being with me every day. How would you feel? If they chat or text he will fess up.
Anyway (this isn't about me but I feel you) call him out. Or if he'd freak about you reading his texts. Say something like “Hear me out. I find your relationship to be hard sometimes”. Try your best to keep calm. Just flip it. How would he feel if you gushed over a co-worker. Hired him. Saw him every day.
Have receipts or do your best like you did here! Good luck ?.
I will have so I needed to, but this is a public forum. I don’t know unless you block me that you get to decide that and by the way, I’m completely OK if you do that in fact, I think I’ll do it.
Why are you talking about/considering marriage when you're only dating? Not even exclusive but worrying about wedding costs?
You’re not a serious girlfriend to him. You’re someone he has sex with when you meet up, but in the weeks when you are apart he sees himself as a single man who can chat and probably fuck other girls.
But he’s also entitled and arrogant enough to expect you to behave like a nun sitting in a closet waiting for him to come and fuck you.
I’d dump him and leave him to his other girls. And make sure you get tested for STDs because you have no idea if he’s having safe sex away from you.
My ex did this and he was trying to get with underage girls. No matter what, it is not good. It would be a dealbreaker for me.
Nope, nope, nope.
People have no control over who they're attracted to; people have total control over acting on that attraction.
Your boyfriend made a deliberate, conscious choice to break the agreements in your relationship and pursue someone else. Polyamory being a part of their identity doesn't change that. He is responsible for his choices and behavior.
Hold him accountable.
If it bothered you, why did you stick around? It really sounds like you're sticking around to make her feel bad. Pretty sure that's not the general motivation for being in a relationship for most people.
You get over it or you get on down the road. Making this question more “how do I stop being me?”. You're the one doing this to you at this point.
Why?
i have tried that several times a few months ago, and he did get defensive and we got on the topic of a breakup. i got caught up in my feelings and tried to ignore it. i’ll try it one more time. i really hope it’s different this time
So just divorce. She's financially abusing you. Get a job. Don't ask her permission, you don't need it.
And since the kids are older now, if going before a judge, after a certain age in some places they have a bit of a say so don’t they? In my state, if your child is 10 they can decide what parent their residence is with. Even if they don’t they are about to go into high school so probably around 14? Hopefully they know their background. They understand who has raised them. I hope the best for this family. I can’t imagine being that age and being forced to be with someone I haven’t known my whole life. Definitely lawyer up OP. And trust your kids too. Let them have a voice as well.
I just had a mini-panic at the thought of being at that wedding, getting the pictures back and realising that your ‘white’ clothes had actually turned grey or yellowish. Can you imagine. The horror.
You’re an abusive piece of shit honestly. Tell him what you’ve done and then break up with the poor guy. You’re an actual monster
So she's divorcing her current ATM, and looking for her new ATM.
This is wild lmao