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Date: December 10, 2022
Because it's possible to be childfree but one might also recognize a sense of obligation to children that they've had, planned or not. Because it's not an either/or situation; because life is more complicated than that.
Because he can manipulate you. He’s having his cake and eating it. Get rid of him
She was projecting. She’s doing shady shit so she assumed you were too.
You don't you let her go and find someone who isn't taking advantage and misrepresenting who they are . Do not sleep with her …
Great point!
Social media is to blame for this. We are seeing the most attractive people possible on a daily basis online. Before the internet you’d be lucky to see someone as attractive in the span of an entire year. Now it’s in our faces all day, every day, and people are starting to believe that gorgeous people are only slightly above average in looks.
This is not something this son can do anything about. He can’t force his mom to like this lady. Nor can he force his gf to like his mom.
Probably, and I'd much rather that be the case tbh
Return the favor: Go to the basement, crank the music and bass.
I think therapy is an excellent idea. In fact, you should show this entire post to the therapist.
You really just don’t get it. You seem like you came here for validation because instead of listening to everyone tell you what you did wrong and how you could possibly even begin to apologise to her, you just keep repeating the same ignorant, self-cantered things.
She's already decided. I know it hurts, bro. It won't hurt for long.
If she isn't willing to defy her parents for your love, then I'd bounce. My wife very emphatically defied her parents, repeatedly. She'd do anything to be with me. I'd do anything to be with her. We have each proven this. Anything less is less than love.
I once dated a girl & her family rejected me, much like your situation. We pushed off our engagement for 4 years. Eventually, we got married & I thought I had won. I was very wrong. Every day, her father & sister would talk to her about me, saying awful lies & telling tales. Every day, she would listen without defending our relationship or defending my character. After a few years of this, they became bolder & started harassing me right to my face. Still, she said nothing. As they expected, this led to our mutual split. I was done with being mistreated & she had begun to believe the hateful lies from her family. Since we've parted ways, my life has dramatically improved. Better wife, better job, better house, better everything. I regret wasting so much time with her & her absurd family.
2nd wife has not spoken to her mother in almost 2 years, now. She even changed her phone number. Her parents were not invited to our wedding.
If dad says no, just politely walk away. If she doesn't go with you as you turn away, walk faster. Much faster. It is better, I think, to use your time building a relationship with someone else than to waste your time with someone that doesn't choose you first. She has, clearly, not chosen you first.
I know that's probably not what you'd like to hear, but that's what I see.
Best of luck, but hopefully you won't need it.
Also, you were working but you were a little drunk yourself? Story isn’t adding up, plus you’re straight up gaslighting her. To leave that big of bruises on her neck and arms is more than just “gently” restraining her. I actively include light choking in my sexual life, and I have not had bruises on my neck or arms like that. So considering you said you were also drunk, you seem to have a problem with drinking too (especially if it’s while working).
He's married. Cut it out.
Stop asking her to stop!!!
Ex-boyfriend. He is a manipulator. Don’t let him trick you. Walk away.
Is there any proof ? He doesn't have the receipt. He went out of his way to do this and there's no proof that he sent her anything.
So, we're all talking on line. We're all cheating? My stars, what a hussy I am with my husband fast asleep in the other room.
You go to the police
This isn’t even a “you” thing. Believe it or not, what he’s doing is extremely manipulative. He’s not doing it because he’s hurt or stressed. He’s doing it to control you, and to get his own way.
The fact that he’s now started doing it to his own son is a no-brainer.
I would probably make sure that his visits at first are supervised; that he is required to go to counseling for those visits; and counseling for you and your son as well.
This child needs to know that his father’s behavior is not his fault.
Thanks. She left immediately after our honeymoon thus there was not even enough time to adjust to the new “reality”.
I asked to go to couples therapy with me many times, but she straight out refused it. Kinda stating that nobody should tell her what to do.
You either have to split base on your salaries (so, him paying 4x what you pay) OR you pay 50/50 BUT with something that you can afford.
What's wrong with being friends with an ex I like platonically though
I think hallmark makes a “shit happens” card?
Out of pure jealousy, I fucking hate you so much.
This is 100% what is going on. This specific situation gets posted about 4 times a month on this sub. They usually have at the bottom of the post “Update: She wanted to bang her new coworker. We are now broken up.”
Changes made that are only because someone threatens to break up with you are not likely to stick.
It depends on the tone. If it was more like “what kind of employee would you want to work for you, what types of skillset are you looking for?” vs “who the hell would want to work for someone like you” those are two very different things that we can’t tell from this post.
did you say yes or have an agreement beforehand? no? then yes, it is rape and you need to get away from him. it is so disgusting how often this subject is posted.
You need to talk to him before you leave.
Say.
“I've seen your messages with (hername) and I find them highly inappropriate, you may think it's harmless or you just don't care, but to me there very inappropriate, and I'm not comfortable with your relationship with her outside of work and I don't want you seeing her outside of work at all. If you do go while I'm away I will take that as you have chosen her over our relationship. Boundaries need to be set with her. So the constant texting stops now, no more unless it is strictly about work, I also find it extremely disrespectful that in none of these chats have you mention me or your son as if your hiding us”..
He probably hasn't told her about you and is forming a relationship with her or already has, just because the messages ain't sexual doesn't mean they ain't in person.
Once you told him if he get confrontational then you have your answer an innocent person has nothing to worry about.
If it was me and my partner said hey I don't like your relationship with your Co worker I find it inappropriate and would like you not to meet them while I'm away, I'd be like ok no problem I won't meet them and stop texting unless it's for work.
Another thing is have they met outside of work before???
Because I find it oddly suspicious he doing it while you are away as if he going to bring her back to your place as if he single which could be why he hasn't mentioned you or your son
Hi all, and thank you everyone for your responses. To answer a few questions, they broke up a year ago, and we've been together a few months. I didn't (and still don't) know her, and I didn't start a relationship with him while they were still together. He definitely isn't cheating (I don't know when he would have the time lol, we're together 24/7 when we aren't working) and isn't the type to do so. He isn't hiding anything on his phone, he told me the password to it early on in case mine died and I needed to use it, and has been very open when she has contacted him asking for some boxes she had left in the loft (I was there with him when he took the call from her). The issue is genuinely guilt for hurting her, they had a good relationship for the most part, but weren't compatible in many ways and there were underlying issues in the relationship from the very beginning, so they fell out of love. She was living with him and his parents at the time when they broke up, and he feels immense guilt for her having to move back home to her mother who is basically trash and didn't look after or care for her and her siblings growing up. There's no sneakiness going on, and no pining, just a feeling of guilt and sadness for hurting someone he cared about once
Yeah I know I just don’t how him and his brother are close and I feel so bad for him he’s had such a hard life and he’s such in a shit town with parents who take all his money and he wants our help getting out he even wants to get a place with us
Anyone here that is saying that OP is fine to detach for a weekend a month, even when her partner has hurt feelings about….. Can I get your spouses number so I can call them and tell them that they are now free to leave for a weekend a month and disconnect from you?
Yeah not wanting to hide your virus from others, so ridiculous.