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Date: December 9, 2022
So the fire symbol means they have a streak, if there is a number next to the streak it’s how many days they’ve held that streak. I’d be inclined to believe he’s cheating since he’s lying about never talking to her and very obviously has been. The only way that symbol pops up is if there has been communication from both parties in 24 hours.
I hope you guys get into some form of counseling because I’ve seen your comments about not wanting to throw away your marriage, but honestly, he doesn’t seem to be very trustworthy and counseling can’t change that.
If these rolls were reversed, and it was a woman saying that she has insecurities about a certain sex act, and her man was pressuring her to do it anyways, all of these responses would be so different.
Marriage shouldn’t automatically give her half. It’s a relationship, not a get rich quick scheme.
Nowhere in the post does OP say that her best friend expressly has been asking her to keep his sexuality secret. Nowhere in the post does OP say that this friend is in the closet.
Sorry – sometimes it is better not to believe all what you read. It was clearly great because you did it and it meant something.
It's understandable that you would be worried about the potential financial and emotional burden of taking on a partner with this condition. Your concern for your quality of life is also very valid, and I am sorry that you feel so weighed down by these worries right now. From what you have shared, it sounds like there is an ethical component to this decision-making process as well.
I recommend speaking to either a genetic counselor or a doctor who specializes in neurological disorders so that they can provide factual information regarding the specifics of the disorder and its implications on pregnancy outcomes and parenting responsibilities. You could even speak generally to both your current therapist and/or primary care physician about any lingering concerns that may come up during your research into this disease and how it will potentially impact all parts of your life down the line—including mental health, finances, social connections, etc. The more informed insight you can get before making a decision here, the better since it is impossible to know what lies ahead once such big changes begin to take place in one’s life due to marriage or parenthood at their age now. Ultimately no matter which path these conversations guide you down – best wishes for whatever comes next for yourself!
Well, sadly, the point of this sub is mainly entertainment, so it makes sense that most people care more about giving their perspective on what they would do more than actually giving useful advice :p You would hope that people on here would understand the limits of their own knowledge and experience, but that’s probably expecting too much from reddit haha
Have to chuckle….
Why is it always one woman + one guy …..and one of them is “hungry”
for some strange? I get so tired of this bullshit.
Does the OP know anything about how this really works because from his
post it sounds like he was jerkin-off while he was writing this.
BTW: The numbers are against you, kid.
Voyeurism is almost…not quite….but almost exclusively a Male predilection.
Get a Life.
I've tried to talk to her about how much the lack of physical intimacy bothers me and it really felt like she just didn't care.
This says it all really.
You're on the verge of a dead bedroom while dating (a dead bedroom is sex 10 times a year or less).
This is not going to ever change for the better as your GF doesn't care about your needs.
Updoot for the username.
It's not impossible. My pelvic bone completely separated and couldn't walk after giving birth. Do exercises. I see A LOT of excuses in your comments. Don't give excuses if you expect him to not give excuses. You say yourself that you have a high metabolism. Must be nice
Yep, makes sense.
It's like being called “Hot for a 5.”
I thank you. He does need me here. Not for the bills per se, but needs me nonetheless. As I need him. But I don't need to feel like that. All I've ever wanted was someone to appreciate me. I'm the girl that gives 110% to get kicked in the face. There's a few of us out there. I know.
I'd like to echo the “adopt her” position. She won't have to travel between schools anymore. I'm pretty sure any judge worth their salt would grant you custody of your other child if in a divorce you ask for a bio kid and a bonus kid. Your wife would be in a Catch-22. She would either have to fight for both children or neither because what court would split siblings with such a close relationship? And what parent would ask for one and not the other? That alone would make an official pause.
You are an amazing parent. Thank you for making sure your children grow from love.
The thing is she said she was fully clothed when she woke up, on her period, and said it didn’t feel like they had sex the next morning. So now I am stuck with did some guy actually just follow her home, or did she bring him back and then they didn’t have sex cause she was on her period
If you want expensive gifts, you should have chosen someone who's older and has an established job. Who expects expensive gifts from a 21 year old who probably hasn't even finished education?
I'm buying him gifts at the same frequency. I'm not score-keeping in my relationship. Thanks for your advice.
It's ok!!
Please tell him. He deserves to know.
Do not sell your house….having a house with a low interest rate is everything. Do you want kids? Does she? Then having a house in a great neighborhood is also everything. She’s so hung up on city living, are you? I loved living in a city from 25-28 then I was all about the burbs!
I completely agree, it's definitely not cheating but you don't have to stay together just because he didn't cheat. Totally unacceptable behaviour
Take a pregnancy test so you know for sure.
He sounds like a loser. I don't know that you are ethically required to even tell him about the pregnancy. I have met women who chose not to have their “sperm donor” involved in their affairs.
It doesn’t sound like she’s belittling it. It sounds more like you’re pressuring/annoying her with this and not taking no for an answer.
Would your parents consider relocating? Resentment is not something you want to have in a marriage. If there's no way for you to feel at home with him, it will never work.
I gotta be honest OP, I wouldn't date someone who had a history of hiring sex workers, nor would I date someone who was comfortable pushing you levels of comfort the way you're describing. I don't know that I have advice, but I definitely don't see you being unreasonable here. He knows it's a touchy subject, you've raised concerns and he isn't taking your feelings into consideration.
That said, if he's gonna sleep with prostitutes on a vacation to Thailand while he's dating you, then he's going to sleep with prostitutes on a vacation to any other location, while he's dating you.
The location isn't the issue. You don't trust him not to cheat on you. And, unfounded or not, that's the situation you need to work on resolving with him, or you need to walk away.
If you fuck it up bad enough, she may just stop asking…. Just throwing it out there.
Have you told your friends all of this?
I feel like you haven’t even done the gender flip here to see how he feels;
How would you feel if he was “just being honest” when he described how his ex had the perfect body, was sexually insatiable, satisfied him figuratively and literally in ways that you objectively never can because you don’t measure up physically or emotionally.
And then after that he was annoyed not only that you’d asked, but told you your “insecurity is unattractive”?
You just stomped all over likely large parts of this man’s very personal ego, and now you’re annoyed that he isn’t just “getting over it”?
I suspect if he told you that, in full honesty, you’d dump him on the spot – especially if a couple of weeks later he was annoyed that you weren’t putting out enough.
The double standard is pretty glaring.
Dude, I appreciate where you're coming from, but you are making the classical mistake of male hyperagency. That somehow you're just able to get over this ASAP. I can appreciate how you're being intellectually honest about some actually complex emotional feelings.
Thank you!
So she got mad because she was drunk texting you at 2am and you didn't respond. This isn't normal behavior, move along along with your life without her.
But that is not a discussion. That is making a decision for the both of you and then you get upset for not listening to your partner
LOL Too true! When I (59/f) was a preteen, I used to go to Church with my Aunt, her cheating husband, my Uncle-by-marriage and my 4 Cousins, youngest was a baby still breastfeeding.
There was a woman who can only be described as a floozy, total man-shark! She was newly divorced and VISIBLY on the prowl, very inappropriate low-cut (sometimes see-through) blouses/short, tight skirts or body-hugging dresses.
She HIT on every man, whether they were married or not, young or old while dragging her 2 young children along with her to witness her embarrassingly sexual displays. I certainly was embarrassed for her children.
I don't know if anything untoward actually happened between this woman and my “Uncle” but I DO know that shortly after she set her sights on my Uncle, they moved a couple of States away. Their marriage only lasted another 5 years or so.
I went to a few more different churches on my own after they moved but was always astonished that there was at least one such woman in attendance at each. To this day I'm still not sure if these women THOUGHT they were subtle or not, but if it was obvious to ME at such a young age, so the “grownups” HAD to be aware!
It's just ONE of the many reasons that I stopped participating in “organized” religion. I think church is a great place to meet a partner, but HOPEFULLY they aren't someone else's at the time!
LOL Too true! When I (59/f) was a preteen, I used to go to Church with my Aunt, her cheating husband, my Uncle-by-marriage and my 4 Cousins, youngest was a baby still breastfeeding.
There was a woman who can only be described as a floozy, total man-shark! She was newly divorced and VISIBLY on the prowl, very inappropriate low-cut (sometimes see-through) blouses/short, tight skirts or body-hugging dresses.
She HIT on every man, whether they were married or not, young or old while dragging her 2 young children along with her to witness her embarrassingly sexual displays. I certainly was embarrassed for her children.
I don't know if anything untoward actually happened between this woman and my “Uncle” but I DO know that shortly after she set her sights on my Uncle, they moved a couple of States away. Their marriage only lasted another 5 years or so.
I went to a few more different churches on my own after they moved but was always astonished that there was at least one such woman in attendance at each. To this day I'm still not sure if these women THOUGHT they were subtle or not, but if it was obvious to ME at such a young age, so the “grownups” HAD to be aware!
It's just ONE of the many reasons that I stopped participating in “organized” religion. I think church is a great place to meet a partner, but HOPEFULLY they aren't someone else's at the time!
LOL Too true! When I (59/f) was a preteen, I used to go to Church with my Aunt, her cheating husband, my Uncle-by-marriage and my 4 Cousins, youngest was a baby still breastfeeding.
There was a woman who can only be described as a floozy, total man-shark! She was newly divorced and VISIBLY on the prowl, very inappropriate low-cut (sometimes see-through) blouses/short, tight skirts or body-hugging dresses.
She HIT on every man, whether they were married or not, young or old while dragging her 2 young children along with her to witness her embarrassingly sexual displays. I certainly was embarrassed for her children.
I don't know if anything untoward actually happened between this woman and my “Uncle” but I DO know that shortly after she set her sights on my Uncle, they moved a couple of States away. Their marriage only lasted another 5 years or so.
I went to a few more different churches on my own after they moved but was always astonished that there was at least one such woman in attendance at each. To this day I'm still not sure if these women THOUGHT they were subtle or not, but if it was obvious to ME at such a young age, so the “grownups” HAD to be aware!
It's just ONE of the many reasons that I stopped participating in “organized” religion. I think church is a great place to meet a partner, but HOPEFULLY they aren't someone else's at the time!
Like I said you need to get to the bottom of this if you want to smooth things over. By getting to the bottom of it I meant ask him directly why this fight between children is still bothering him.
You don't have to if you don't want to and just let him sulk and hold onto this grudge he's quietly held onto for 20 some years.
Really, reverse the roles of the comment I answered to and tell me if it's ok.
You can do whatever you want, that's fine. You can't expect your ex to be okay with it, if you happen to get back together.
I would put your teens protection over the relationship.
She wouldn't be this hung up on this particular guy if it's going to be a no strings one time thing. I would also guess that the threesome was her idea to begin with? I would probably reevaluate the relationship, it sounds like she's looking for permission to cheat, she's invested in this guy.
Jesus Op I’m sorry to hear about the tumour. You must be scared shitless, I hope everything goes ok with chemo and medical stuff. I hope your friends and family have been supporting you through that. I’ve had multiple family members get a cancer diagnosis. In terms of your girlfriend I think she didn’t want you watching porn as she would turn it into a screaming match about cheating and other excuses. But she can watch porn instead. She sounds like an attention seeking drama queen. Making excuses to gaslight you. I’d just break up with her and find someone healthier to date and focus on your healing journey. Good luck OP
dude
you're selfish and disgusting.
and entitled
Well, I highly doubt it's because they're the same age.
Being held hostage in any way by someone else’s anxiety is a suffocating experience that breeds resentment. You don’t just love through it. I have empathy for you and for him here. I truly hope you do work through this. Because it’s absolutely possible.
Because phobias are curable by those who actually intend to do what they can to get over them, I would have hoped that he’d try to stick by you as you got through it. But I also know a fair share of people with anxiety that just let anxiety wreck them instead of fighting through the tougher parts of their disorder, and I can’t blame anyone for not wanting to stick around when that’s a likely scenario. You saying you don’t know if you’ll be able to travel again makes me doubt that he thought you would get better.
What you do here is not just hope that you get better. You do the exposure therapy and other techniques that get people through this and you GET BETTER. For you. If you happen to link up with him again after you’ve gotten better that’s a bonus, but the person you need to focus on now is you. His love didn’t have conditions – people have limits.
She doesn't have to be out for you to just… not have sex with her.
Thank you, sound advice here 🙂 appreciate this & your time!
Walking away is the first thing, but think carefully before telling the husband. If I was the husband, I'd want to know, and likely thank you for saying so, but, that's me. Consider whether they have kids, but if she doesn't, I wouldn't hesitate for a second.
Trust her until she gives you a reason not to.
She has given you a reason not to.
This kind of cheating will destroy you. Because you’re going in almost belly up. Vulnerable with no protection so I would tell you not to do it. Nobody is worthless and I agree with you. I don’t think she’s capable of staying faithful.
He might be going through a midlife crisis. It's not on you. It is all him. Some guys think that screw around without consequences. Let him go from hookup to hookup, having meaningless sex and a bad case of either gonorrhea or herpes. At 40, that is pretty dismal. The good thing for you is that you dodged that bullet. And he is sattled with that unhinged walking sex toy.
You came out better with a lesson learned. Figure out what you want and go after it.
Best of luck!
Yeah that's probably right
Are you fucking kidding me? Gtfo. I don’t think you have a gf anymore and rightly so.
Check out her comments in the legal advice thread.
OP admits that she hopes that her son divorces his wife so that she can see her grandchildren more.
Don't come up with interesting topics. Make it about her. You're a talk show host and she's your guest. interview her and learn more about her, what she likes, what she does, what her life is like, etc.
Don't, the age gap is gross.
When you are 40 he'll be 63, that's hot, right?
My girlfriend is also more messy than me and has a higher tolerance for dirt and trash. It has gotten a lot better since we introduced the “responsibility principle”. It means that whoever is responsible for a mess, like after cooking, also has to clean it up.
She still leaves stuff everywhere, but it has gotten a lot better… probably because she knows no one will clean it up after her and she will have to do it herself eventually.
The daughter would really benefit from being away from her mother.
Haven’t you already talked to him?
Time for action.
Girl log off of reddit
Just read the first part. He's insecure. You gonna stick around and try to fix him? You're young, think hard about that.