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Date: November 26, 2022
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Personally, I would not be the same person I am today without making the big move on my own to a large city. This will be a core developmental time for him and hopefully it brings you two closer together.
How far is the drive to him? Additionally, how old are you two? I would like to say that these things are worth waiting to see what happens, but these two definitely play a factor in your decision making.
Perhaps after he has been at this job longer he will be able to take off some days to come back and see you as well. It can be hard when you’re just starting out and wanting to make that good impression. I hope things look up for the holidays!
This is a tricky situation. But based on what you have presented here I surmise Your girl got a little drunk. Ended up in a situations she didn’t need. She Felt remorse/ guilt or a combination of feelings and emotions. There are only a few ways this can be dealt with. Your girls personality will help you decide. But most girls would feel ashamed, not because they should but society judges the victims of sexual assault harshly. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong. But some girls would and do feel multiple emotions. Some justified others are her brain processing all that transpired. I personally would find myself riddled with questions. Replay info every memory I could recall. I would Burt’s out with anger and go hunting for the person. But that’s not a healthy response either. And this isn’t my story.
It’s probable that she may have been a little intoxicated? Things got out of hand but was stopped. She may have been embarrassed because she allowed herself more drinks that she should have. But one thing is for certain. She needs you and she trusts you. Don’t fail her now. Encourage her to exhaust the options available to her. The two primary would be a rape kit option and at the very least seek therapy. Sexual assault or rape or whatever label she chooses to address it by can and will manifest in every subsequent relationship she has. And that doesn’t limit it to sexual relationships. It could manifest in friendships as trust issues it could manifest at work at school or anywhere even between she and you. Therapy is a key option. The rape kit because she doesn’t know what this guy exposed her to if there was more than just fondling involved. The key take away is for her to have these available if she chooses to proceed later. And for her to not just survive but to live forward from it. A plus for you is that she sees you as someone she can trust. Proceed delicately because this could be a make or break moment for you. She trusts you enough to tell you. She feels safe with you, don’t screw it up by forming decisions based in incomplete facts. Call the friend that helped her. Get more information. Then you can can formulate a game plan. But if nothing else. Encourage the rape kit. She may not want or feel up to prosecuting right now. She’s probably still in shock. But she still has the statute of limitations to prosecute. But she can’t get there without the kit. And a rape trial without evidence becomes a smear campaign. Stand by her but brace yourself, because any defense attorney will paint a picture of her being loose with her morals. And that my friend will challenge the very way you see her. But forget about all of that. Now she needs the rape kit and she needs to feel safe. !! Encourage her to talk but don’t become pushy. Exercise the friendship aspect of your relationship. The last thing she needs is to feel as if your trying to get busy. Safe cuddling, clothes on, on the couch. No sexual jokes or innuendos. Just safe space conversation. At the same don’t sterilize your interactions to where they become clinical. She need to feel normal. Keep it organic but safe. The thing about the human mind is that it can store so many things. Things we don’t recall until the worst possible moment. So in innocence if you were to cuddle in the bed and you innocently rested your hand on her shoulder, for example, that could trigger a memory of her assailant trying to hold her down. This could cause damage to your relationship. Encourage her to explore every option without judgment. And stay away from alcohol for the time being. She will use that as a crutch if she’s having trouble dealing with the emotional weight. That weight is what you will need to encourage her to come forward. But being devils advocate. If this is a farce to cover some less than ladylike behaviors. Be prepared to handle it now, but address it later. I’m not saying that’s the case. And certainly don’t approach the situation now. But just be prepared to explore any and all information you uncover. And remind her if this person is somebody she knows and sees regularly in passing, each encounter will be a jolt to her self esteem. Hatred and anger will take hold. Because each interaction, no matter how benign, will tear open that wound each time. Over and over.
You can’t have a ldr without trust. He’s already proven that he can no longer be trusted. No, I don’t think you should continue this relationship.
Her dad is in the picture and we coparent well. He is married and she has a step brother. Yes I was seeing a virtual therapist I really liked for a while but stopped because insurance didn’t cover it. I do take medication and am familiar with attachment styles. I know I have an anxious attachment style. And I’m with someone now that doesn’t make me feel “crazy” but I feel terrible that I keep having these feelings for my ex. I want them to go away. Especially hearing input for an outside prospective that there’s a reason it didn’t work. Maybe if I didn’t have to see him everyday I wouldn’t be thinking about him.
As a parent who has made some communication mistakes with my kids because of my own shitty learned communication from my family, I would say yes your husband was in the wrong. Were you very passive aggressive in how you told him he was wrong, yes. Maybe have a conversation with your husband about how you both can handle your sons sleeping issues ahead of time so It’s not something your deciding at 1 in the morning. Be on the same page. Maybe have a convo with your husband about how he spoke with your son and how it made him feel. It’s ok for him to tell his son in the morning that how he behaved last night was not ok and explain how it will be dealt with going forward. Then he will feel better about parting in the morning on good terms once the anger is resolved. I think the whole family could benefit from some better communication all around.
It was before you met. Everything she ever did before you two became a couple has nothing to do with you. You sound controlling and immature. You dislike the friend because of how close they are? Has he done anything else? Or do you want to isolate her from her friends?
Why are you ok with being so far down his priority list?
Truthful observations that are just factual would be “the chocolate is brown”. The differenve between that and the comments he makes abour ur body is the intention behind them. He wants u to feel hurt and insecure. Dump the trash u're too gorgeous to waste time with a dick.