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delete her number, unfollow her from social media. focus on whatever is coming next: hobbies, studies, etc.
Really weird how he’s 30 and obsessing over something this childish. You sure you should be dating him, OP?
This isn’t as bad as I might have assumed just from the title alone. Maybe you just left out context, but over six dates, he never once asked what you want to do? That might have led to a natural transition into telling him you didn’t graduate.
He may very well not care what you do in the sense that maybe it doesn’t matter to him. He might be perfectly fine with your answer of being a bartender and left it at that. And that’s great. It’s still odd though that this conversation wouldn’t have happened (if it didn’t) as it’s a pretty standard topic in terms of thinking about your future and assessing compatibility.
Either way, there’s two things from that, one in terms of how you handle this from a relationship standpoint and one in terms of how you should consider handling things on a personal level. So first, I think on your next date you just come out with it directly. Something like “hey, I need to tell you something. I’ve been embarrassed to tell you, but if this is going to progress, I can’t go into it without being honest. I never graduated college. I got assaulted on campus which really negatively impacted me and I had to leave. I’m sorry I wasn’t up front about that but I think you should know.
I’m honestly worried the least about him being bothered about the lie by omission. Could you not having graduated be a turn off? Absolutely. Or maybe it’s not. Do you have a future plan? That’s going to potentially be important to him, but it certainly should be for you. Or maybe it won’t matter to him.
The second thing is your mental health. Like me stop here to say I’m so sorry with what you experienced and what you’re dealing with. I can’t even imagine. But just like your plan in terms of your future job/career/education, the present state of something doesn’t necessarily have to be a deal breaker. What’s generally important is how those things are being managed.
In saying that, you have PTSD. Pretty damn natural for a trauma you experienced. However, that’s something that needs to be actively worked on in order for not only you to be healthy, but to be able to have a real opportunity at a healthy relationship. Your PTSD and struggles with intimacy will naturally negatively impact any relationship you’re in unless it’s managed and ideally remediated. It’s easy to say that any partner should be patient and respect what you’ve dealt with (and they should), but that will only ever go so far. A partner can’t just be expected to deal with things as they are if their needs aren’t met, and that goes beyond sex to be clear.
So I know after reading that it’s probably even scarier. But you need to be honest and what will be will be. It’s ultimately going to come out, so better now than later. The most important thing is that your mental health is where you need it to be. The rest will follow. Good luck.
This is pretty wild – either you both have a very evident open dialogue about things, she's ignorant of how this will affect you or this is a directly intended to be hurtful. Unsure which. Perhaps she just figured “well you asked, so I'm telling”.
I guess this is a case of “if you don't want to know, don't ask”, but at least you can say she's being honest, for what little worth that is.
This would mean, for me, a big re-evaluation of what this relationship means to you both and how to move forward, as I would assume beyond the initial “issues” with her Exes when you first were together (but not exclusive) you didn't have problems?
Perhaps it's worth exploring a form of couples counselling or therapy to handle this?
While there's many that do, I'm sure, only think of their partners I'm pretty certain that while reluctant to admit it some do think of other people – but that's a rabbit hole and mess all by itself on where you draw the line on it being “OK” unless you consistently do so and who/what you fantasise about.
As an example, I've known of one couple where, due to one person having a kink the other wouldn't remotely entertain, they had to fantasise about said kink when having sex at times in order to enjoy it – their partner was aware and was alright with it given it was what they “needed” to do in order to work as a couple and it was a compromise.
That’s the only thing you could buy yourself to let you commemorate this achievement? You really couldn’t just let her enjoy giving you something thoughtful and find some other present to give yourself?
You were a jerk. Apologize.
If your friends and family are telling you it’s toxic, it’s probably toxic. People are capable of disguising their true intentions with the guise of good. Seems like he’s trying to isolate you to himself. It’s been three months, you should not even be considering a future with him if you’re having issues already.
I’m an abuse survivor. If he is exhibiting controlling behaviors now (such as constantly going through your phone, socials, etc.) it will only get worse.
Also, it appears he’s been “love-bombing” you, masking it as assisting you get over some harmful behaviors.
He doesn’t trust you, which will make the controlling behaviors worse. Listen to your loved ones; they can see the truth, even with biased eyes.
Please reconsider this relationship, abuse can start out small and end large. He will always find something YOU can improve, but will in turn improve nothing himself.
We’ve suggested counseling a while back but since the job switch and moving it kinda fell off to the way side. Now that we’re adjusted I’ll bring it up again. And you’re right: people can only get helped if they want it
You should be the one on the deathbed. Your poor wife deserved a life, where as you…
Abusers make you at fault for everything they do.
They NEVER take responsibility.
Also you sure he’s even going to therapy or just telling you he’s going?
He's very good at manipulation and I'm hopelessly head over heels for him. No one else has ever made me feel this way and he makes me the happiest I've ever been.
Digital art and physical art are quite different tho and if she doesn’t already do digital primarily it does take a while to get used to. Kinda like asking them to learn a new skill on top of the gift lmao I’d go with second option