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ive been going to a therapist since middle school, primarily for my anxiety. i think i was making pretty good progress until going to college, and then i got a lot worse. i'm working on separating my anxiety from my sense of self, and believing peoples actions and words rather than listening to the voice in my head that says they don't really like me.
i think it's fully possible that im just in a bad spot and it'll get better, i have good days and bad ones and i try to be easy on myself, but i think you and the rest of the commenters are right that i should wait until it /is/ better to be in a relationship. thank u for taking the time to respond and help out
So when would he consider having kids? While in school, while working, or only after he has his own firm?
How does he imagine being able to work full-time as a lawyer, and being able to being a present parent?
’m in nursing and we’d both like me to be stay at home mom once he is done with school
I hope you will discuss prenups….a lot of lawyers are terrible and don't really appreciate what their SAHS does. Some would never consider paying into their spouse's pension etc. so that they are protected.
Cancel the reservations… tell her youre sorry a GAME has ruined the relationship so much that u cannot take her to the planned dinner she had u cancel. Then explain u will no longer game with her bc she over reacts If she cannot communicate better than this at 27 years old perhaps some distance would be good.
Thank you, yes we are both separately in therapy and planning to get couples counseling as well to help us and give us tricks to navigate through our respective issues. Again, thank you for reading me and advising me in a empathetic non judgmental way. It’s worth gold to me !!! ❤️
I’ve tried explaining in the most sensitive way that, that’s just who I am. The responses I get from that are, “So I’m just settling” or “How is it so hard for you do this” or “I’d do it for you”.. I think I understand that she wants to connect with me which I try and do by telling her things I remember in a timely manner, but what do you when you feel like you are tested for everything? This issue mainly happens whenever it’s my friends. For example, It could be a night out with my friends, or even a phone call, but when I come back in the house best believe I better say everything that happened so she won’t get even more upset. She’s upset before I even get the chance like cmon man. I don’t want to talk to you when you’re like that. Maybe I could work on that myself but sometimes I’m at a lost for words.
Dude. Why is she in a club with you at home? She doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship if she is still wanting to be out partying without you and doing those things for drinks. Like others have said what would she do for a bottle? You know what needs to be done. Send her back to the streets.
Shoving something in a random drawer it doesn’t belong in just so it’s not in sight is not being tidy and organised. It’s fake tidiness and is not superior
Two words: break up. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants to mess around with other dudes and come home to you. You’re the fall back, the safe guy. Do yourself a favor and move on. Go find a girl who truly loves and respects you!
ive been going to a therapist since middle school, primarily for my anxiety. i think i was making pretty good progress until going to college, and then i got a lot worse. i'm working on separating my anxiety from my sense of self, and believing peoples actions and words rather than listening to the voice in my head that says they don't really like me.
i think it's fully possible that im just in a bad spot and it'll get better, i have good days and bad ones and i try to be easy on myself, but i think you and the rest of the commenters are right that i should wait until it /is/ better to be in a relationship. thank u for taking the time to respond and help out
So when would he consider having kids? While in school, while working, or only after he has his own firm?
How does he imagine being able to work full-time as a lawyer, and being able to being a present parent?
’m in nursing and we’d both like me to be stay at home mom once he is done with school
I hope you will discuss prenups….a lot of lawyers are terrible and don't really appreciate what their SAHS does. Some would never consider paying into their spouse's pension etc. so that they are protected.
Get out asap. Sort out your finances. You don't need a husband to have a child. You still have time.
Don't burn yourself to keep someone else warm.
Tell your wife to find a handsome gym buddy.
Cancel the reservations… tell her youre sorry a GAME has ruined the relationship so much that u cannot take her to the planned dinner she had u cancel. Then explain u will no longer game with her bc she over reacts If she cannot communicate better than this at 27 years old perhaps some distance would be good.
a better way to find which men aren't naïve
Thank you, yes we are both separately in therapy and planning to get couples counseling as well to help us and give us tricks to navigate through our respective issues. Again, thank you for reading me and advising me in a empathetic non judgmental way. It’s worth gold to me !!! ❤️
I’ve tried explaining in the most sensitive way that, that’s just who I am. The responses I get from that are, “So I’m just settling” or “How is it so hard for you do this” or “I’d do it for you”.. I think I understand that she wants to connect with me which I try and do by telling her things I remember in a timely manner, but what do you when you feel like you are tested for everything? This issue mainly happens whenever it’s my friends. For example, It could be a night out with my friends, or even a phone call, but when I come back in the house best believe I better say everything that happened so she won’t get even more upset. She’s upset before I even get the chance like cmon man. I don’t want to talk to you when you’re like that. Maybe I could work on that myself but sometimes I’m at a lost for words.
This is a good idea.
Dude. Why is she in a club with you at home? She doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship if she is still wanting to be out partying without you and doing those things for drinks. Like others have said what would she do for a bottle? You know what needs to be done. Send her back to the streets.
Literally anyone else’s perspective
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Shoving something in a random drawer it doesn’t belong in just so it’s not in sight is not being tidy and organised. It’s fake tidiness and is not superior
Not if he's doing it because he gets turned on by “feeling naughty and wrong”
Two words: break up. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants to mess around with other dudes and come home to you. You’re the fall back, the safe guy. Do yourself a favor and move on. Go find a girl who truly loves and respects you!